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Geez. Nevermind then. All I was trying to do was offer him a thought of not destroying himself in a world that was described in this thread by a porn performer as "very superficial." And now I'm being told I have "prejudices"? I'm not prejudice against people who use drugs. Just giving my advice. You're getting all huffy because you've done porn and admit to seeing pot on sets, which basically confirms what I wrote (and where there's pot, come on….).
 

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Wow your source if from a site where they offer gay and lesbian treatment dude! You are so homophovic it's ridiculous, and the fact that you don't see it makes it even more sad. Until you have a credible site and study to prove it I will listen and take back all my remarks. But I doubt you will find one that isn't a biast study on a site that offers treatment for gays and lesbians. I'm sorry but I can not and other gay and leabian can and will not be "treated" like we have a disease. I'm sorry but people like you and places that offer treatment for gays and lesbians are the disease
 

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And where there is pot come on...what? You wanna talk finish a statement. Pot is less harmful then drinking and if you were gonna say if there is pot there are other more harmful drugs? That may be true but pot isn't the cause of other illegal drug use that are a million times more addicting and harmful. Your ignorance really astounds me
 

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All this is way beyond what I intended for this thread to be. It's really ridiculous that you can't even ask for advice and have nost of it be helpful in some way anymore. Instead yu get bashed for wanting to be in porn and literally made out to be tiny cause I don't have "the look." All I can say is remarks that have been made from all guilty parties are just haters and that is simple. I have words put in my mouth that I never said and started this saying if you have any hateful things to say I won't accept it. I'm sure my other comments and even this one will be thrown back in my face some how
 

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Oh my god. Nevermind. Go get knee deep in gay porn and ruin your life. I'm sorry I ever tried to persuade you differently. And for the record, my awareness of drug abuse in the gay community comes from having worked in treatment centers for the gay community; it's openly discussed that drug use is more rampant in the gay community, and in fact in most communities that face discrimination. But, anyway, more power to you with your budding gay porn career (which everyone says will go nowhere).
 

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All this is way beyond what I intended for this thread to be. It's really ridiculous that you can't even ask for advice and have nost of it be helpful in some way anymore. Instead yu get bashed for wanting to be in porn and literally made out to be tiny cause I don't have "the look." All I can say is remarks that have been made from all guilty parties are just haters and that is simple. I have words put in my mouth that I never said and started this saying if you have any hateful things to say I won't accept it. I'm sure my other comments and even this one will be thrown back in my face some how

You were given advise that you won't accept. This is like "Gay Porn Star Idol" and we are Simon Cowell telling you that you don't have what it takes. The consensus here is that you won't make it in the business, this from a guy who is in excellent condition and says even HE gets turned down. It's pretty ridiculous you won't listen to anyone.

Secondly, and this is not meant to be mean I am being 100% honest. You will not make it in gay porn. Studios won't even look at your photos. I've been rejected by studios because my body isn't good enough and I work out constantly and eat super clean. It's a very superficial industry. And very few porn companies do solo and circle jerk scenes anymore. With respect, I'd find another profession.
 
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It's not that I am not listening to everyone, just not you. If you don't like that I am not taking your advice then why are you coming back to the thread. I'm pretty sure I have stopped caring because mainly you keep commenting here just for the attention. I also don't accept advise from people trying to belittle me. Notice all the other people who commented negatively have not posted again, yet hwre you are back every time I just want to look at the thread
 

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I also find it hilarious that since you started commenting here you have currently change your profile pic to be the lgbt flag and also put your orientation. I could care less if you don't want to identify, but do it after I call you out. That's just really funny to me. You can comment all you want after this, but just know I will look passed all your posts and not care
 

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I think most gay porn stars are very unattractive - faces and bodies. I hate to break it to the world.:biggrin1:

Nowadays, there are niches in porn. You don't have to be a small-framed muscle jock. Some men prefer chubby bears, some like average-looking dudes with big dicks (means more in the straight male world), etc.

Be a webcam model, if you really have to venture in porn. Do the lightest and mildest kind: jack off for money. Don't do hardcore porn as it's nasty, dirty and soul-depriving. I'm not even including the HIV/STD risks and the slew of highly negative social consequences.

Stay safe and please don't make dangerous and regrettable choices in your youth.
 
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Hey thanks bigbull, I appreciate you informing people about the niches. I am not looking for harcore porn toles or anything like that. With my job I do and don't have time to webcam, seasonal manager right now and schedule is more sporadic. I cam on here a lot when I can or want to, and also tried another cam site that pays you but didn't stick to it cause I didn't feel it was right. I will think more about the webcam modeling or jerking off. I have put a couple applications out there for nextdoor world which I know I won't get just wanted to try and another is a cub site
 

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… which is exactly what I said: the only place I've ever seen guys like this, was cramming on forums like this. And straight men are always the place to turn for advice on gay porn. LOL
 

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"Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy."

--H.L. Mencken

Hardcore porn performing in and of itself is hardly nasty, dirty or soul depriving just as casual anonymous sex is not in and of itself nasty, dirty or soul depriving. It is a job just like every other job. You've got to be somewhere when someone pays you to, you've got to do what they say, the only difference is that the job you're doing is sex. Most of the time you're just waiting for shit to happen, just like most of life.

As if I'm going to trust some small penised male or a hetero to opine on the characteristics of gay porn.
 

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"Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy."

--H.L. Mencken

Hardcore porn performing in and of itself is hardly nasty, dirty or soul depriving just as casual anonymous sex is not in and of itself nasty, dirty or soul depriving. It is a job just like every other job. You've got to be somewhere when someone pays you to, you've got to do what they say, the only difference is that the job you're doing is sex. Most of the time you're just waiting for shit to happen, just like most of life.

As if I'm going to trust some small penised male or a hetero to opine on the
characteristics of gay porn.

I think making hardcore porn (straight, gay, etc.) is not a good idea as a career choice for anyone. Whether it be gay porn or straight makes no difference. It's not about being judgmental on the actors and actresses, either. I think an elementary school teacher should still be allowed to be a stripper/porn model in her spare time without societal consequences. That doesn't mean I have to morally agree with her extracurricular activities (she's not harming me; it's her business entirely). People need to realize that making porn or being a stripper has nothing to do with one's performance in some career, unless drugs are being consumed. I will defend anyone's right to make porn, strip, etc; but, again, I do not have to agree with their choices.

I disagree fully with the 18 year-old who was threatened to not receive his high school diploma because he starred in a few gay porn scenes. Completely wrong!

I'd be friends with a gay or straight porn star, but for the millionth time, I am not obliged to agree with their choice to do so.


It's all hypocritical, considering that those who criticize porn view it (I do at times!). How ironic! But if I could no longer have access to any of it, I'd survive. It'd be better for everyone anyways, right?

JO and nude modeling don't bother me the way hardcore porn does. And LPSG is just about showing off your big peter. It's fine for adult entertainment. Is it ideal, morally-speaking? No.
 
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Dude, I'm hardly a Puritan. I have been a model and even a nude model. I myself was IN soft core porn once (a magazine). The comments I've made about it not being a good industry are based on my close friendship with a MAJOR porn star who wanted out of the business but couldn't get out…. You are purposefully misrepresenting what I'm saying because you know what I'm saying (that it's not a healthy profession) is TRUE.


"Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy."

--H.L. Mencken

Hardcore porn performing in and of itself is hardly nasty, dirty or soul depriving just as casual anonymous sex is not in and of itself nasty, dirty or soul depriving. It is a job just like every other job. You've got to be somewhere when someone pays you to, you've got to do what they say, the only difference is that the job you're doing is sex. Most of the time you're just waiting for shit to happen, just like most of life.

As if I'm going to trust some small penised male or a hetero to opine on the characteristics of gay porn.
 
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Dude, I'm hardly a Puritan. I have been a model and even a nude model. I myself was IN soft core porn once (a magazine). The comments I've made about it not being a good industry are based on my close friendship with a MAJOR porn star who wanted out of the business but couldn't get out…. You are purposefully misrepresenting what I'm saying because you know what I'm saying (that it's not a healthy profession) is TRUE.

For most people, porn is not a sole source of income. You've got to add hustle to the portfolio of qualifications if you want to make a living out of it. I prefer the reliability of tech employment but have dabbled in porn from time to time.

I know plenty of porn performers now and have played casually off camera with many more. I'd not characterize the experience in any single way, I've seen the full range of experiences just like everything else in life.
 
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Fine. But overall it is NOT the healthiest of businesses to go into, and it is an open secret that many porn stars also work in prostitution -- and the porn is really just their advertisement for their services. Don't mistake analysis of the profession for condemnation of the professionals on a personal level. That would be hypocritical of me anyway, since I myself once did it….
 
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I think most gay porn stars are very unattractive - faces and bodies. I hate to break it to the world.:biggrin1:

Nowadays, there are niches in porn. You don't have to be a small-framed muscle jock. Some men prefer chubby bears, some like average-looking dudes with big dicks (means more in the straight male world), etc.

Be a webcam model, if you really have to venture in porn. Do the lightest and mildest kind: jack off for money. Don't do hardcore porn as it's nasty, dirty and soul-depriving. I'm not even including the HIV/STD risks and the slew of highly negative social consequences.

Stay safe and please don't make dangerous and regrettable choices in your youth.
I agree with this 100%.

Honestly, these guys saying you need to look perfect to be in porn is hilarious. So many people in gay or straight porn look like downright trainwrecks. Hell, even the ones that have nice bodies rarely have very attractive faces. And as for being 8+ only? Completely untrue. The average size I'd say is 6.5" inches in porn, gay or straight. You guys buy waaaay too much into porn measurements.
 

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And many gay porn stars have very artificial-looking bodies. And their rectums look damaged (Paul Wagner anyone?). I even see that some of the dudes in straight porn are steroid addicts (and they're oh so homely, too). Can't anyone be natural today? That's to say no steroids, no penis pumping, no viagra, no six-packs, ...

A little tummy and lovehandles are normal. A dude can still look fit with a little meat on him. In fact, he looks sexier that way than if he's all ripped with no fat on his bones.

A normally muscular man about 5'11-6'0 with a big peter who doesn't break the mirror when he looks into it.:biggrin1: Does he exist? He's the dude I want to see in my adult movies (I shouldn't be watching them anyways).