Visual cues that stop you from flirting

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LOL. :biggrin1:

They're all "geniuses" who haven't figured out that for every woman who actually responds to a thread, a lot of other women have read it and formed a opinion - and that everyone smart at LPSG looks at your posting history to form an opinion about you. :rolleyes:

C'mon now, that's way too cerebral. Far easier to not think about anything and blindly throw insults ;)
 

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Well it was a novelty I guess. We all had so much fun laughing and pointing... the offspring decided that even bad attention was better than no attention at all... and here we are.

We're still talking about the sites recent population explosion of gremlin troll offspring....right? :wink::biggrin1::biggrin1:
 

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This may come as a surprise to you, but most people do not consider the internet when valuating their perceived social standing. Also, not everyone takes the interwebs seriously. Also, not everyone finds you and your band of incessantly PMSing feminists charming.



Excuse me, I should have been more specific: I am not the one to initialize insults, nor are mine as frequent.

Oh! This was all MY fault for thinking that you were being unfair towards Fancy and MickeyLee and dolfette. Evidently I'm just suffering from PMS and it's not you who said anything that you maybe shouldn't have said or apologized for or taken back. :rolleyes:

Disagreeing with you makes me a "feminist"? I see... Tell me how that works? Is anyone who thinks that you're being irrationally critical also a feminist? Or do you just throw that out there in an attempt to undermine a woman's complaint?

How are you not initiating? Fancy wrote a post to respond to the OP and you called her a horrible person.
 
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What are some things you could see on/about a person that turn you off or prevent you from flirting with them

Overly aggressive guys. They just comes across as desperate or rude, or both. Relax dude, if the magic happens it happens, no need to force it. Intoxicated guys too, usually they go hand in hand with the aggressive nonsense. Sometimes they're funny but a lot of times they're not as funny as they think they are and can be rather annoying.

If I initiate the flirting it's well pass the stage of me sizing a guy up. I just don't randomly flirt. I'm reserved and picky in who I choose to let know I'm interested through flirting. If a guy flirts with me and I'm not interested, I take it as complement. Good for the ego, no harm no foul. He could flirt with me all night and I won't be annoyed as long as he's a gentleman about it. The only time I'll shut a guy down is if as I mentioned he become too aggressive and begins taking liberties like if he gets up in my personal space or worst still starts touching me. At that point it's, Houston we have a problem.
 

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C'mon now, that's way too cerebral. Far easier to not think about anything and blindly throw insults ;)

Yeah, because why would anyone actually base on opinion of someone based on what they have said when there are nekkid photos to look at? Methinks he doesn't understand women very well... :no:
 

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You sure do check my profile a lot.

For a 99% straight guy, and all. Oh, and while i'm at it, what is up with packing fruit under your foreskin?


For the record, I've checked your posting history twice, on both occasions just to check that I am thinking of the correct idiot (there appear to be a few coming out of the woodwork at the moment).

The 99% is in the same vein as including a deliberate mistake in a Muslim prayer mat - no-one is perfect.

And the fruit? Just because I can, for the foreskin games thread only (not that you deserve any explanation). I have a panoply of talents. That your principal talent is idiocy must be rather limiting. Please accept my sympathy.
 

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For the record, I've checked your posting history twice, on both occasions just to check that I am thinking of the correct idiot (there appear to be a few coming out of the woodwork at the moment).

The 99% is in the same vein as including a deliberate mistake in a Muslim prayer mat - no-one is perfect.

And the fruit? Just because I can, for the foreskin games thread only (not that you deserve any explanation). I have a panoply of talents. That your principal talent is idiocy must be rather limiting. Please accept my sympathy.

Can I just say, "you're my new idol?" LOL. And yeah, I had to wipe down my screen because somewhere around 'I have a panoply of talents' got me giggling way too much.

Ah, LPSG, what would life be like with out this stuff? I mean, they can't write this shit for TV. :biggrin1: Too funny. Thanks for the laugh, and I for one am going over to check out the fruit foreskin fun.... ;)
 

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Can I just say, "you're my new idol?" LOL. And yeah, I had to wipe down my screen because somewhere around 'I have a panoply of talents' got me giggling way too much.

Ah, LPSG, what would life be like with out this stuff? I mean, they can't write this shit for TV. :biggrin1: Too funny. Thanks for the laugh, and I for one am going over to check out the fruit foreskin fun.... ;)


Thank you. :) You're too kind!
 

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What are some things you could see on/about a person that turn you off or prevent you from flirting with them

Back on topic, with apologies, Gecko. I am taken of course, but if I was single, then...

If I've gotten to know someone, then appearance matters less and less. For example, I couldn't care less if someone has a bad bright orange self-tan if I know how kind and funny and caring he is, but obviously there are snap judgments we all make before we get to know someone, and being orange might be one of them - although a guy could totally make it work if he was really hilarious about being orange and how he made a one-time mistake, so that could really work as an ice-breaker.

When it comes to snap-judgments, being inappropriately unwashed. A guy tried to pick me up last night at a bar at night and he really needed a shower. If we were outdoors and he was hiking or running or doing yardwork, acceptable, but the sun had gone down many hours ago and the perspiration wasn't fresh. Yuck. Same with teeth.

Anyone who looks like he could be a cast member on Jersey Shore.

Wedding rings, should go without saying.

T-shirts or any other evidence of supporting certain political opinions. I honestly think I would have a difficult time dating someone with vastly different political opinions than me. I support gay rights for example, and I couldn't imagine myself with someone who opposed gay rights. I think it would be a turn-off.

Um... can't think of anything else right now...
 

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I guess smell would be one. If someone smells like they havent showered in days and they haven't just come from some activity that causes sweating then that's a turn off.
I'd like to say I don't care about looks but unfortunately I'm shallower than that. It's fine unless they're horrendously, nausea-inducing ugly. Hmm..what else:scratchchin:
Oh, and they can't be racist or homphobic or stuff. That's a big no.:mad:
 

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Nope he's yanking her pigtails to get a rise out of her.

If he's expecting to get a rise out of me, he'll have to yank harder... *yawn* :sleepy:

I reckon enough people know me around here that whatever he says is water off a duck's back... *quack, quack*

:borladuck:

:rolleyes: Fancy, don't you wonder why we bother to answer some of these questions....I swear, I read my post several times before I dare hit submit reply....don't want to ruffle any feathers, but I also want to be honest. We walk a razor edge around here, folks, a razor edge!! :eek:

hahah BJ, I'd rather use the analogy of walking on eggshells... those razors are bloody hell on the soles of ya feet. :yikes:

LPSG is like any other community...even real ones... there are people of all kinds, all walks of life around. Some really great people, some funny, some jerks, some with hardly walking around sense, and some just downright mean.

I never expect everyone to like me or agree with me. In fact I know there are many who do not. Why should one more make any difference? (Like I said earlier.. When he grows up, he'll understand) :wink:

lite flirting is cool....a little wink, standing so they and appreciate a bulge... no harm in flirting...

^^This ... I agree.. no harm.

There is a difference in online flirting and flirting in real life. I believe the OP's question was referring to real life... (?) :wink: