Wondering what people’s takes are on cumming before sex?
Do you feel that you last longer if you came earlier that day, an hour before etc?
I've always heard of some people suggesting that it could help you last longer, but I never tried it myself.
The technique I've always used to last longer when having sex is to pause at the slightest hint that you may be approaching the point of no return, and take a few breaths, or even better, change positions.
If the woman I'm with wants to start in missionary and end that way, it's likely I'm going to only last 5-10 minutes maximum. This is because missionary is the most intense for me, with the full body-to-body contact and just the way my cock feel inside when in this position. When changing positions, it allows a natural break in the action, and a change of sensation. When I've changed positions at least 2-3 time while having intercourse, I find I can easily last 15+ minutes.
Whether I've lasted 5 minutes of 25 minutes, I find that I do last longer the 2nd round of sex. I'd much rather have that first cum be deep inside a woman and go for another round that to wank off ahead of time. Sex time is always greater than masturbation time for me.
Do you think sex feels better or worse if you’ve wanked before?
I've never done it (other than maybe the day before) so my only relevant experience is round 1 vs round 2 of intercourse. I will say that sex feels great every time I've done it. The one time I fucked a woman 5 times in 24 hours, we were both sore, and my final orgasm wasn't as intense of the first few, because my balls were drained at that point and ejaculation has always been in conjunction with my orgasms. Did it still feel great? Yes of course! It always feels fucking amazing, every single time, but maybe not quite as intense.
Bottom line: If you are having sex with someone new and are afraid of premature ejaculation, maybe jack off hours before you get together if really concerned about it. The times I've not lasted long, most women took it as a compliment that the sex was so good, that you couldn't last long. When this has happened with me, I always say I last longer with the second round and every women has been happy to hear that, and eager to go again.