I'll post my thoughts about this now.
The threads I define as wank fodder are usually asking for sexually explicit content. They don't tend to state a purpose (a purpose might be something like making oral sex better for a gf), although some wf threads DO state a purpose and some threads without a stated purpose aren't wf. They usually just
feel like the OP is asking for material to get off with. They often use words or sentences that sound like they came straight out of an issue of Penthouse Letters or a similar publication. I was going to give an example, but can't come up with anything. I'm crap at dirty talking :redface:.
I don't think these kinds of threads are appropriate in WI. Largely because the forum rules imply they aren't (I'm a bit of a rule following). But also because I don't like the implication that women are only on this site to provide men with material to wank off to. It makes me feel rather like an unpaid prostitute.
Some threads may seem similar to the wf threads, but for me there are subtle differences. Some men will ask for detailed information out of a genuine curiosity and interest in sex - just like someone interested in sports might ask a sport related question. Rawdog's posts are an example of this kind of question (hope he doesn't mind me mentioning his name here :smile
. Yes, his threads and posts are sexually explicit. But rather than making me feel used, Rawdog makes me feel a part of the conversation. He gets me interested. And I know (or think!) his primary interest isn't having a good wank.
Another example of a non-wf thread is Gecko's recent one on oral sex. Again, the thread is sexually explicit. However, Gecko provides the explicit information himself, rather than asking for explicit replies. He gives the impression that he is asking to make sure his technique is good, and if it isn't he will be changing it (not sure if you really will Gecko, that's just the impression I got from it).
The non-wf, but similar, threads are totally appropriate here IMO. I love them. I also love the sexually explicit content (although the beginning of this post may have suggested otherwise). I just like threads to be polite and respectful and conform to the rules.
Disclaimer: These are all my opinions and I don't claim that any other women share them, even if I did accidentally put a 'we' or two in there!