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  1. D_Albert Greennut

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    Hey guys.
    This seems to be the safest place to post this with people who actually know what to answer and know how to answer.
    Let me begin: Im 18 and still a virgin.
    Now, a lot of people will say "that's normal", but the thing is, I really dont want to be a virgin anymore. I want to experience sex. Im definitely not a bad looking guy (girls have called me good looking), but I still cant seem to get lucky. There are two girls I have in mind that I want to fuck. One is a friend that Ive had forever, for like 7 years now, but I dont think thats going to happen as we're like brother and sister. The second is a friend who I think given the opportunity might like to mess around with me, as we have talked online a lot of sex and stuff, and I even told her my size (7-7.5") and she was kinda shocked in a good way about it. How would I get her to start fooling around with me? She is definitely not a virgin by any means. Any help?

    I'm in college, but it seems that out of all the colleges I could have picked, I chose the most prude college ever. Its not even a faith based school! It just seems like the girls want a relationship before they do anything with me, and I really dont want to be in a relationship at this point, just a NSA fuck! Sorry, Im ranting. What can I do? Can anyone help me get laid?
     
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    I'm one too lol.
     
  4. B_henry miller

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    You're a stud, NineInchCock_160IQ. I love your succinctness.

    By the way, how do websites like this exist? I'd be scared to be the girls or to be the guy picking up a girl. String operations, etc.
     
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    A better question would be how do laws outlawing prostitution exist?

    It's okay for consenting adults to have sex. It's okay to give people money. It's okay for "actors" and "actresses" to have sex on camera in pornographic films. It's okay to pay for strip teases or lap dances. Do some of the above in the wrong order or under the wrong pretext, though, and then you might be in trouble.

    Basically, all they have to do is say that you are giving them a donation for time or a massage or for escort or modeling services, all of which are legal, and then whatever happens after the donation is given is just something that occurred between two consenting adults. It's almost impossible to prosecute and law enforcement doesn't really care anyway. It's mostly the brothels and street walkers they target. Those are what generate complaints.
     
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    I agree. I think it should be legal. But where I live they have stings now and then and poor dopes trying to get laid end up losing their cars and going to jail. Doesn't seem worth the risk for an orgasm. Safer to try to coax a woman in to bed or just beat off.
     
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    They lose their cars because they are using their cars to pick up undercover cops on the street posing as streetwalkers.

    and they're idiots.
     
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    Your question would seem to make sense, however you have to understand that in poverty stricken areas, prostitutes are usually accompanied by crime, gangs, and drugs, abusive pimps, turf wars, and basically a lot of not so good stuff. It is true that "high end" prostitutes dont carry alot of this with them in their work, but in some neighboorhoods, the presence of prostitutes brings this element along with them, and along with that making neighborhoods unsafe more children.
     
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    That's the perception.
     
  10. B_NineInchCock_160IQ

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    Anyway, kplete, if you want to fuck that girl at your school, and you know she's not a virgin, and you've already been talking about your junk, just get her alone somewhere watching a movie or something. Try to hold her hand. If that works try to put your arm around her. If that works try some basic cuddling. If that works, kiss her already. You can figure out the rest. It's not that hard.
     
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    Yeah. I'm aware of why they lose their cars. Thanks for the explanation anyway.

     
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    I am pretty much in the same boat you are, and I'm older. So don't feel bad.

    I have been told I am good looking too, I just don't have any luck.

    Good luck to you.
     
  13. StraightCock4Her

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    You'd be amazed at how much honesty works. Just ask them "innocently" if they are attracted to you and ask them to help you get laid by stripping and rideing your cock. Then move into the conversation from there. Lol.

    No, really though, be straight forward. I wouldn't ruin a good friendship just because you want to get banged. Friendships are very rare. Ass to fuck isn't. Sex ruins friendships!
     
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    18 isn't old to "still" be a virgin. But if you have sex just for the sake of having sex you will end up regretting it. By no means do you need to be in a relationship with the girl but you should want to be with her for a better reason then just wanting to lose your virginity.

    However if you do want to get this girl into bed id do it the old fashioned way with dinner and a movie. And be truthful and tell her your a vrigin before you get her into bed
     
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    Good point. 18 is hardly old to be a virgin. The promiscuousness of this generation is abnormal, not the other way around. There was a day when people were virgins when they got married -- in their 20s! Granted, that day was about 50 years ago. But I also tend to think there were fewer unwanted pregnancies and STDs back in those days as well.

    I'm not saying we should return to the sexual oppression of the 40s, 50s, etc., but that there's a flipside to sexual oppression: sexual coercion, sexual pressure. You shouldn't feel pressured to have sex before you want to have sex. And if it hasn't happened for you by the age of 18, so what. It will happen soon enough.
     
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    Exactly. I find it almost scary that anyone would feel they had left it late to be a virgin at 18. i was 19 and i wouldn't have wanted to lose my virginity any younger then that

    Makes you think is all this information and openness about sex making it to much of a 'casual' thing where any accidents aren't permanent so worry about the repercussions if/when they happen
     
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    there is no rush and your you will remember your first time. You will know dinner and movie are a good idea added to a bit of fluting..... it is fun talk about and around sex until you are both hot for each other. And yes tell her you are a virgin ... manage expectations and she may even get excited at the idea of being your first
     
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    I haven't been a convincing virgin for a really long time so I haven't been able to try this to see how it works... but it's novel... it's simple... I like it. Asking for "help" with your first time from a friend. Let us know how it goes.
     
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    and before that people were married at 12 and having kids at 17. He sounds ready. No sense rushing it, but no sense waiting, either.
     
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