Wank Fodder and Appropriateness

[dolfette]

Freaky shit can never be bad. Sadly some of the freakier stuff I'm into most people never are.

now i'm curious!

 

[MercyfulFate]

now i'm curious!

I guess my weirdest one(to me it's not that weird, but to people I mention it to, it is) is taking a skinny girl and making her fatter. I've always liked girls with a bit more on them, not obese but chubby, and including it with sex and food drives me over the edge.

Did it a bit with my ex-girlfriend and it was amazing, but most girls are so obsessed with being thin that the idea repulses them, you know?

There's many others but that's a major one.

 

[HiddenLacey]

I guess my weirdest one(to me it's not that weird, but to people I mention it to, it is) is taking a skinny girl and making her fatter. I've always liked girls with a bit more on them, not obese but chubby, and including it with sex and food drives me over the edge.

Did it a bit with my ex-girlfriend and it was amazing, but most girls are so obsessed with being thin that the idea repulses them, you know?

There's many others but that's a major one.

This is different, I think there are a lot of people obsessed with food and sex this comes to mind

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHchl4AxsE0

 

[MercyfulFate]

This is different, I think there are a lot of people obsessed with food and sex this comes to mind

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHchl4AxsE0

Yeah I got into it because my ex was a chef, and when we did it, it was the best sex we ever had. Pregnancy also plays into this, watching a woman slowly grow over time is one of the hottest things to me.

 

[HiddenLacey]

Yeah I got into it because my ex was a chef, and when we did it, it was the best sex we ever had. Pregnancy also plays into this, watching a woman slowly grow over time is one of the hottest things to me.

Interesting, I have seen several guys on different sites say they were into the pregnancy bodies. I think stopping during sex to have a ham sandwich would ummm change the moment somewhat for myself. But as I said I'm sure there are a lot of people who might like it. Different strokes!

 

[petite]

I guess my weirdest one(to me it's not that weird, but to people I mention it to, it is) is taking a skinny girl and making her fatter. I've always liked girls with a bit more on them, not obese but chubby, and including it with sex and food drives me over the edge.

Did it a bit with my ex-girlfriend and it was amazing, but most girls are so obsessed with being thin that the idea repulses them, you know?

There's many others but that's a major one.

You're a feeder! I saw this on TV once.

 

[dolfette]

I guess my weirdest one(to me it's not that weird, but to people I mention it to, it is) is taking a skinny girl and making her fatter. I've always liked girls with a bit more on them, not obese but chubby, and including it with sex and food drives me over the edge.

i kinda like that one.

 

[MercyfulFate]

You're a feeder! I saw this on TV once.

Yeah from what I know that's the official term, although some people want to take it to pretty extreme lengths. I don't really, it just plays into liking slightly bigger women.

I've been with skinny girls, chubby girls and one fairly fat one. The ones in the middle of the spectrum tend to be my most sought after.

i kinda like that one.

I have quite a few, but finding a woman comfortable enough to do pretty much anything is the tough part.

 

[HiddenLacey]

I just had to look up "feeder" very interesting I had never heard of that before. I learn something new everyday on this site.

 

[petite]

Interesting, I have seen several guys on different sites say they were into the pregnancy bodies.

I bought some pretty dresses to make myself feel better, and I swear that I got a few looks yesterday and more than a few double-takes! I felt strange about it, because on the one hand, it made me feel better about myself, like I wasn't so unsexy, but I also felt just a tiny bit like I ought to feel creeped out by it, but I really wasn't.

I was telling TheBF about it and I asked him if guys were into pregnant ladies, and he didn't hesitate to say, "Yeah, they are! This surprises you? Men are dogs."

 

[dolfette]

i got more male attention when i was pregnant than at any other time.

but it was less creepy dog stuff, more nurturing excitement.

they were forever buying me juice!

 

[Sergeant_Torpedo]

I am not sure what wank fodder is, but know what is disingenuous. However, is it valid to ask such a question on a site like this? One only has to glance at the majority of conversations in chat to see the predatory nature of many members. Women seem to be victims in chat especially. That is a pity. This site is not exclusively a gay site, and while I have no objection to anyone posting here, I do think people should be considerate of others. Personally I don't want to here turgid sexual chat in the open exclusively between two people. If you had any sense you'd go into Pm or whispers.

 

[HiddenLacey]

I bought some pretty dresses to make myself feel better, and I swear that I got a few looks yesterday and more than a few double-takes! I felt strange about it, because on the one hand, it made me feel better about myself, like I wasn't so unsexy, but I also felt just a tiny bit like I ought to feel creeped out by it, but I really wasn't.

I was telling TheBF about it and I asked him if guys were into pregnant ladies, and he didn't hesitate to say, "Yeah, they are! This surprises you? Men are dogs."

There is pregnancy porn out there. I know I've stumbled upon it in a search before and yep I had to watch it. I seem to keep finding new stuff I've never heard of.

I'm sure you look beautiful, but I'm sure you cannot wait to be YOU again:wink:

 

[HiddenLacey]

i got more male attention when i was pregnant than at any other time.

but it was less creepy dog stuff, more nurturing excitement.

they were forever buying me juice!

PMSL... well I guess that's kind of sweet and a great turn around from "hey babyyyy"

 

[MercyfulFate]

i got more male attention when i was pregnant than at any other time.

but it was less creepy dog stuff, more nurturing excitement.

they were forever buying me juice!

Yeah I think it kicks in some primal thing in us, for a year or so I've had an unexplainable desire to get a woman pregnant although I won't because of financial issues and things like that.

We're hardwired that way I guess.

 

[dolfette]

One only has to glance at the majority of conversations in chat to see the predatory nature of many members. Women seem to be victims in chat especially. That is a pity.

the only time i've been disrespected in chat, half a dozen guys apologised for the behaviour of the moron. said moron left the room in the face of mass disapproval.

lots of guys are aware of the problem and are really cool about it.

Yeah I think it kicks in some primal thing in us, for a year or so I've had an unexplainable desire to get a woman pregnant although I won't because of financial issues and things like that.

We're hardwired that way I guess.

very common. it's just more socially acceptable for women to crave reproduction.


yeah, i think there's a primal ''protect the future of the tribe'' thing going on.

 

[petite]

i got more male attention when i was pregnant than at any other time.

but it was less creepy dog stuff, more nurturing excitement.

they were forever buying me juice!

That's so sweet!

I am not sure what wank fodder is, but know what is disingenuous. However, is it valid to ask such a question on a site like this? One only has to glance at the majority of conversations in chat to see the predatory nature of many members. Women seem to be victims in chat especially. That is a pity. This site is not exclusively a gay site, and while I have no objection to anyone posting here, I do think people should be considerate of others. Personally I don't want to here turgid sexual chat in the open exclusively between two people. If you had any sense you'd go into Pm or whispers.

The vast majority of men in chat are gentlemen. Sometimes it just feels like there are more creeps because the creeps can be the most "loud and vocal" but they're really a minority.

There is pregnancy porn out there. I know I've stumbled upon it in a search before and yep I had to watch it. I seem to keep finding new stuff I've never heard of.

I'm sure you look beautiful, but I'm sure you cannot wait to be YOU again:wink:

Aw, thanks! You are sweet! I think the way I feel is silly, honestly, but TheBF keeps reassuring me that he doesn't think it is, that if his body changed as quickly then he'd be having just as hard a time adjusting to it as I am, and that made me feel a lot better.

I did find one dress that practically hides my pregnancy and I love it, but there are other dresses I bought that "show off" my belly a lot more, and I like them, too. People are so sweet when they notice that you're pregnant and they always share their own pregnancy stories, and I really enjoy that.

I really can't wait to have my body back, but it probably won't be the exact same body. That's alright. I'll be a mom and I think that trade-off is worth it. I'm really excited about having a kid.

Yeah I think it kicks in some primal thing in us, for a year or so I've had an unexplainable desire to get a woman pregnant although I won't because of financial issues and things like that.

We're hardwired that way I guess.

I think it's a myth that women are the ones who want marriage and kids and men are the ones who run from those things. I think a lot of men are ready for those things very young and they seek it out. I've always been the one who ran from commitment and every man I've ever been serious with has wanted to marry me and have kids, some of them shockingly early in the relationship.

TheBF's biological clock has obviously gone off long before mine, and he's younger than me. He's already started talking about having a second kid. I hadn't even thought about a second one, I've been trying so hard to wrap my mind around having one that I hadn't thought about a second one yet. The idea of family comes so much easier to him than it does to me, and I'm not sure that has anything to do with our genders, just who we are as people.

 

[RawDog]

Rawdog's posts are an example of this kind of question (hope he doesn't mind me mentioning his name here :smile. Yes, his threads and posts are sexually explicit. But rather than making me feel used, Rawdog makes me feel a part of the conversation. He gets me interested. And I know (or think!) his primary interest isn't having a good wank.

Thanks for the compliment, subgirrl (and no, I don't mind you mentioning my name). I try my best to come off as civil when I ask my questions, and if I have doubts as to how the tone may be percieved, I post it on the Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy forum. Unfortunately not as many women give as much feedback as this one.

As to what makes the question, "Ladies do you prefer a clit orgasm or a g-spot orgasm?" (just an example question I pulled out of my ass) question as being wank fodder or not, I think one needs to look at context and reputation. If that was my first post, for sure it would (and so it should) be taken as wank fodder.

Sometimes it's good to get new ideas that's outside the experiences of both you and your partner.

This sums up my questions here in a nutshell.

 

[Gillette]

and seeing as my sex ideas often involve electrodes and duct tape, taking my advice might not be such a good idea.

They might get a charge out of it.

As to what makes the question, "Ladies do you prefer a clit orgasm or a g-spot orgasm?" (just an example question I pulled out of my ass) question as being wank fodder or not, I think one needs to look at context and reputation. If that was my first post, for sure it would (and so it should) be taken as wank fodder.

Uh, no. No it shouldn't.

N00bs aren't deserving of courtesy or the benefit of doubt?
We should presume all men posting here are slavering wankers until they prove otherwise?

Are you telling us that when you first joined here all you sought from the women was masturbatory material? It's been my impression that when you came to this site you were already an intelligent man with a genuine curiosity about sex and seeking healthy discussions about it.

Being new just means being new. It doesn't translate to being less.

Assuming the worst about someones intention's simply because we don't know them is a poor life philosophy. This isn't a dark alley with ominous footfalls echoing behind us. It's a message board. Text. No threat.
We should be less tetchy and more willing to give people a chance.

 

[petite]

Thanks for the compliment, subgirrl (and no, I don't mind you mentioning my name). I try my best to come off as civil when I ask my questions, and if I have doubts as to how the tone may be percieved, I post it on the Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy forum. Unfortunately not as many women give as much feedback as this one.

As to what makes the question, "Ladies do you prefer a clit orgasm or a g-spot orgasm?" (just an example question I pulled out of my ass) question as being wank fodder or not, I think one needs to look at context and reputation. If that was my first post, for sure it would (and so it should) be taken as wank fodder.

Even when I was brand new here, the way that you worded your questions always made you seem genuinely curious about sex, not like a creep. You've never seemed like a creep. I think that's the vibe that tends to put the women off here in the women's forum.