Virginities...

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  1. Imported

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    Hapi Papi: I was wondering about this and I can't remember if I'd asked or anyone else had asked before, but for those of you guys here... how old were you when you lost your virginity and was your size a reason for sex?

    I've always wondered if those who start having sex at 10-15 do so because they may not have an average size for those ages. Maybe there are other circumstances that lead to it as well.
     
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    This is an interesting topic and I'd like to know what others' experiences are, since I consider myself to have been a late bloomer in terms of having sex with someone other than myself ;)

    But, could you clarify the question, since you refer specifically to guys? Straight guys, gay guys or both? And do you mean any kind of sex with someone else, or specifically fucking/getting fucked?
     
  3. Imported

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    TripodMillenium: Still so inexperienced, myself.... >_< :(


    Even though I don&#39;t sound like it.... :rolleyes: :p


    Guess that&#39;s what happens when sex is a hand and some informative mature reading material.... Or just a good picture that inspires ideas.... :p
     
  4. Imported

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    Garibaldi Biscuit: 26 years old, still in full posession of virginity. :)

    It saddens me when I see younger guys so desperate to rid themselves of their virginity, often throwing themselves into the first sexual opportunity they can find and complaining about how it &#39;wasn&#39;t that great&#39; later. I&#39;ve been in situations in the past when I could have &#39;rid&#39; myself of mine but it really would have been just for the sake of it, as I had no real, emotional attachment to the other person.

    I don&#39;t consider being a virgin to automatically mean ignorant in sensual ways, as the time I&#39;ve spent looking for a partner whom I care for to have sex with for the first time has also been spent consuming every scrap of information I can lay my hands on concerning satisfying sex. Not to mention the strange and subtle differences regarding what men and women expect and want from sex, forewarned is forearmed as they say.

    Sure, there are times it gets frustrating, and I feel like going out with an eye to bed the first willing body I can lay my hands on. Yet I really do feel that when I do experience this with someone who matters to me that it will be something amazing as a result, who knows I may then fling myself into a series of one-night stands once I&#39;ve got a taste for it but all I know for sure is that this &#39;first time&#39; now holds an enormous, expectant power and I won&#39;t waste that.
     
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    Wow. This topic is starting out in a surprising fashion.

    I was 25 when I lost my virginity to my bride on my wedding night.

    Size was a challenge but not a factor.
     
  6. Imported

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    Artema: I was 22, had sex with some chick from a bar. I had to have more, so I met my now wife and had lots of sex with her. Now married to her, and wish we had sex more often, hehe.
     
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    i lost mine when i was 18 prom night :lol:
    good times
     
  8. Pappy

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    I don&#39;t remember my exact age, around 10 or 11 and I think she was 14. I think my size was the reason.
     
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    14. It was actually how I found out I was well-endowed; I was completely clueless before that.
     
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    I was 19, second year at university. When I first got really big during puberty, I thought I was gonna be king of the world, but then the few times in high school when I thought I was gonna get lucky, I got the "downgrade" to a blowjob or even the downgrade from a blowjob to a handjob due to my size. That rather deflated my opinion of myself; for a couple of years I was genuinely afraid that I&#39;d never be permitted to perform vaginal intercourse.

    The breakthrough came when I ran into the female cousin of a childhood friend, at university, for whom I&#39;d had the hots for a long time. I thought things went pretty well, and was quite pleased that she could accomodate me with no complaint, but the second date never happened. The next two dates were friends of hers, though, I guess the word got out and they wanted to try "it" for themselves. I had become a novelty act. But the third girl, who seemed quite willing enough during the act, later had to be checked into the university health clinic with a bruised and bleeding cervix; I guess neither of us had enough experience to know that you couldn&#39;t hit it that hard. I only found out about this after the fact.

    So I quickly went from novelty act to pariah, and received quite a bit of verbal and physical abuse from her circle of friends for pretty much the rest of the fall semester. I was tripped in the cafeteria, had my books knocked out of my arm in the hall, was called an "animal," and one even tried to trip me walking down a flight of stairs.

    I&#39;m not sure my ego ever fully recovered from that.
     
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    Pecker: I was one year earlier than you when I lost my virginity, but like you, to my bride. We both were virgins and it was lots of fun learning all the mystic secrets of intercourse. My size never caused a problem, per se, but I&#39;m thicker now than I was then. I think that most women could handle 6.25 girth with no problem, however.
     
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    I was 14 and she was 15.

    We did it mainly because of a combination of teenage curiosity, boredom, lust, and daring. For all my horniness at that age, she was the one who took the most aggressive role in creating opportunities for it to happen. It took us a couple of tries, but, at that age, it didn&#39;t take me long to recover.

    Was my size a factor? She&#39;d seen me flaccid several times beforehand (rural kids, swimming holes, skinnydipping - you get the picture) but back then I was more of a grower than a shower. Her comments about my erect size gave me some of the first clues that I might be above average.

    SG
     
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    No one has an answer for my question?

    Apparently fucking is the only thing that counts toward losing one&#39;s virginity. If so, I lost my virginity at 21.
     
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    12 years. 3 guys and a girl. We wanted to see why a girl screams "aaaaahhhh" in porn films. And we found out... the 4 of us.

    I met one of the guys last year... he&#39;s 25 now and he joined the police forces.
    The second is now in the US.

    We had no idea about size, so it didn&#39;t matter. ... Just pleasure... and, OOOOH &#33; :eek: her BIG breasts &#33; :D So big for a 12 years "chick" &#33; B)
     
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    We were both 15...and it wasn&#39;t because I had a big cock, but merely because we were both young, horny and curious.
     
  16. Imported

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    Hapi Papi:
    No one has an answer for my question?

    Apparently fucking is the only thing that counts toward losing one&#39;s virginity. If so, I lost my virginity at 21. [/b][/quote]
    I actually meant intercourse. Sorry for taking so long.

    The reason I asked this is besides wondering is that a co-worker talked about losing his virginity at 11 and since then has had sex with who knows how many girls and he claims he uses magnums. So I thought maybe he had always been large. One of our other co-workers with whom he&#39;s slept hasn&#39;t contested anything he&#39;s boasted about himself...
     
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    I was 16, and we were both deeply in love and wishing to share our bodies with each other. Size had nothing to do with it.
     
  18. Imported

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    palladen: 16 here as well and she was 17. Size didn&#39;t seem to be a factor until I met up with her years later and found out I was still her &#39;biggest&#39; fan ;)
    I had always wondered if leaving 2-3 inches outside was normal when inside a lady..

    p
     
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    NikkiSixx:
    That really moved me...I&#39;m almost 20, and I still haven&#39;t lost my virginity, and I have lately become desperate to do so. Also, I&#39;m thinking that size might be a factor when/if I finally do, because I&#39;m not all that nice-looking and I&#39;m very shy and socially awkward, but the one time that another woman has even seen it, the first thing she said was "It is big." (And it was only semi-hard then, and it&#39;s only 6.5"x6.25" at its biggest.)
    Anyway, I now realize that I have been ignoring the loving and caring factor and even the pleasure factor, only wishing to have sex so that I could say that I had sex. Thank you for enlightening me, Garibaldi Biscuit.
     
  20. Knight-7x6

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    Still waiting. I doubt my size would be anything to write home about.
     
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