The pancake thing is hilarious for me....literally the moment my orgasm has ended, my first coherent thought is usually craving pancakes. WTF is wrong with me? Oh well, we are weird, embrace it, and love sharing our weirdness.I always have to make the pancakes. Anyway, that sounds hot. Speaking of hot, he always gets a little hot under the collar when I make the pancakes because I enlist the aid of his son and daughter (generally to the detriment of timely breakfast), and he loves watching me care for them.
I totally get your guy's feelings about you and his kids relationship. It's great that you all get along.