Wanking / Jerking Off before sex

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Wondering what people’s takes are on cumming before sex?

Do you feel that you last longer if you came earlier that day, an hour before etc?

Do you think sex feels better or worse if you’ve wanked before?

Personally I’m mixed. I’ve had sex unexpectedly after having a wank that morning, and found I wasn’t as hard / it didn’t feel as good as if I didn’t. But then other times it feels just as.

Thoughts?
 

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It's a bit of a mixed bag here. I suspect it also has something to do with my level of fitness at the time. When I'm fitter it does help me last longer during penetrative sex, provided I have had some time to recover. When I'm less fit it doesn't seem to do much to help me last longer and it also weakens my erection during sex and the overall sensation becomes dialled down.

I do find that it works best if I give it at least a few hours after wanking before I have sex. Otherwise even though I can get hard and go in the orgasm isn't very intense and my load doesn't really recover even though I'm running on a pretty full sack.
 
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It would sometimes help me last longer when I was younger but as I've gotten older I don't cum as quickly so I don't do it as often
 

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Wondering what people’s takes are on cumming before sex?

Do you feel that you last longer if you came earlier that day, an hour before etc?

Do you think sex feels better or worse if you’ve wanked before?

Personally I’m mixed. I’ve had sex unexpectedly after having a wank that morning, and found I wasn’t as hard / it didn’t feel as good as if I didn’t. But then other times it feels just as.

Thoughts?
Well it was a woogie advice and I took like that and dismissed the idea.
If want to improve your performance train yourself know your pace and the pace to fuck, forget about porn.
I don't remember a day where I masturbated and have sex it's likely but I don't remember.
Once I faked cumming she was done and sored and I knew i would took me longer so I faked and cummed afterwards alone.

 

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Wondering what people’s takes are on cumming before sex?

Do you feel that you last longer if you came earlier that day, an hour before etc?

Do you think sex feels better or worse if you’ve wanked before?

Personally I’m mixed. I’ve had sex unexpectedly after having a wank that morning, and found I wasn’t as hard / it didn’t feel as good as if I didn’t. But then other times it feels just as.

Thoughts?

It depends on how long between sex and jo. I last way longer if I jerk like 2-3 hours before and then have sex. I can pound and fuck hard, and I have actually had a harder time cumming. But like the others, my load is of course less volume.

When I edge before or even watch twitter/reddit/porn before, I honestly have a hard time holding out because I am so amped up and horny. I should really just cum twice in those instances, but my wife doesn’t know what is going on in my head lol
 

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Maybe when I first started having sex I would jerk off before sex to have better control but learned long ago how to control myself without the need of jerking off.
 

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Wondering what people’s takes are on cumming before sex?
Do you feel that you last longer if you came earlier that day, an hour before etc?
I've always heard of some people suggesting that it could help you last longer, but I never tried it myself.
The technique I've always used to last longer when having sex is to pause at the slightest hint that you may be approaching the point of no return, and take a few breaths, or even better, change positions.

If the woman I'm with wants to start in missionary and end that way, it's likely I'm going to only last 5-10 minutes maximum. This is because missionary is the most intense for me, with the full body-to-body contact and just the way my cock feel inside when in this position. When changing positions, it allows a natural break in the action, and a change of sensation. When I've changed positions at least 2-3 time while having intercourse, I find I can easily last 15+ minutes.

Whether I've lasted 5 minutes of 25 minutes, I find that I do last longer the 2nd round of sex. I'd much rather have that first cum be deep inside a woman and go for another round that to wank off ahead of time. Sex time is always greater than masturbation time for me.

Do you think sex feels better or worse if you’ve wanked before?
I've never done it (other than maybe the day before) so my only relevant experience is round 1 vs round 2 of intercourse. I will say that sex feels great every time I've done it. The one time I fucked a woman 5 times in 24 hours, we were both sore, and my final orgasm wasn't as intense of the first few, because my balls were drained at that point and ejaculation has always been in conjunction with my orgasms. Did it still feel great? Yes of course! It always feels fucking amazing, every single time, but maybe not quite as intense.

Bottom line: If you are having sex with someone new and are afraid of premature ejaculation, maybe jack off hours before you get together if really concerned about it. The times I've not lasted long, most women took it as a compliment that the sex was so good, that you couldn't last long. When this has happened with me, I always say I last longer with the second round and every women has been happy to hear that, and eager to go again.
 
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I definitely notice that, especially the older I get, if I wank during the day it takes me longer to cum during sex, which isn’t always a good thing. If my wife cums first then I feel under pressure to cum and it doesn’t always happen because I’m thinking more about cumming rather than enjoying the moment. Gets really frustrating.

Now… I will agree with the want after sex!! Feels great!
 

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I don't do it because I want to feel the stimulation as strongly as possible and make it last as long as I can make it last. I also want the biggest cumshot I can create for my wife, she loves my cumshot the bigger the better the stronger and further it goes the more she gets off by it. Occasionally if the shot is bigger and goes further than she thought it would, like it surprises her, she has an even bigger O when I pull out to finish.
 
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