Im 19, haven't had sex yet and lately it has become important to me. At one point i don't want to start off with just anyone but at the same time that seems to make things hard. I do have a lot of natural charm with girls and I never have problems pickin em up and gettin dates, i can do that with almost any girl. A lot of people see this and assume i get a lot of action but that just isnt the case. I am a nice and respectful guy and that seems to be the problem.