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How do you feel about getting involved with guys who are new to M2M sex or have a limited amount of experience?
Some friends and I were discussing this the other day and a couple expressed a dislike of sex with inexperienced guys, and said they would decline to get involved with virgins for a number of reasons. This discussion arose as I have been "assisting" a shy and closeted man who is new to M2M sex over a period of time recently...

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The biggest issue I've had is that they have no clue how long things take and don't plan properly. I met a guy who said he didn't have much experience but really wanted to be fucked long and hard. When we finally meet he has a toddler that he put in the other room - with a puppy, he's never been fucked before and the kid's mother will be there to pick him up in 20 minutes. If you've got a few hours to explore things the right way then I'm fine is teaching someone, but you can't do much more than a handjob in 20 minutes, and he didn't need me to assist with that. Years ago I had fun with a guy who was separated from his wife. He wanted to explore his sexuality. We took our time and had a lot of fun.
 
There are so many variables though. The real question is, who is the guy? What’s his personal situation? What does he want to try? Does he have emotional baggage, and if so, what is it? All that stuff is way more important than his sexual experience.

All that said, if he’s a cool guy, it can be really fucking hot to teach him the joys of man sex!
 
There are so many variables though. The real question is, who is the guy? What’s his personal situation? What does he want to try? Does he have emotional baggage, and if so, what is it? All that stuff is way more important than his sexual experience.

All that said, if he’s a cool guy, it can be really fucking hot to teach him the joys of man sex!
That's what I've found with this guy, I was a bit surprised at my mates reaction because he seems to be very much into casual hookups, but on further thought his penchant for casual sex may be behind his attitude toward inexperienced guys. I really enjoyed my time with this guy (and still do), but I can why a guy looking for a casual fuck couldn't be bothered to take the time.
I met him when I was working on the windows of his house over the summer. He was working from home at the time, is single, mid thirties, owns his own house and came across as straight. I soon noticed he would come for a chat and talk to me for an hour or more, and offer me a coffee about 5 x a day- nothing unusual there for some people. After about a week working at his house, I picked up that he was checking me out while talking to me and other times during the day, but continued to otherwise act straight. I started quietly checking him out from time to time, and wondered if I was wrong about the straight part as I increasingly noted him checking me out in an awkward manner. I decided to test him by wearing short shorts with boxers underneath and I soon had my answer- it was so obvious that he liked what he saw, but he noticeably kept away during the day. I continued to wear the short shorts over the next week and soon realised that not only was he was unable to keep his eyes off my shorts, but he knew he was attracted to me and was uncomfortable about the fact.
He made a cuppa on thursday afternoon of that week and while we were sitting talking, he was unable to stop staring at the front of my shorts- I was soft but filling the shorts out and it would have been even more obvious with boxers on too. I very quietly and neutrally asked him if he liked what he saw; his response was total panic and then denial. He eventually nodded without looking at my face and I quietly mentioned that I had noticed his interest and that I was OK with it. He looked at me ashamedly and I reiterated that I was OK with his attraction toward me. He seemed surprised that I had worked out his interest, had broached the topic and mentioned I was OK with his interest.
I left him to it that evening at 6pm, but when I was packing up to leave he was again staring at me as i bent over and packed my cases, and this time without trying to hide his interest. Immediately before I left, I took his hand and brushed it across the front of my shorts before telling him I would see him again tomorrow at 7am. He was shocked by my action but didn't object or pull away.
 
Friday morning I arrived at 7am and he offered me a cuppa straight away, which he made while I shifted my cases from the van. We sat down at the kitchen table and there was awkward silence from him while I discussed the work I would do that day. It was clear to me that what I needed to do on his windows that day was the last thing on his mind- he was staring at the front of my shorts again. I decided that I would let him stew all day and didn't say or do anything to either escalate things or distract him from his interest.
I thanked him for the cuppa and got on with my work, again he was checking me out while I worked and I tried hard to concentrate on my work. He managed to work through until about 3pm when he offered me another cuppa. While he was making the coffee I noticed he touched himself a couple of times, adjusting like he was uncomfortable with what was happening in his pants. I pretended I hadn't seen anything, but it got me thinking about what sort of effect I'd had on him with the short shorts and brushing has hand across my shorts the day before. If he liked me in that way and it seemed he did from his staring, it was no wonder he was responding and if he were uncomfortable with his interest then his physical response would be even more embarrassing to him. I decided to play it cool and made small talk about his work and what I had achieved during the day; when I had finished my coffee I excused myself and went back to work. As I worked I considered the fact that he was clearly attracted to me and had a physical reaction to my body, but was also uncomfortable about his attraction. I considered the fact that he had stopped trying to hide his interest and only responded physically (as far as I knew) since I had asked him if he liked what he saw and teased him a little; my conclusion was that he was either really shy or totally inexperienced with men.
At 5 pm I started to pack up my tools and noticed him staring at me as packed things up; I realised that he was showing more interest and decided I needed to either move or stop teasing him. I packed the van and went back inside to show him what I had achieved during the day; while I was showing him my work I noticed him becoming harder as we talked; after we had finished discussing his windows I told him that I had noticed his interest and physical response to me over the previous week and asked him if he wanted to know more about his interest.
There was a short silence and he wouldn't look at me, but he did eventually reply with a quiet "yes, I need to". I responded by putting his hand on the front of my shorts so he could feel my growing cock; I held it there for a couple of minutes while we looked at each other and he eventually met my eyes. I could see him hardening too and I put my hand on his growing cock mound for a minute, before quietly pulling back. I told him that I needed to go but would be back on Monday at 7am and he nodded and agreed.
On my way home in the Friday traffic I received a text message from him, could I return tomorrow, there was a window he could't work properly...
 
So ironic ..... I had been thinking about this recently; that is, how do gay men feel about “straight” men who are curious & completely inexperienced .... I suppose a lot has to do with the same variables which apply to any mutual sexual attraction.

But in the case of “curious” adult men, it’s not like beginning dating & both party’s “first time”. Add to the issue of age. I mean, I think there are a lot of middle-aged & mature men (like myself) for whom the potential partner pool is much smaller.
 
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Friday morning I arrived at 7am and he offered me a cuppa straight away, which he made while I shifted my cases from the van. We sat down at the kitchen table and there was awkward silence from him while I discussed the work I would do that day. It was clear to me that what I needed to do on his windows that day was the last thing on his mind- he was staring at the front of my shorts again. I decided that I would let him stew all day and didn't say or do anything to either escalate things or distract him from his interest.
I thanked him for the cuppa and got on with my work, again he was checking me out while I worked and I tried hard to concentrate on my work. He managed to work through until about 3pm when he offered me another cuppa. While he was making the coffee I noticed he touched himself a couple of times, adjusting like he was uncomfortable with what was happening in his pants. I pretended I hadn't seen anything, but it got me thinking about what sort of effect I'd had on him with the short shorts and brushing has hand across my shorts the day before. If he liked me in that way and it seemed he did from his staring, it was no wonder he was responding and if he were uncomfortable with his interest then his physical response would be even more embarrassing to him. I decided to play it cool and made small talk about his work and what I had achieved during the day; when I had finished my coffee I excused myself and went back to work. As I worked I considered the fact that he was clearly attracted to me and had a physical reaction to my body, but was also uncomfortable about his attraction. I considered the fact that he had stopped trying to hide his interest and only responded physically (as far as I knew) since I had asked him if he liked what he saw and teased him a little; my conclusion was that he was either really shy or totally inexperienced with men.
At 5 pm I started to pack up my tools and noticed him staring at me as packed things up; I realised that he was showing more interest and decided I needed to either move or stop teasing him. I packed the van and went back inside to show him what I had achieved during the day; while I was showing him my work I noticed him becoming harder as we talked; after we had finished discussing his windows I told him that I had noticed his interest and physical response to me over the previous week and asked him if he wanted to know more about his interest.
There was a short silence and he wouldn't look at me, but he did eventually reply with a quiet "yes, I need to". I responded by putting his hand on the front of my shorts so he could feel my growing cock; I held it there for a couple of minutes while we looked at each other and he eventually met my eyes. I could see him hardening too and I put my hand on his growing cock mound for a minute, before quietly pulling back. I told him that I needed to go but would be back on Monday at 7am and he nodded and agreed.
On my way home in the Friday traffic I received a text message from him, could I return tomorrow, there was a window he could't work properly...
Go on, please
 
Helllooooo everyone. These thread helps us to explore and understands our sexuality.. I’m married to a woman and consider myself curious.. I want to try what is M2M is all about but scared coz I don’t know where to start.. I hope someone will give me an idea where to start.. I’m looking for any married guys tot meet in my community.. or neighborhood.
No experience here so I want the experience not only for sex but also a friend.
Any suggestions or help is really appreciated..

Thanks guys
 
Saturday morning arrived too slowly for me; I didn't sleep well thinking about what had happened on Friday and the "issue" with the window. I almost never have callbacks because I check everything thoroughly before handover, so I was fairly sure it was a premise. In any case, customer service was important to me and so I headed to his place to investigate the matter.
When I arrived he greeted me at the door before inviting me inside; he was wearing boxers and a tee shirt- I tried not to look down at his shorts but there was something making me want to look... I liked the sexual tension building with this guy and where it was leading.
I asked about the window that was giving him trouble and he indicated one that I was sure was OK - I was sure I knew why I had been called back now but checked the window in any case, Checking the operation of the window took maybe 10 seconds; there was no issue with the window as expected and I advised him it was working correctly, and asked if he could show me how it was giving trouble. As he moved past me I could smell his slight musky smell and also became aware that he was tenting the front of his boxer shorts; I responded in the same way as he operated the window and found it did open and close without issue. We moved into the kitchen and sat in the kitchen. As we talked I took his hand and placed it on my hardening cock while looking straight at him; I knew why he had called me back and he now knew that I knew. He couldn't maintain eye contact for maybe 15 seconds, then looked back up at me and held my gaze. I removed my hand and he left his hand in place on my cock; I told him it felt good before tentatively placing my hand on his cock. He pressed my hand toward his body and we both both closed our hands at the same time, each other's cock in our hands.
We both stood up together and I could hear my pulse pounding in my ears and could feel his pulse twitching his cock; we held each other for a couple of minutes before I tentatively touched his bum. My touch became firmer and I could see from his reaction he was both excited and apprehensive about the new touch, he slowly relaxed.
I gently moved both hands onto his bum before drawing him in closer so we were touching at the hips. He responded by putting his hands on my bum and our cocks were pressed together; we were both very hard and I could feel myself starting to dribble in my shorts. I quietly asked him if he had ever done anything with a man before and he replied "no"; I continued by gently asking him if he wanted to and there was silence before he replied "yes, I do". I asked him if he was sure and didn't receive a response for a couple of minutes, before he told me he liked it so far and wanted to continue. I asked him specifically what he liked and he wouldn't reply, but pulled me in tighter.
I massaged his bum cheeks while I was holding him and he responded by touching my balls; I was definitely dribbling now. I gently kissed the side of his neck and he quickly responded by holding onto me; his pulse quickened and he eventually started kissing me, tentatively and then more confidently as I responded to his attention. I took my hands off his bum and placed them onto his chest; I rubbed his nipples, gently at first and becoming harder as I felt them stiffen. Between kisses I asked him if he liked to have his nipples touched, and he replied with a quiet "yes, I like it"; This was the most definite verbal response I had received so far - I was making sure he liked what was happening before going further, so he felt in control.
We were both still clothed at this point and my shorts were developing a serious wet spot. I moved one hand off his chest onto his boxer shorts and started to remove them; when they dropped to the floor he stepped out of them. His cock was fully hard, a little smaller than mine and uncut. His balls were larger than mine and hung low and I gently fondled them while continuing to massage his nipples with my other hand. His cock twitched every time I rolled his nipples between my finger and thumb. He undid the drawstring on my shorts and dropped them along with my boxer shorts; as my cock sprang free it drew out a string of precum which snapped and dripped from my cock. He noticed and immediately touched the precum on my cock, slipping it between his fingers before looking at me. "Precum" I explained; He obviously hadn't seen it before as he was obviously fascinated by the sticky stringy fluid and even more so when he noticed the sticky wet patch in my shorts.
I drew him in close and started kissing him again while touching his balls and taint; I couldn't believe how low his balls hung and his scrotum fascinated me. He responded by spreading his legs apart, making it easier for me. I gently massaged his taint and moved toward his anus; he responded by spreading his legs even further and whispering "please". I massaged him as much as I could from a standing position; he soon understood the limitation of his stance, and moved my hand to touch him from behind. I massaged his arsehole and taint for at least 10 minutes before I asked him if he liked that. "Yes, he replied "keep doing that". I kept going and started to gently finger his anus; he responded by telling me to use the olive oil!. I found the can on the bench and lubricated my finger with the oil before continuing; he responded well to the touch and soon relaxed enough to fit a couple of fingers. I was surprised at how well he responded to arse play and his suggestion of olive oil.
He sat on the kitchen table and lifted his legs in the air and I instantly realised that he had played with his arsehole previously and had little other experience- he was used to touching himself there and knew the ways to do so, whereas his responses to touching and kissing indicated apprehension.
I slowly inserted my forefinger into his anus and gently rubbed the top wall of his passage. His cock twitched as I did so and I concentrated my touch on areas that kept his cock twitching. He moaned as I did so and after about two minutes, came in several powerful spurts on his chest.
I was literally making a puddle by this time and he eventually noticed; he very tentatively touched my cock head and slipped his fingers about in the precum for a minute until I came into his hand with three shots of very thick sticky cum.
We cleaned up in the bathroom and he showered; not much was said by either of us but when I mentioned Monday he quietly agreed.

Sunday morning I had a text message from him, could I visit today. I replied that he should rest and I'd see him on Monday.
 
As I sat in the van outside his house on Monday morning, I hardened as I thought about what had gone on the previous week. Here was a guy who was shyly attracted to me, slowly exploring his interest in men; it clearly wasn't a new interest but equally so, he wasn't comfortable with it although I had seen signs that he was starting to become more comfortable exploring his interest with me. In some way, I was excited that I was mentoring a curious man but also determined that his experience with me needed to be a good one and led by him, at his pace.
As I carried my tool cases into the house, I could feel my tool belt rubbing against my erect cock and realised that it would be very obvious to anyone; the feeling made me harder still as I knocked on the door because I knew he would notice immediately.
He opened the door and ushered me inside; he was wearing a tee shirt and a towel. I put my tool cases down in the room I was working in and turned to go out of the room. He was standing in the doorway and I saw his eyes drop to look at my cock as I took off my tool belt; the towel didn't hide much and as I approached him, I put one hand on his hard cock and the other on his chest. He immediately responded by drawing me closer and tentatively placing his hand on the front of my shorts. I took my hand off his chest and used it to move his hand into my shorts; I felt his cock twitch in response to my touch and time seemed to stand still as we explored each other, his touch was tentative at first and became more confident as he explored. His towel was soon on the ground followed by my shorts and boxers, and our tee shirts soon after; he was becoming more confident in his exploration and I was happy to be explored at his pace. He had obviously recently showered; I knelt in front of him and touched the tip of his cock with my tongue; his cock immediately twitched and he gasped; I continued to touch his cock head with my tongue before sucking his whole cockhead through my part-closed lips. He moaned softly and I repeated the action again and again until he gently pushed me away; he was getting close and wasn't sure what to do. I responded by sucking his cock through part-closed lips, much more slowly until I felt his cum spurt into my mouth. I swallowed the salty load and kept gently swirling my tongue over his cockhead until he eventually pulled away. I stood up and drew him in close, massaging his arse cheeks. He responded by kissing my neck and slightly spreading his legs, and I slowly moved my attention inward to his taint and hole as we kissed. I touched his hole gently and then more firmly and I massaged his hole with my fingers until he eventually relaxed. I explored for a minute with one finger, and then two before he stopped kissing me; he led me into the kitchen and sat on the kitchen bench, legs in the air. I continued to massage his hole for a minute and then pulled up a chair. I sat down in front of his arse and started to gently tongue his hole, in small strokes to start with and increasing until I was touching close to his taint. His moans became louder as I gently pleasured his hole; his legs trembled and cock twitched. I continued my attentions, becoming firmer and more vigorous as his moans became louder; I concentrated my efforts on his centre, slightly spreading his hole with every thrust of my tongue. His hole relaxed and I continued my tonguing efforts while gently touching his soft pink hole with my finger. He moaned and squirmed, moving his lower body forward to receive attention. When I noticed his scrotum tightening, I quickened and concentrated my tongue action until he came up his chest, a smaller load this time. I slowly removed my tongue from his twitching hole but he pulled me back toward him until the orgasm had subsided.
When he had recovered somewhat, I led him to the shower and we continued to touch while showering, relaxing and winding down. I gently asked him if he had enjoyed the sex during the morning and he turned red with embarrassment. When I prompted him to tell me which part he liked the most he was silent for a minute but the expression on his face told me that he knew what part he liked; eventually he told me that the blowjob was like nothing he had ever experienced and helped him continue, despite his apprehension. I asked him if it was his first time with a man and he quietly admitted that it was; I asked him if he wanted to explore MM sex further and his response was a quiet but definite "yes".
I continued with my work that afternoon, working inside in my boxers and a tee shirt; he regularly came to where I was working and we kissed and fondled for a minute or two before going back to our tasks; he was always hard when he came to me and we were both hard when he left. My boxer shorts had a big wet mark on the front and strings of precum stretched and broke every time he withdrew his hand from my shorts; by the end of the day they were quite wet and I removed them before putting on my shorts to go home. I don't think either of us achieved very much in terms of work that day but it was well worth it.
I was hard the entire drive home, thinking about him and his reaction to my attention, and the fact that he had never experienced MM sex before. I couldn't get past the fact that he was definitely interested in further exploration, and that he had come to me and started touching me at least 5 times that afternoon- quite different to the shy guy who couldn't admit to himself that he was interested in men.
I didn't sleep much that night, thinking about the day's events...
 
Such a good account of your experience as a "mentor"! (I love your description of it: "assisting" a shy and closeted man who is new to M2M sex.) Thanks for adding details to help explain what the guy was likely feeling. Reading about his soft-voiced and cautious responses to your careful questions is so different from many "erotic stories" -- where both men are ready to tear the other guy's clothes off and instantly jump into bed.

Being a patient and gentle "teacher" is so important. The restraint you showed on Friday evening was amazing:

"I told him that I had noticed his interest and physical response to me over the previous week and asked him if he wanted to know more about his interest. There was a short silence and he wouldn't look at me, but he did eventually reply with a quiet "yes, I need to". I responded by putting his hand on the front of my shorts so he could feel my growing cock; I held it there for a couple of minutes while we looked at each other and he eventually met my eyes. I could see him hardening too and I put my hand on his growing cock mound for a minute, before quietly pulling back. I told him that I needed to go but would be back on Monday at 7am and he nodded and agreed."
 
But in the case of “curious” adult men, it’s not like beginning dating & both party’s “first time”. Add to the issue of age. I mean, I think there are a lot of middle-aged & mature men (like myself) for whom the potential partner pool is much smaller.
I guess it depends on how you define curious really, a guy could be either curious and a total virgin, a guy who is curious about MM sex and a MM sex virgin, or a guy who is still curious about MM sex but has previous MM sexual experience.
I won't comment for gay men, but I have "assisted" guys who fit into the last two categories without issue; one guy who was in the second category still visits me for MM sex between girlfriends. In both cases I provided a gentle and respectful opportunity for both guys to explore and accept another side of their sexuality at their own pace.

Your point about the issue of age is a fair one but depends on perceptions of what makes a potential partner. Yes it is true that men relate more to their own age group, but in my observations older men are more accepting of themselves and their place in the world, which seems to be a big part of sexual identity for younger men. There are plenty of older men who would gently "assist" if it became known that a guy was curious about MM sex, and speaking for myself, I wouldn't rule out providing "assistance" on age grounds alone.
 
Sounds to me you had a good time and he enjoyed not having pressure put on him.
The trouble with most virgins si they think its what bam and over, have no finesse and think it's all about the orgasm. The other problem is most are airheads with no conversation at all - there is more to conversation that "has anyone got Tallent" (or whatever).
I was lucky, I went from a cute little number who got tossed off by guys - thinking this was the be-all and end-all of things - to meeting a mentor who slowly coached me into being a rounded sexual being able to please in every way possible, and not just man a mano but also mano a mano a mano.
 
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Such a good account of your experience as a "mentor"! (I love your description of it: "assisting" a shy and closeted man who is new to M2M sex.) Thanks for adding details to help explain what the guy was likely feeling. Reading about his soft-voiced and cautious responses to your careful questions is so different from many "erotic stories" -- where both men are ready to tear the other guy's clothes off and instantly jump into bed.

Being a patient and gentle "teacher" is so important. The restraint you showed on Friday evening was amazing:

"I told him that I had noticed his interest and physical response to me over the previous week and asked him if he wanted to know more about his interest. There was a short silence and he wouldn't look at me, but he did eventually reply with a quiet "yes, I need to". I responded by putting his hand on the front of my shorts so he could feel my growing cock; I held it there for a couple of minutes while we looked at each other and he eventually met my eyes. I could see him hardening too and I put my hand on his growing cock mound for a minute, before quietly pulling back. I told him that I needed to go but would be back on Monday at 7am and he nodded and agreed."
Thanks. I like to make sure that the guy is aware of his own feelings, needs and desires and expresses them, even if I need to directly question or prompt him to get his input on these things. By doing this, he feels he is in control, even if I am guiding him by doing things to him he has never experienced before. I do feel that it is mentoring, each time I guide him a little further or show him something new and see how he reacts before going further. I want his sexual experiences with me to be so good he ends up accepting his interest in men if that is his genuine interest in time- It is 100% about him, although I don't mind if he ends up wanting me on a regular basis.

What I did on the Friday night was based on two things I think are important; he has time to think about what we did that day and where things are going in terms of his interest in MM sex, and on my feeling that disengaging after a period of time prevents either partner acting out of blind lust, either in terms of going too far in actions, or submitting to things which would later be regretted.
On Friday evening, I could have certainly gone a whole lot further, even another couple of hours after I asked him about his feelings and interest but instead I provided him with a small response by putting his hand on the front of my shorts for a couple of minutes. In this way, he became aware of my physical responses to his interest and his physical responses to the situation, but had to wait to act on them. It didn't take too long for him to identify what he wanted more of, and make a move to achieve that.
 
I arrived outside his house at 7am the following morning and sat in the van for a moment, thinking about where things were at, like I had done most of the night. Here was guy who was starting to accept his interest in men, becoming more comfortable with looking at, touching and being touched by another man. I was flattered by his interest so far, but in the back of my mind was the fact that part of my role in this situation was to allow him to explore his sexuality without pressure, and I needed to make his exploration of. MM sex my first priority. The last thing I would want would be for him to lose interest, or worse, feel guilty or ashamed of his exploration as I intended this to be a really good experience for him. I wasn’t quite sure where he was at with MM sex as lots of the things I had introduced him to seemed to be new experiences for him, and it blew my mind that he had never seen precum before; still, I was in my mid thirties before my precum production became noticeable; ten years later I could literally soak my underwear if sufficiently stimulated. The other thing I couldn’t get my head around was his comment on Saturday about using the olive oil to lube his arsehole; he clearly had little knowledge of men at a sexual level and was shy about what he wanted, but was growing in confidence with MM sex activities. The comment about the olive oil suggested he had some knowledge of arse play and certainly responded well to my touching in this area. I wondered if he was in fact a MM virgin, and had been exploring his hole solo while developing an interest in men. I was sure I would find out as things progressed.

I saw him peek out the window while I was thinking, and a moment later he appeared at the van window. He was wearing a long-sleeved shirt and a pair of shorts; I noted that the shorts didn’t hide much of his excitement. My rugby shorts weren’t a whole lot different; there wasn’t a lot of material covering my balls and my cockhead was rapidly making its way upward under the waistband. He noticed that I noticed and I noticed that he noticed; we looked up at each other and our eyes met. I held my gaze and he stared at my cock again before I stepped down out of the van.

I gathered up my tools for the day, wondering quite why I was going through the motions- our MM sessions over the last few days had taken up quite some time and I hadn’t achieved much on Monday. However, I wasn’t really concerned as I had made good progress previously.

I wasn’t 100% sure what would happen when I went into his house, but something told me that at some point clothes would come off and we would end up engaging in some sort of MM sex activity, and probably on the kitchen bench since that seemed to have been a favourite of his so far. It was a good height, and wide enough so he could lie back with legs spread like he had done yesterday, when it was quite clear what he wanted me to focus on.

I closed the door behind me and followed him into the kitchen, where he offered me a coffee. I accepted and sat down while he made the coffee; I could see he was still aroused; while the coffee was brewing he pulled up a chair and sat opposite me; I could tell he wanted to say something but didn’t know how to. I sat silent for a moment before asking him what he wanted to say. He was silent for a moment, and then slowly told me that our session the previous day was something he had enjoyed like nothing else previously, and that he had fantasised about sex with men for a couple of years but never dared to act on his fantasies. I told him that I thought that may have been the case. I looked at him questioningly for a minute or two and he jumped up to deal with the coffee. While he was doing so, I asked him to tell me if he had ever played solo with his hole. He brought back the coffee and sat down; he was really quiet for a couple of minutes and wouldn’t look at me. He broke the silence by asking how I knew, and I told him why I thought he might have done so – that he was comfortable with me fingering his hole and the area around it, and his suggestion of olive oil as a lube for my fingering. He admitted that yes, he had played with his hole regularly and it was something he enjoyed so far; he had seen it on a porn video he had watched online and was fascinated enough to start exploring his hole with his fingers and with carrots.

I asked what it was about the feeling he liked, and he didn’t reply. He quietly admitted he felt guilty that he liked something in his hole. I thought about his admission for a minute before telling him about my FB who helped me to accept my interest in men. He looked up at me, clearly interested, and I asked him if he wanted me to help him like that. He quickly told me that I was already helping him in that way, and asked if I would be patient with him. I agreed and he leant down to kiss me; I could smell his slight musky cock smell while holding him close and it made me twitch while I undid his belt and fly. I saw why he was tenting his shorts earlier in the morning and rubbed his cock firmly through the thin fabric before releasing him from his boxer shorts and sucking his cock head into my mouth. He gasped and I took more of his cock into my mouth until I had taken almost all of it. He continued to gasp and babble as I slowly moved my head up and down; I was gagging while his cock was in my throat but managed to keep going. A moment later I was aware of the the pulsing of his cock as several shots of cum hit the back of my throat and I swallowed his load.

When he sat down, he seemed in a daze and I quietly asked him if he had enjoyed my attention. This time he didn’t turn red with embarrassment and directly told me that he loved it. I asked him what else he would like me to do and after a moment’s consideration he told me that he would love to continue yesterday’s rimming session. I agreed and sent him to the bathroom to freshen up; I quickly diverted him into the shower, where I instructed him on how to wash out to avoid an accident. When he came back he sat on the kitchen bench and quickly found a position with his legs in the air. I pulled up a chair and started by gently tonguing his exposed arsehole while holding his balls up; he moaned and squirmed and I repeated my tongue movements for a minute, before firmly but gently inserting a finger into his arsehole. He moaned again as I worked my finger inside; I continued, adding another finger and licking his hole beside my fingers. He was in heaven, moaning and squirming and the muscles around his hole pulsating. I asked him if he was ok and he asked me to continue gently. I established a rhythm with my fingers, pumping them into and out of his hole slowly and firmly as my cock continued to wet my stomach and shorts with precum; his cock remained hard and flat against his body.

I asked him what he thought of the rimming session so far and he eventually responded that he felt his hole could be fuller; it was clear to me that he was not comfortable communicating his desires. I asked him to tell me what he wanted, did he want me to bring a dildo for him to try? He hesitated for a moment before asking in a very shaky voice for my cock. I was surprised and asked him to tell me again what he wanted; he looked directly at me and quietly told me that he wanted my cock in him, and asked me to please be gentle.

I took a condom from the pocket of my shorts where I had placed them earlier in the morning and dropped my shorts and boxer before rolling the condom onto my sticky cock; I had some idea that they might be required this week but was a bit surprised it was today. I stepped out of my shorts and boxers and lubed my cock and his arsehole before placing my cockhead on his hole. I left it there for a moment before very slowly and gently applying pressure, all the time looking him in the eye.
My cock slowly disappeared inside him and I could feel it opening him out as I entered. He flinched a little but showed no other sign of pain; I continued to slowly push in until I was balls deep before asking him if he was OK. He nodded and mentioned he loved the feeling of being filled up. I slowly withdrew my cock and gently entered him again; on the third stroke he started to moan in pleasure and continued to do so the entire time I was inside him. His hole relaxed as I continued and he became easier to penetrate; it became obvious to me that I was opening his second hole as I penetrated deeply because I could feel pressure moving on and off my cockhead as I moved inside. I fucked him like this with his legs in the air for nearly 15 minutes until I was ready to cum; I was just about to ask him if he was ready when his cock shot several spurts up his chest, and the rapid clenching of his arsehole triggered my orgasm. I rapidly filled the condom and immediately held onto it while withdrawing it as it was very full: it was very slippery with his juices and mine. He lay on the bench for a moment before I helped him down and led him to his bedroom where I removed his shirt and mine, and laid him on the bed. We spooned and I became hard again; he reached back and held my sticky cock.

When he awoke, I made him a coffee and we sat at the kitchen table again. He seemed quite happy, as if some of his apprehension had lifted and I asked him how he found the MM sex experience. He was so embarrassed that I was so open about sex and I explained that shame and guilt would put one in a very dark place. He eventually looked me in the eye and told me that what we had done that day had been really good for him, and especially taking my cock. I asked if it was the first time he had taken a cock; he confirmed what I had suspected, that he was a MM sex virgin; he had been curious for a couple of years and had become used to fingering his arse and using carrots to satisfy his curiosity.
 
I unpacked some tools and began working on the putty of one of the kitchen windows, removing the old facing putty and preparing the timber to receive the new putty. They all needed new putty as the paint had been allowed to deteriorate over a long period of time, loosening the putty. I could hear him in the shower and thought little of it while I concentrated on the window- a mistake here would mean that I would have to replace the glass, costing time and money. I started rolling the putty into the rebate and was ready to face it off, when he appeared at the window clad in a white toweling robe. He motioned for me to come back inside and I did so a couple of minutes later when I had finished the putty work on that window. I washed my hands in the bathroom to remove the linseed oil smell and found him in the lounge, sitting on the couch with his robe open. He was wearing a pair of pristine white boxer briefs and I immediately noted he was becoming hard again. I pulled up a chair and sat down and we looked at each other for a minute or two, before I asked him how he was feeling now about what we had done earlier in the day. He looked down for a minute, then looked at me and asked me which part I meant. I thought quickly here; it seemed he was stalling as if he didn’t want to go through things in his own mind and I decided that I would go through our earlier activities, to assist him in coming to terms with his emerging interest.

I started by asking him about the kissing, did he like the sensation of kissing and being kissed by a hairy man, was he OK with it. He paused for a moment before replying that it felt weird, but in a good way. I asked him to describe what he meant and he told me that the facial hair had thrown him initially, but the firm and gentle touches felt good once he had become used to being kissed like that. I asked him what he meant and he described it as being quite different from a woman’s touch, more definite and deliberate. I asked him if he liked being kissed by a man more than a woman, and he looked down and was silent for a moment. When he spoke it was quietly; he told me that being kissed by a man was like nothing he had ever experienced before; the feeling was electric throughout his body and made his legs tremble. When I asked him if being kissed by a man was better than a woman, he quickly told me that he thought so. I could see from his boxer shorts that just talking and thinking about being kissed by a man was starting to turn him on: he wasn’t hard but he wasn’t soft either. I concluded that he was having some issues coming to terms with the new aspects of his interest hence his state.

I then quietly asked him if he had enjoyed having his cock sucked; he seemed shocked that I expressed it in such a way, and I explained that plain talk about such matters was the only way open communication could occur. He nodded his understanding and was silent for nearly a minute before telling me he had never come from a blowjob before. I asked him if he had ever been blown by a man before and he told me no, only women. I asked him what was different and he thought for a moment before telling me that again, it was an electric feeling throughout his body and I seemed to know exactly how and where to touch. I had never thought of myself as particularly accomplished in that way, but his response earlier in the day indicated that my attentions were well received. I started to ask him if he liked blowjobs from men a or women better, and he quickly replied “men!”. I looked hard at him and he told me that he had never felt anything like that before on his cock; it surprised me to hear him express his feelings plainly.

What next? I asked him. He told me that he was surprised when I put my finger in his hole, but quickly became used to the sensation; it was the same as when he had done the same when playing with himself. I asked him about how he felt about two fingers and he paused for a second before quietly telling me that it was also something he had done solo. I asked him how much and how often he had played with vegetables, and he told me that it was regular and he had often thought of buying a dildo but had never done so. It was becoming clear to me that he was becoming more comfortable talking to me about his interests and I noted that his cock was now fully hard and consistently raised away from his body. I asked him how he discovered butt stuff and he told me that he had progressed from a finger after a girlfriend had touched his hole, to two fingers and then to carrots as they were readily available. I asked him how he had found the experience and he plainly told me that he liked the sensation, but it was messy until he learnt to wash himself inside. I smiled briefly and he nervously laughed; my instructions earlier in the day were clearly unnecessary.

I mentioned that we hadn’t talked about rimming yet and he went red. Yes, he admitted, it was something he had often thought about but wasn’t sure if anyone actually did it, before I had done it to him on Monday. I asked him what he liked about it and he quickly replied “everything”; he told me how he liked the gentle but firm probing, the gentle licking, the wetness, the relaxation and the intimacy. I asked him why he wasn’t sure if anyone actually did it, and he quietly and questioningly mentioned that licking another’s hole seemed an yuck thing to do, and didn’t it smell? I told him it might seem that way, but he knew it felt good and it wasn’t happening unless he was clean; I knew that he was clean that morning as he had clearly just gotten out of the shower when I arrived. He nodded and I could see him thinking about what we had discussed; his cock was still hard and I leant forward and gently placed my hand on it.

He drew me in and kissed me firmly while I rubbed his cock through his boxer briefs; his hand brushed across my shorts before he put his had up the leg of my rugby shorts and onto my hard cock. I grunted and he rubbed me firmly while we kissed. I quietly told him between kisses that if he continued I would have to fuck him again, and was that what he wanted? He didn’t reply, but wriggled a bit on the couch while kissing me. I was starting to drip and when he withdrew his hand a string of precum stretched out before finally parting. He licked the precum on his hand; I could not fathom his reaction and was shocked when he undid the drawstring on my shorts and pulled then and my boxers down. He leant forward and licked the underside of my cock, gently to start with and more firmly as his confidence grew. He put his mouth over my cockhead and tentatively moved up and down. I reminded him about teeth and he immediately changed to applying his lips and tongue; he wasn’t too bad for someone who was clearly new to this. I withdrew from his mouth, sat down on the couch and started to lick his cock though his boxer briefs. He quickly caught on, removing his underwear and leaning back on the couch. I took him deeply and he gasped a couple of times before he became used to the sensation. I was determined to drain him as quickly as possible and it wasn’t long before he came in my mouth; I needed to leave to miss the peak traffic and wanted him to think a bit more about his new interest, so I didn’t want to linger.

I kissed him full on his lips so he could taste his cum, and explained that I had to work in my workshop the next day while I put my boxers and rugby shorts back on. He was clearly disappointed, but I needed to make some progress on other jobs.

On my way home I received a text message, could he visit me tomorrow? I called him back and told him yes, but it needed to be brief because I had work to do. He said yes, he understood. I smiled to myself, he was clearly quite keen on his new interest.