What do you think counts as losing one's virginity? Is it first sexual contact with another person's genitals? First time being naked in a sexual sense with another person (e.g. jack off session with no MM)? Oral? Penetration? And, I wonder if this definition varies by sex and by sexual orientation. Hmmm ... all very interesting. My take: First sexual contact with another person's genitals, even if oral or penetration aren't involved. I think virginity loss is more a loss of a certain sense of innocence and naivete than a particular act, and I think directly sexually pleasing someone in any sense, for the first time, constitutes that loss. Any thoughts? Anyone actually care?