Wank and age

[curtdude]

When you discover masturbation when you are young it is all about the orgasm shooting your load as you mature you get into more body exploreation while masterbating you realize not just your penis is a stimulation point but so are your nipples your stomach your balls and your ass you slow down and discover edging making the experience last longersticking a finger IN your ass to stimulate that prostate as you get older your masterbation techniques msture and hopefully you get more pleasure

 

[chrisrobin]

When you discover masturbation when you are young it is all about the orgasm shooting your load as you mature you get into more body exploreation while masterbating you realize not just your penis is a stimulation point but so are your nipples your stomach your balls and your ass you slow down and discover edging making the experience last longersticking a finger IN your ass to stimulate that prostate as you get older your masterbation techniques msture and hopefully you get more pleasure

exactly -self stimulation is always satisfying, a long sustained wank with anal stimulus is better than a quick shag

 

[554279]

The only thing that changes for me is the search for adult materiel I haven't seen yet.

Some days its Asians, Asian MILFS, MILFs in nylons giving handjobs, some days its reverse interracial lesbian trans gangbangs, Latina midgets and circus clowns dressed as IRS agents....

Nah not much changed in 40+ years other than mouse clicking versus holding a magazine with one hand

 

[Acratopotes]

I have felt more and more, over the years, a sense of guilt or regret after masturbation. This happens more often when I ejaculate. When I masturbate and have a dry orgasm, this does not happen.

The explanation for this timing is that horniness is a very strong instinct and can suppress feelings of guilt but as you cum hormones are released that temporarily suppress the horniness (and give rise to the refractory period) and that allows the feelings of guilt to resurface.

I think it is important to get to the bottom of the guilt feelings. You mention porn as one possible cause. Have you worked how it could be a cause? Do you have religious beliefs that prohibit porn? or are you worried that the things you watch in porn are things you would not actually want to do in practice? In the same way that you can dream of non-sexual things you don't actually want to do, so you can fantasise sexually about things you would never do in practice and porn is more about fantasy than reality. You can also try fantasising directly, i.e. without the porn as a trigger.

Always think: a 28 year old guy needs to masturbate? Am I wasting money, energy and time?

Why wasting money? As the joke goes, "your hand doesn't cost you dinner". Seriously, there is nothing wrong with having "me time" whether you spend it on a hobby or masturbating. There also isn't an age when you are supposed to "grow out of it". I still masturbate plenty and I am 48 and married and I have loved doing it every since I discovered it. I don't shoot quite as much or as far as when I was 18 but it still feels amazing. Even by 18 I had discovered that the sensation of nearly cumming was great and, unlike cumming itself, that feeling could be extended for quite some time before finally going over the edge. Now, I spend even more time enjoying the journey, though obviously I still love to cum too.

Do you feel that you should be doing something with a partner instead? I think it is important to get rid of any idea that masturbation is for boys and that "real men fuck" or that there is any obligation either to breed or even share you sexuality with anyone else. On the other hand, if you think those things will make you happier then go for it.

 

[flpdk1234]

I definitely love wanking a lot more as I get older and my bate sessions has become a lot longer too.

 

[chrisrobin]

I definitely love wanking a lot more as I get older and my bate sessions has become a lot longer too.

define what getting older means in real terms.
and yes, wanking does and can take longer as one ages and the orgasms as intense, its losing that youthful exuberance of having to shoot a load quickly.

 

[flpdk1234]

define what getting older means in real terms.
and yes, wanking does and can take longer as one ages and the orgasms as intense, its losing that youthful exuberance of having to shoot a load quickly.

Older is when you're not in your teens or tweenties.

I can shoot a load quickly if I want, but rarely I don't. I want to wank as long as possible each time.

 

[chrisrobin]

wait till you're double teens plus a bit

 

[Infernal]

At first it was just about getting off. Sometimes multiple times a day, just to see how many times you could do it. Now, at 48, it's a few times a week, maybe more, maybe less. It takes a little longer to get fully hard, but I'm no longer in a hurry and taking my time makes it all the better. It takes longer to cum, and the volume is less. Less to clean up, and less chance of hitting myself in the face. It's also less of a distraction. In the early years the constant erection and demand for attention could get annoying. Now things happen when I want them to.

 

[deleted1061127]

In my early 40s and wank off 4 times a day usually - way more than when i was younger. Most prob due to all the available porn that’s around, which I didn’t have access to pre-internet

 

[chrisrobin]

In my early 40s and wank off 4 times a day usually - way more than when i was younger. Most prob due to all the available porn that’s around, which I didn’t have access to pre-internet

That's very true about the porn, one of the reasons sexual behaviour is so bad as teenagers don't understand limitations or understand that often its not real but staged.

 

[svrocks]

I started pretty young and did it pretty routinely over the earlier years. It wasn't until I got to university that I really stepped up my frequency and that lasted through my 20s. I'm now in my early 30s and I think I've found a good balance for myself. I know myself better and I know what feels good. It's no longer about hitting the highest number of orgasm in a day anymore, but it's more about feeling better and really enjoying myself. I'm down to once a day or twice if I'm really in the mood, but, boy, it feels much better than when I was younger.

 

[flpdk1234]

In my early 40s and wank off 4 times a day usually - way more than when i was younger. Most prob due to all the available porn that’s around, which I didn’t have access to pre-internet

Do you wank when you're on LPSG?

 

[deleted1061127]

Do you wank when you're on LPSG?

Yeah - tho depends where I am!

 

[flpdk1234]

Yeah - tho depends where I am!

Same here. Wanking when I'm posting my pics and reading/writing posts.

 

[deleted1061127]

Same here. Wanking when I'm posting my pics and reading/writing posts.

Now that’s a great mental image

 

[kuilatop]

Become more experimental, but have same amount and still gets me off

 

[Addicted2edging]

When you discover masturbation when you are young it is all about the orgasm shooting your load as you mature you get into more body exploreation while masterbating you realize not just your penis is a stimulation point but so are your nipples your stomach your balls and your ass you slow down and discover edging making the experience last longersticking a finger IN your ass to stimulate that prostate as you get older your masterbation techniques msture and hopefully you get more pleasure

experiencing edging ritual the first time with 40 practicing only 2- 3 partial ejaculations without orgasm . later increasing to 57 totally unsatsifying sperm releases without orgasm over many hours ( practicing totally naked in nature ! ) . the whole reproductive system was exhausted . no final last orgasm ! very addicting !

 

[ohiorod]

When I first started beating the meat, I never heard of lube, so I used a lot of spit and I usually utilized magazines or other physical items that I would flip through. That eventually lead to using lube and online photos , videos and various free websites. Now, if I masturbate, I still use lube,but I rely mostly on either memories or visualizing something with my partner. I seldom use online porn.

 

[goander]

I am in allot more control of when I ejaculate. I know what works and feels the best through lots and lots of practice.