I find certain men far more visually attractive than most women but as
Luvcutdick says, I'm more drawn to women emotionally.
My physical sexuality began when I was 14 and I was experiencing mix-gendered group sex a couple of years later. I'd never really considered the whole straight/gay/bisexual labels at all. It's become the norm for me to enjoy whoever I'm with.
Obviously men and women offer me different things a physical level and I don't see any reason to limit myself.
I dated a girl for 10 years basically because we were sexually compatible and open-minded when as it relates to sex and genders. That ended because we didn't mesh well in other areas and I just couldn't see myself settling down at that point. I don't think I loved her but I did care about her.
I met my wife 20 years ago and fell in love with her instantly. It took her a while to totally open up sexually because of miscommunication and assumptions on her part. She's much younger than I am so it took her time to find herself and figure out what she wanted. I totally supported her and never pushed her into anything. We're so perfect for each other it's hard to believe somehow.
She and I feel the same way; you fall for the person and not the gender. A nice cock or pair of tits on a shit person means nothing. Those less than ideal secondary sexual characteristics on a amazing human being is superior in every way. She also tells me often that men offer me what she can't and women offer her things I can't. It's purely physical for her with women.
Now, had those two been men would I have felt the same way? I do believe without a doubt that I would have but it just hasn't happened. I am 100% open to the idea.
Maybe I took the easier path in life being in long-term relationships. It's a difficult and challenging life having a male partner no matter where you are but in most parts of Texas, it's tough. Subconsciously I think that played a bigger role in my choices in life.
I've been extremely promiscuous for 35 years and I would have expected some emotional relationship with a man to happen by now but it it has not. I don't think about it much but I am very aware why I feel the way I do at this point in life.