Ok so here is the story of what happened to me the other night...
I had a guy friend come over to my house the other night because he had to ride with me the next morning to go on a trip with a huge group of people. I only have one bed, so I offered him either an air mattress or the other half of my queen size bed. I am straight, but this guy is a guy who everyone has known is gay for years, but just came out in the past couple weeks... I am perfectly comfortable with sharing beds with people and we have been great friends for years, so I didn't think he would do anything. So anyway, we go to sleep. I wake up and his head is on my shoulder and his hand is rubbing my hard package through my pants. I had no idea what the hell to do, so i moved letting him know I was awake and he immediately rolled back over. I said "what are you doing?" and he tried to pretend like he didn't do anything. I didn't want to freak out because I didn't want things to be awkward from then on. I just said "dude, Im not gay and you know that. It's ok, just ask next time." As I am without a girlfriend right now, I could have gone for a handjob, but that's beside the point. Did I handle the situation correctly? What would you have done?
I had a guy friend come over to my house the other night because he had to ride with me the next morning to go on a trip with a huge group of people. I only have one bed, so I offered him either an air mattress or the other half of my queen size bed. I am straight, but this guy is a guy who everyone has known is gay for years, but just came out in the past couple weeks... I am perfectly comfortable with sharing beds with people and we have been great friends for years, so I didn't think he would do anything. So anyway, we go to sleep. I wake up and his head is on my shoulder and his hand is rubbing my hard package through my pants. I had no idea what the hell to do, so i moved letting him know I was awake and he immediately rolled back over. I said "what are you doing?" and he tried to pretend like he didn't do anything. I didn't want to freak out because I didn't want things to be awkward from then on. I just said "dude, Im not gay and you know that. It's ok, just ask next time." As I am without a girlfriend right now, I could have gone for a handjob, but that's beside the point. Did I handle the situation correctly? What would you have done?