Visual cues that stop you from flirting

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Ahaha. I can see it now.

"Hey babe you dtf? Back that ass up over here."
*Taze*


:laugh2:

That reminded me... I'm not into flirting with guys that a) wear their baseball cap like it looks like their head is screwed on backwards or sideways.. or b) wear their pants down around their knees and show more than half their underwear... (I just wanna go give the pants a good yank!!... UP .. not down!) :nono:

(Please tell me this style is going out the window....)
 

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back to the topic:

~unwashed, stale sweat smell (this isn't so much a visual cue though)
~wedding bands or obvious partner on arm
~extremely poor dental hygiene
~obvious style difference a la petite's mention of the jersey shore look or some other such look that makes it obvious we're not all that compatible
 

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Most people who know me know I'm a shameless flirt. I just do it without even trying, and when I'm in a social situation it just happens naturally. I don't flirt a lot with total strangers, but I guess I could be considered excessively friendly. Sometimes that's taken wrong, and I'm quick to set things right.

But I do have limits to my social flirting in certain situations. Rarely in a funeral home (note I didn't say never. Southern funerals are different); always with a new bridegreoom; never in church (since I don't go to church); and it's a toss-up with a married man when his wife is on his arm. Sometimes that's even more fun!
 

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:laugh2:

That reminded me... I'm not into flirting with guys that a) wear their baseball cap like it looks like their head is screwed on backwards or sideways.. or b) wear their pants down around their knees and show more than half their underwear... (I just wanna go give the pants a good yank!!... UP .. not down!) :nono:

(Please tell me this style is going out the window....)

Seriously. I mean, come on. If I want to see your undies, I'd ask, otherwise, please don't show. Ugh. LOL. But, sadly I don't see this style going away any time soon, but that's okay. I'd never be attracted to a man who follows style rather than common sense. :wink:

Oh, and add to my list of turn offs, the body odor one. Eww? Too much cologne or BO. :eek:
 

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I'm the worst flirt...I do it unintentionally all the time, even to girls haha. I tend to openly flirt more with gay guys than straight guys...just cos it's fun and I know I'm not going to get turned down cos I never had a chance haha.

Things that turn me off flirting:
- Smoking (but sometimes that can be looked aside)
- Texting a lot while speaking to me (who can seriously be more important than me? ;p)
- Bad teeth haha
- Bad breath or BO
- If a woman is with them or if he mentions his S.O
- Wedding ring (it's the first thing I look for)
- If he talks about sex too much on the first meeting/date
- Talking about an ex (clear sign he's not over her)
- Drug addicts lol
- etc.
 
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