I live in southern California and willing to travel. I'll be in the Santa Barbara area for the Percussion Festival next week and hope to have some down time to play. I'm Black, married but unfortuantly must play alone. 8+ and enjoy oral. I want the experience of playing with someone who is very oral and well endowed at least 9 inches and thick. I'm fascinated and attracted to older men blessed in the length and width department but certainly not a requirement but respectful and cleanliness are. I'm looking for someone who'd like to meet over dinner and drinks and if the chemistry is their, move on to more activities. If you are a couple or some who enjoys meeting new and interesting people then let's chat.