Wanking in relationship?

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  1. hotstuff06

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    In a 6 month relationship.... still masturbating heaps - like at least once a day... something wrong with me or is it how most guys operate??? any ideas?
     
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    Yes. It's completely normal. Only worry about it if you can't perform sexually with your partner. Even married guys (and women!) masturbate. Masturbation is a great way to spend time with yourself. Enjoy it!
     
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    nope, most men jerk it plenty.

    never bothered me. i like the idea actually.
     
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    There's nothing wrong with beating off, unless you do it to such an extent that it costs you sex with your partner and would rather beat off than have sex with him/her. Beating off is perfectly healthy, not to mention fun.
     
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    It is definitely healthy and quite normal. Like that old saying goes, 98&#37; of men masturbate, 1% are lying and 1% were too busy doing it to answer the poll.

    I have to admit I'm in a relationship and haven't jacked off in a long while (except with/in front of my partner). I think that might have more to do with looking at porn all day than just not desiring to do it.
     
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    I have always wanked as well as having sex with my wife and she likes to know that I do it frequently.

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    U lucky stiff :biggrin1: It's better than just thinking about it!:smile:
    Enjoy!:wink::cool:
     
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    I've been married 16 years and still do it every day in the shower.
     
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    As long as it's as well as sex not instead of it's never bothered me.
     
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    Absolutely nothing wrong with it. ENJOY!
     
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    If I was completely sexually satisfied in every way I would probably still masturbate once every week or two. (Since I'm not, I do it a great bit more than that) Good to have some alone time, though.
     
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    Have to at least twice a day. Otherwise, I gets the DSB's! And that's in or out of relationship.

    If I didn't, I'd be way too anxious.
     
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    my girlfriends likes cumshots and pearl necklaces, but she likes to catch me masturbating and then get them, she also loves to hear about my fantasies.

    its perfectly normal
     
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    GO FOR IT! i know i do..
     
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    Studies have shown that when someone is in a sexual relationship, people tend to masturbate more frequently than when they were not in a relationship. They attribute it to the fact that you are getting more attention than if you were single and so you are hornier more often. It is a completely normal thing to masturbate during a relationship. Just shows that your libido is healthy and active.
     
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    I do it, although when in a relationship I usually wank over the girl I'm in a relationship with. I still wank over one girl now, even though I'm not with her...awesome tits on that one:tongue:
     
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