Virgins and 7 inch Girth

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  1. virgingirl

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    Hi,

    I am a virgin and I am planning on having sex with my boyfriend who has a very thick penis. It is about 7 inches of girth (maybe even thicker). I am really worried that I won't be able to take it. Do any of you have any suggestions? Maybe I should try to stretch out using toys before having sex with him?

    I use some toys now, but I am pretty tight. If he puts 3 fingers it still hurts quite alot..

    Can you please answer too? I am not a guy "pretending" to be a girl... I kinda seriously need some advice..

    Thanks so much! :smile::smile::smile:
     
  2. dongalong

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    You could buy an inflatable dildo and slowly stretch until you feel more comfortable with larger girths.
     
  3. D_percypenguin

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    lube lube and more lube
     
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    Don't worry about the girth. If a vagina can stretch to let a baby's head out, it can take a penis - no matter how thick it is! The important thing is to try not to tense up when he is penetrating you. If you do this, it will make penetration more difficult. Given that you are a virgin, I agree with the lube. Your boyfriend needs to make sure he spends a lot of time on foreplay so that you are turned on and more than ready to roll by the time he penetrates you. Also, he needs to take it slowly when he penetrates you.

    Try not to worry too much about the pain. It isn't excrutiating and it doesn't last. Otherwise millions of men and women all over the world would not be having sex nor would they be so enthusiastic about it!
     
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    Just relax, you will enjoy it :tongue: ! Hope he knows how to use it...if some problems at begining, use some lube...
     
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    A lotta lube and a lot of patience should do the trick.

    Good luck. Hope you enjoy it.
     
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    vibrators and dildo's. Start using them as thick as you can to get used to the girth. And when the time comes make sure he goes very slow and is very gentle. And dont forget lots of foreplay and lots of lube
     
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    I say don't have sex with him.

    Be a rebel and do the smart thing. He probably has herpes anyhow.
     
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    yeah, just use lube, it should make it easier

     
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    Patience and a little stretching will do you fine. You only need a 5" thick dildo.
     
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    Length 7 1/2" total. Diameter 1 1/4" at widest point.

    Hope this helps.
     
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    Thanks Frankie... I'm sorta math retarded though. 1.25 diameter is what in circumference?
     
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    Make sure you have plenty of foreplay, plenty of lube, have him use the dildos to warm you up first.... It only hurts the first time, but if you have been using dildos, you may not even have a hymen to break. Just enjoy. It gets better and better each time!
    You may want to get on top so you can slowly control how how much you can handle.
    Take some deep breaths and uou'll be surprised how much you can stretch!
     
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    1.25" diameter is about 4" in circumference
    Theres those math skills at work lol.
     
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    shove it up your ass, and save your virginity for your 8 inch girth brother

    :rolleyes:
     
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    I haven't measured mine but I think it is around 4 inches in circumference - it might be a bit more than this but I don't think it's less.
     
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    I can take the 1.25 diameter (4 inch girth) pretty easily... so i guess im on my way:) only 3 more inches to go!
     
  20. Maia

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    For me, I was virgin when I married, and my husband is quite big. It was very painful for months, even with plenty of lube and foreplay AND being deeply in love with him and thus easily excited. I felt very inadequate because I couldn't handle him, so I tried to hide how much it hurt me. I am rather surprised that other women are saying it shouldn't be a problem, as it certainly was for me for quite a bit of time. Being on my back was much easier than on all fours but it still definitely HURT.

    Yes, women can indeed stretch to give birth obviously but it is extremely painful and women get epidural anesthesia to cope! Having sex isn't supposed to feel like giving birth, ladies :tongue:
     
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