I forgot you are half my age. The mores of todays youth are vastly different than when I was in high school.:frown1: I was a virgin when I graduated from hugh school and I never got to first because I never had a date. Ditto for my girl friends, and many other girls in my high school. There was one girl who slept around but she was the school slut. Heck, she even wore a black gown to the senior prom. There were long term couples who had sex but that was considered acceptable because they had been together for years.
I was definitely raised with a more "old fashioned" view point on sexuality, too, so I can relate to that. I often thought girls were being promiscuous when I was younger, when most people considered that completely normal.
I didn't really, and to some extent still don't, understand my female peers and how they are the way they are when it comes to not only sex, but the way they think in general.