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Anyone else a bit too used to wanking that actual sex seems to have dulled down a bit cause you aren't getting it regularly anyway?

you get a bit anxious about performance or stamina during sex or feel like you hyped up sex too much and it's not as enjoyable? Maybe I just need to do a wank cleanse this No Nut November and see how it goes haha
 
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Anyone else a bit too used to wanking that actual sex seems to have dulled down a bit cause you aren't getting it regularly anyway?

you get a bit anxious about performance or stamina during sex or feel like you hyped up sex too much and it's not as enjoyable? Maybe I just need to do a wank cleanse this No Nut November and see how it goes haha
I actually prefer wanking to sex. I’m married, but my wife and I don’t have much of a sex life to speak of anymore and the times we do have sex now are awkward and masturbation is just easier and more enjoyable for both of us
 
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Are u kidding me i fucking loved it. After finally getting divorced from her 7 years ago that's all I did Every NIGHT I got it to where I had my favorite positions favorite lines and of course favorite porn. I even recorded my self for some women I met that liked swapping pics and vids
 
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Are u kidding me i fucking loved it. After finally getting divorced from her 7 years ago that's all I did Every NIGHT I got it to where I had my favorite positions favorite lines and of course favorite porn. I even recorded my self for some women I met that liked swapping pics and vids
I prefer wanking too. It just better suite my needs than sex
 
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I love watching my girlfriend being fucked by well hung guys while I wank my tiny penis.
I also once had one of my most powerful ejaculations when my gf of the time wanked me in front of one of her female friends.
When I actual fuck I don't do much for the woman because not only is my cock very small but I cum very quickly. This means I last a lot longer when masturbating and thus build my arousalto higher level.
 
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So both u and ur wife prefers to jerk off rather than sex with each other. My ex wife didn't like sex or so she told me. So any chance I could JO would. She didn't care info did it right next to her in bed.
 

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So both u and ur wife prefers to jerk off rather than sex with each other. My ex wife didn't like sex or so she told me. So any chance I could JO would. She didn't care info did it right next to her in bed.
My girlfriend prefers to be fucked by guys with bigger cocks and better stamina. My penis is tiny and I cum too quickly .
 
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I love watching my girlfriend being fucked by well hung guys while I wank my tiny penis.
I also once had one of my most powerful ejaculations when my gf of the time wanked me in front of one of her female friends.
When I actual fuck I don't do much for the woman because not only is my cock very small but I cum very quickly. This means I last a lot longer when masturbating and thus build my arousalto higher level.
Have u tried and cock sleeves or anything else to satisfy ur wife. I'm looking into cock weights and extenders. I myself love wearing cock rings and also use a cock pump I can get it to 8inches in the pump and without 6 1/2. I'm working on getting bigger flacid right now with tying and stretching cock.
 
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Have u tried and cock sleeves or anything else to satisfy ur wife. I'm looking into cock weights and extenders. I myself love wearing cock rings and also use a cock pump I can get it to 8inches in the pump and without 6 1/2. I'm working on getting bigger flacid right now with tying and stretching cock.
It’s not about satisfying my wife. She doesn’t want sexual satisfaction. She wants a less sexual relationship
 

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Have u tried and cock sleeves or anything else to satisfy ur wife. I'm looking into cock weights and extenders. I myself love wearing cock rings and also use a cock pump I can get it to 8inches in the pump and without 6 1/2. I'm working on getting bigger flacid right now with tying and stretching cock.
Actually no. I totally get off on the SPH kick and we love the sex with multiple participants. She gets turned on just by the sight of a big swinging dick and always cums hard when being fucked by a big cock even if he doesn't have a great deal of stamina.
 
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DAMN that sucks. My ex kinda same way just couldn't get her excited or turned on. I never had any problems before with women and didn't have any problems after her. Maybe she just didn't like me. Lol
 
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Like I said the woman at sex clubs loved Big Dicks also but have us smaller guys a chance to get them turned on by big guys.
 
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Do u have any vids or pics by chance. All the swinging couples I met loved to film with no faces just fucking and sucking
 
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DAMN that sucks. My ex kinda same way just couldn't get her excited or turned on. I never had any problems before with women and didn't have any problems after her. Maybe she just didn't like me. Lol
We have a great non sexual relationship and we compensate her need for something more than I can give her in the bedroom by hooking up with others. Like I mentioned I have an SPH fetish which definitely makes it just as enjoyable for me while someone else fucks her.
 
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DAMN that sucks. My ex kinda same way just couldn't get her excited or turned on. I never had any problems before with women and didn't have any problems after her. Maybe she just didn't like me. Lol
My wife was up front about her lack of sex drive before we married and let me know that she didn’t want to have a very sexual relationship, so I had to be ok with that. So I can’t blame anyone but myself
 
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We have a great non sexual relationship and we compensate her need for something more than I can give her in the bedroom by hooking up with others. Like I mentioned I have an SPH fetish which definitely makes it just as enjoyable for me while someone else fucks her.
It’s good that you have a non-sexual relationship. Are you fully non-sexual?
 
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As long as both of u r getting what else u need out of the relationship. I love sex I love jerking off I loved talking to women and getting their feedback on what got them off. I got to be real friendly with a lot of couples and most of them liked the SPH thing also.
 

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Do u have any vids or pics by chance. All the swinging couples I met loved to film with no faces just fucking and sucking
No pics or vids. We hook up with people we know either directly or through other people we know. Never complete strangers. Everyone likes to keep it strictly up close and personal and not worry about any pics et al getting exposed to others.
Most people we know are unaware of our sexual proclivities unless for one reason or another my gf and I choose to solicit their involvement.