Want to Connect with Another Masturbator

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  1. D_Marina_DelRhey

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    This was kind of hard to title so please bear with me.

    In my residence hall, we have a public bathroom. (Three toilets, three showers, you know the deal.)
    Every night when I go to take a shower, there's always the same guy in the last shower stall. I and my friends have taken notice that he's in there for long periods of time, and can sometimes be heard talking real deeply. While showering tonight I noticed some small and not so small moans or grunts, especially noticeable when no one else is in the bathroom. So I'm almost positive he's masturbating.

    While I will sometimes masturbate in the shower myself, I don't do it so often anymore. But now that I'm sure of what this guy is doing, I want to try and connect with him somehow. But, I don't really know what to do. Should I go into the stall next to him next time? Should I let out little moans as well so he can hear?
    Should I try and do anything at all?

    What are some tips to find other guys to masturbate with, or talk about masturbation with?
     
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    Fuck that is SO hot...I am rock hard now after reading this...
    There's no right answer here, but I think would start jackin' across from him in my stall, make it kinda obvious so he knows too....while the two of you are jackin together, in separate stalls making noises and stuff, the natural animal instinct will take over and things will just happen...either he will go check you out or you'll check out him or maybe even meet halfway haha....

    good luck...keep me updated.
     
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    I don't recommend acting on this. He probably masturbates in the shower because residence halls offer little privacy and he's under the faulty impression that the shower is an exception. The only reason you should do anything is if you're acquainted with him and you're just going to privately and tactfully clue him in that people can hear what he's up to. Otherwise, don't embarrass the guy by confronting him. A guy who is trying not to masturbate in front of his roommate probably won't appreciate your attempt to "connect" with him and possibly establish a j/o buddies arrangement.
     
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    I can't say I agree with travis. People who need privacy can find it and not masturbate in the showers (toilet stalls for instance). You should casually go to the back and see what kind of reaction you get when he realizes someone has seen him. And if he is masturbating and looks at you without being ashamed just smile and give him a thumbs up.
     
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    Wow Jersian, - Your story is hot and I must admit, got me a mean boner! I have been fortunate enough in my life to have had a number of similar encounters, and let me assure you, every time it worked out in my favour. Think about it for a second, - if the guy was a totally private (not wanting a jack off buddy), he certainly would have reserved his jerking off for times that he's assured of privacy, either his room, or toilet or whatever. I guarantee you he's hoping for the same thing, & since he is in the shower already, busy playing, he has made a move already (his point of view) and now awaits a move from you. However, having said that, discretion is always key, so nothing stops you from occupying the stall accross him or wherever is the best spot, and go about your business. If he's not into it at all, nobody can point a finger or accuse you of anything. - Be rest assured that str8 guys are as aware of cruising spots & where the action is, and the one's who do not wish to engage in such activities do steer well clear of these places. - So get on with it now, don't waste any more time or someone else will walk away with the prize...... he will soon find another spot if this one is a waste of his time. - Enjoy & do smile when you suck his dick & think of what I said. Keep me posted.
     
  6. D_Steve_Sphincter

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    I wonder if he takes a shower when drunk after being on a night out? Maybe that would be a prime time to make a move, especially if you'd struck up a casual convo on an earlier occasion.
     
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    I wouldn't directly confront him, at least not at first. Your idea of picking a stall next to him and having a wank while he is would be the best idea. He might stop if he hears someone entering the stall next to him, but if he hears you making the tell tale sounds it might relax him enough to get started again. If anything more is to happen I wouldn't expect it the first night or even the next few but after it becomes a common occurance your wish might come true :)
     
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    It sounds like he wants someone to join him. I agree with some of the other posters: take a shower next to him and start jerking and moaning.

    If all else fails, you can always let me come join you to act out this fantasy. I live right outside of NYC in Essex County, easily accessible to every University.

    :tongue:
     
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    timing is everything. i would try to time it so that as he steps out of the shower (or into it) you are right there also. i would also be sure to let him see me naked as he steps out of the shower so that you are both looking at each other. if you can time that to happen things will probably work themselves out from that point. i would also say something as he steps out, such as, my time for some relief now. you get the idea. timing is everything! be there and make it happen! it always seems to work well for me.
     
  10. D_Jess_Kilme

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    It would also be an idea to chat the guy up a bit away from the shower so that when your shower encounter happens, the ice is already broken. Find a reason to have a nice friendly chat to him somewhere one on one. And then pounce in the shower.
     
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    Most of you have been watching too much porn. OP, be sure to post pics of your broken nose.
     
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    This!
     
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    That's priceless!
     
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    You go boy, let us know what happens man!
     
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    I say go in the shower and make some moans too. He has to know there's other people in there and it doesn't stop him. Ease into it.
     
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    You can go into the stall next to him and moan a little yourself and see what happens. Be careful, I thought someone was whispering to me from another stall once....turns out he was praying.


     
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    wow. hot. ask if you can borrow his shampoo and check if he is red and hard. i have been a member of the same health club since 93 and one time i caught a guy staring at my junk, so i stared back. and we both started getting hard and he moved to the open shower next to me and we stroked each other off until we came. never saw him there again and that never happened again.
     
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    Thanks a lot for all of the input everybody, positive or negative.

    As of now, things are moving slow. I haven't been able to be in the showers as the same time as him as often anymore because someone played a prank on him because most people are aware of what he does, so he no longer showers at the same time he has every day.
    I had the fortune of getting in the shower while he was in there tonight, but UNfortunately he was out before I could finish my business on the toilet. Maybe he was afraid that I was another prankster.

    This won't stop me though. Next time I go to shower and he's there, I'm gonna take the first step by taking the stall right next to him!
     
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