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For other virgins, are you desperate to lose it or are you waiting for a good time and what are your reasons?

As for non-virgins, did you lose it as soon as possible or was it the "right time," and how different did you feel if at all?

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When I was like 16, my sister had this friend who had a crush on me. When I was 23, and still a virgin, she came home with me one night and popped my cherry. Unfortunately it was a one night stand, and not my choice. Typical California at the time, fuck em and leave.
 

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I wasn't much interested in sex through my teens so I was in no hurry at all. I don't know about right time, but just happened to start dating and it just kind of led to it. Not much change except for the obviously opening up to a new experience.
 

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I was in the right place at the right time with a missy who was ready to play. She told me to walk this way, and we ended up at her place on the living room floor.
 
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I didn't wait, but I didn't go out of my way just to find a girl. My high school situation was a bit special - but I did lose it to a girl who was special to me. At this point in my life, who I lost it to doesn't matter, but I don't know if I would be a different person for having a different person whom I would have gifted my virginity to.
 

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I would like to take a moment to be a real asshole and brag that I've had sex over 6000 times.

If you have been with someone for over 25 years, that's not that big of a number, actually.

I have had sex over 1500 times.

as to the OP:

I waited a long time, went through a handful of girls, before I decided I better bite the bullet and do it at age 24. I didn't want to with the next girl that came along really, but I figured I needed to put all fears of pregnancy, STD's, emotional connections and pain aside, and just fucking do it, or I would die a virgin.
 

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I was 21 almost 22 and she was just the one I connected with and it felt right.Did not feel any different after,but my fingers and dick have never smelled the same since then!

We've been married 22 years and sleep nude so 6,000 times is just a drop in the pond for us.lol
 

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I can't give a number here for when I lost mine, but it was really early. I had a long period of abstinence in my early 20s (worst possible time for that) after growing depressed and hopeless. I grew up thinking that sex and love have to be tightly coupled together, and then after having lots of sex but no love started to think I'd never find it.
Eventually I learned to relax and just enjoy what I have, and not long after that I met someone very special and fell in love for the first time. That's over now, but I still feel very fortunate to have had her in my life. Especially since it prepared me to be with my current partner, who I love just as much but have a much healthier relationship with.

I think I had all these expectations that losing my virginity would change me/everything around me, and then when it didn't I ended up very disappointed. Sex is great, but love is what makes me thankful for every day I'm alive. Sex with someone you love is absolutely life changing.
 

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Lost it too long ago. Mid seventies. Back then a lot of peer pressure to do it. Of course I loved it....I do however feel the 1st time was not the best. that came later.
 
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sure you had many STI's maybe a few stds by now

No STDs. Over 5000 have been with my wife. The other 5-700 were split up between nine other girls. Mostly relationships. The only one nighters or ultra short flings I've had were on vacation, business or traveling on a college athletic road trip.
 

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For other virgins, are you desperate to lose it or are you waiting for a good time and what are your reasons? . . .
When I was in my late teens & early 20's I guess I was a little desperate. It wasn't so much the "right time" as the "right person".

I remember sitting in my college graduation, watching my friends and classmates step up to receive their diplomas. As some guys stepped off the stage they were met by a wife or girlfriend (or maybe both - after all, 1973 was really just the end of the "swinging 60's") who administered muchas smooches and other displays of affection verging on sexual assault. I thought, "Hey - I must be the ONLY guy here who has never been laid!".

Well, it wasn't true but it would be another 5 - 10 years before I truly comprehended that. And when I was honest with myself, I knew that "getting laid" could be fun but what I REALLY wanted was a life partnership that expressed itself in good sex, among other things. About 5 months later, I met a girl . . . . one year plus two weeks after we met, we got to experience the emotional intensity of first-time sex between two virgins on our wedding night. We aren't 23 any more, but we made love and had sex just a few days ago.
 
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For me, shyness and social anxiety around women kept my opportunities to few and far between. I had my first date and girlfriend in college, but the farthest we went was 2nd base for me. She must have been aware of the raging boner in my pants, but she didn't pursue doing anything with it. I meet many great women that I was romantically (or lustfully) interested in, but most considered me "just a friend".

After some years of no luck, I seduced a "friend" with whom I been spending a great deal of time. Even tough she had said she wasn't interested in me romantically when we met, a year later a kiss turned into caresses, groping, stripping, fingering, stroking, sucking, and finally intercourse.
 

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I wouldn't say that I was exactly desperate but I was definitely ready and jumped at the chance when it came up. Unlike lots of others I very much enjoyed it but the very first time was way, way too short.
 
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