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I lost my virginity at 19 to a girl i was dating for a month.

Anyone else wanna share??

Was it all you thought it would be??
 

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Thank god you said 19, db03, cause thats how old i was too. Lots of people are shocked to hear that from a guy though. Like a guy cant possibly have decided for himself to wait - it must have been decided for him. Not True!

Anyway, it definately was NOT what i hoped it would be, but it got a lot better with practice :p
Looking back, I wish i hadnt waited so long, if only because my first girl wasnt a very 'active' player in the sack.
 

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It was a hopeless groping mess that ended very quickly.
It was with my neighbor's little sister.
We went to our nearby school on the weekend and found
an unlocked storage room.
Her brother and sister stood watch outside the door.

The challenge was to find out where to actually put it.

At that point i had never even touched a pussy, so I didn't know the layout.
 

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I was thirteen and it was someone that I had been dating for a while. I know that it was young but it was with someone that I really cared a lot about. I still talk to them from time to time too.
 

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Originally posted by TotallyCurious@Feb 8 2005, 05:26 PM
Thank god you said 19, db03, cause thats how old i was too. Lots of people are shocked to hear that from a guy though. Like a guy cant possibly have decided for himself to wait - it must have been decided for him. Not True!

Anyway, it definately was NOT what i hoped it would be, but it got a lot better with practice :p
Looking back, I wish i hadnt waited so long, if only because my first girl wasnt a very 'active' player in the sack.
[post=281220]Quoted post[/post]​

heh I feel guilty just throwin this out here, but I'll admit to that fact that I'm still a virgin at 21. I haven't found a girl where we're both into each other enough to do it. This late on I'm to the point that if I do it, I'd want it to be worth something and not just a one nighter where I'd probably regret it later on.
 

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Originally posted by Altairion+Feb 8 2005, 06:31 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Altairion &#064; Feb 8 2005, 06:31 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-TotallyCurious@Feb 8 2005, 05:26 PM
Thank god you said 19, db03, cause thats how old i was too.  Lots of people are shocked to hear that from a guy though.  Like a guy cant possibly have decided for himself to wait - it must have been decided for him.  Not True&#33;

Anyway, it definately was NOT what i hoped it would be, but it got a lot better with practice :p
Looking back, I wish i hadnt waited so long, if only because my first girl wasnt a very &#39;active&#39; player in the sack.
[post=281220]Quoted post[/post]​

heh I feel guilty just throwin this out here, but I&#39;ll admit to that fact that I&#39;m still a virgin at 21. I haven&#39;t found a girl where we&#39;re both into each other enough to do it. This late on I&#39;m to the point that if I do it, I&#39;d want it to be worth something and not just a one nighter where I&#39;d probably regret it later on.
[post=281225]Quoted post[/post]​
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Don&#39;t feel guilty, Altairion. You are not as &#39;odd&#39; as you fear. Maintaining your virginity with a purpose is to be commended.

I was a virgin when I married at 25.
 

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...lost my virginity with a guy or a girl?

First guy=13 (bad experience...argh)
Next guy=16 (jacking off/handjobs only)
fullblown guy sex=24 (did everything/first bf)

girl=18 (girlfriend of 3 years)

no regrets.
 

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I&#39;m glad to see the virgins and late bloomers speaking up. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. I was well out of my teens when I lost my virginity, and it was to a woman with whom I ended up in long-term relationship. I didn&#39;t start dating until I was in college and like some of you, I just didn&#39;t find the right one right away. I wasn&#39;t the type to go looking for one-night stands, although I have had a few in years past.

There is no rush, wait until you are ready, whatever that is for you.

LapDog :p
 

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At the beach I went to sleep and woke up with a raging hard to the laughter of my older bros and friends. A French girl took me by the hand [so to speak] and initiated me. Damn, I was such a slow learner that I had to keep going back for more lessons. :p

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I was 14 years old. She was 17 I believe? I don&#39;t remember. It was at a party. I do remember I used a condom, so yay for me&#33; Also, she told me I lasted long for a virgin - we went for like, 5-10 minutes. But it was a fling, we weren&#39;t even going out. I totally wish I waited, as cliche as that sounds.


Edit: As for my "gotten head" virginity, I lost that at 13. At least I was goin out with her. My "eating out" virginity I lost at 14, again with someone I was goin out with. I&#39;m just waitin to lose my "guy" virginities.
 

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Originally posted by txquis@Feb 8 2005, 05:46 PM
...lost my virginity with a guy or a girl?

I messed around (jerked off, nothing more) with a guy friend when
i was about 16 or so...

and i first had sex when i was 18 with my then girlfriend.

Both experiences were great, no regrets.
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So, then, does this mean 100%, isn&#39;t?

Now, if that one experience had made you straight but only in light of all the same-sex experiences you&#39;ve had, that would make you a homeosexual.
 

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Originally posted by jonb+Feb 9 2005, 03:03 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jonb &#064; Feb 9 2005, 03:03 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-txquis@Feb 8 2005, 05:46 PM
...lost my virginity with a guy or a girl?

I messed around (jerked off, nothing more) with a guy friend when
i was about 16 or so...

and i first had sex when i was 18 with my then girlfriend.

Both experiences were great, no regrets.
[post=281261]Quoted post[/post]​
So, then, does this mean 100%, isn&#39;t?

Now, if that one experience had made you straight but only in light of all the same-sex experiences you&#39;ve had, that would make you a homeosexual.
[post=281353]Quoted post[/post]​
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Edit: I read it wrong. I think you were makin a joke, "homeosexual" roght? I&#39;m a bit slow sometimes :p
 

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With a guy... 14 or 15 I think.
With a girl....24.
So I&#39;m a late bloomer with girls... doesn&#39;t bother me one bit.

-Mike