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I broke up almost a year ago after a 4 year relationship. At first I went out a few times and had sex etc but now it's gone dry. Not because of guys not being available but because I find myself scared of sex - if that makes any sense. The last time I had sex was a good 6 or 7 months ago. I am horny as a big dog and have ample opportunities. As a matter of fact I wrote a guy I know about meeting again and he said "yes, how about today?" I'd love to see him. He's sexy and fun etc but now I'm sitting here not writing to him....
A friend suggests it's about my ex. That even though we broke up, we still see each other WAY TOO MUCH (we still work together) and even though I say it's over and we're only friends, somewhere deep inside I'm scared to "cheat" on him.
WTF is wrong with me and how do I get over it?
(I know what will happen. I'll call the sexy guy and in the middle of getting naked, my ex will call to ask me if I want to grab a beer. My friend says I'm scared of getting caught.)
A friend suggests it's about my ex. That even though we broke up, we still see each other WAY TOO MUCH (we still work together) and even though I say it's over and we're only friends, somewhere deep inside I'm scared to "cheat" on him.
WTF is wrong with me and how do I get over it?
(I know what will happen. I'll call the sexy guy and in the middle of getting naked, my ex will call to ask me if I want to grab a beer. My friend says I'm scared of getting caught.)