Ok, have this issue. I am highly attracted to women. Though I have never been with one sexually. ( have kissed a couple and loved it) but my husband does not know of the attraction. He sees me looking at people but assumes I am looking at the guy (usually not true) I am usually checking out the female. Don't get me wrong, I love men. But there is just something....... Anyway. How would you feel if your wife were to tell you this? I know each person would feel different but want some ideas and input before I think about telling him. My husband is pretty close minded when it comes to sex. Not real open with talking about it. (He is VERY shy) any other shy guys out there? Thanks!