Gabriel said:Wow, thanks guys. The only reason I was suspended for a week was because I let some comment slip. Now that I'm calm, ....., . Anyway, thanks for the help .
Wait a minute, there's much more to the story than you have initially divulged. You report that you were suspended from your job for a week because of this incident? Of course I don't know the full details nor the exact comment that you made and how, but I wonder if your boss' reaction was itself discriminatory or, at the very least, the wrong response to the nature of the incident.
Let's recap for a moment: You wait on a 50+ year old man with his family. You work hard to provide them with excellent service. The man berates you at the end for behaving in a gay manner that he found offensive despite the professionalism that you maintained while attending to him. Your customer makes an inflammatory, somewhat slanderous falsehood about you to your boss and you may have told the customer off. If I were your boss and were able to assess the situation quickly (knowing that you have a decent reputation otherwise), I would have apologized for a rude (though understandable comment) that you may have made but insisted that the customer still pay the bill. The customer is clearly acting in a bigoted manner and the fact is that he still ate. You are the 'victim' in this situation, and your boss shouldn't have penalized you with a week's suspension for defending yourself against a slanderous and factually inaccurate accusation. You rendered a service: the family's food and beverages were delivered and you didn't behave inappropriately towards him therefore the man has no legitimate basis for refusing payment. We, as customers, oftenl have biases against those who deliver a service but that doesn't negate the fact that the service itself was rendered.
I am not a lawyer, but my intution is that your boss did not handle the situation with legal correctness. You may be a victim of a bad decision and would have legal recourse for compensation if you believe that you were wrongfully penalized. You could take your boss/employer to small claims court for this....
Please givec us some more information. Meanwhile .... is there a lawyer in the house who can speak more effectively to a matter of discrimination?????