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Hi, im a bisexual guy who only had sex with guys but I feel atracted romanticly by woman since always. On the other hand, Ive never felt atracted by guys and have erections watching a woman is difficult.

So, Id like to know experiences of a BOY who is difficult for him to turn on with woman, because I fall in love with them but I dont know if im prepared to have sex and it makes me feel nervous and insecure

Im not gay because im out of closet and Ive never felt atracted romanticly by a man, I would like, but its only with woman
 
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Hi, im a bisexual guy who only had sex with guys but I feel atracted romanticly by woman since always. On the other hand, Ive never felt atracted by guys and have erections watching a woman is difficult.

So, Id like to know experiences of a BOY who is difficult for him to turn on with woman, because I fall in love with them but I dont know if im prepared to have sex and it makes me feel nervous and insecure

Im not gay because im out of closet and Ive never felt atracted romanticly by a man, I would like, but its only with woman


I can somewhat relate. I am emotionally attracted to women, however, physically, more attracted to men.
 

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and how do you manage it?

Well I was blessed per se ......................... I had a j.o. / fuck buddy starting in 1987. Our families became very close !! Our relationship continues today. There are still occasional get togethers. We even shared other male partners as were not mutually exclusive.

I had the most amazing wife. She knew I was bi. We incorporated a lot of gay sex toys into our life. The primary rules were discretion and safety. Sadly, my wife passed away in Apr 2021. We started dating in high school in 1972. The rest is history.

Both of our families lived close to downtown Toronto, so our 'boys nights out" were spent in the Gay Village of the Church St area.

My buddy and I have a "special relationship". We haven't had any j.o. since my wife passed away for obvious reasons. We are very close, however both of us are more deeply attached to our wives. We both just love the male body and all it has to offer. One upside is that our wives didn't have to worry about us running off with other women - lol !

I have spoken many times before in LPSG about my life. This site offers an amazing sexual release for me. I masturbate every day. The pics and forums are absolutely the greatest to enhance fantasies.

Yours and my situation are no doubty complicated. However, I now know that I am not the only one. It took years to come to terms with who I am. But nobody said life would be easy. A life journey is not about the end point; its what happens on your journey.

I am here to detail more if you feel that would help you. Private email me on this site. Happy to pay it forward and help a like minded "dude"
 

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Well I was blessed per se ......................... I had a j.o. / fuck buddy starting in 1987. Our families became very close !! Our relationship continues today. There are still occasional get togethers. We even shared other male partners as were not mutually exclusive.

I had the most amazing wife. She knew I was bi. We incorporated a lot of gay sex toys into our life. The primary rules were discretion and safety. Sadly, my wife passed away in Apr 2021. We started dating in high school in 1972. The rest is history.

Both of our families lived close to downtown Toronto, so our 'boys nights out" were spent in the Gay Village of the Church St area.

My buddy and I have a "special relationship". We haven't had any j.o. since my wife passed away for obvious reasons. We are very close, however both of us are more deeply attached to our wives. We both just love the male body and all it has to offer. One upside is that our wives didn't have to worry about us running off with other women - lol !

I have spoken many times before in LPSG about my life. This site offers an amazing sexual release for me. I masturbate every day. The pics and forums are absolutely the greatest to enhance fantasies.

Yours and my situation are no doubty complicated. However, I now know that I am not the only one. It took years to come to terms with who I am. But nobody said life would be easy. A life journey is not about the end point; its what happens on your journey.

I am here to detail more if you feel that would help you. Private email me on this site. Happy to pay it forward and help a like minded "dude"

I am sorry for your loss

Your wife quite clearly was a very special woman
 

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I am sorry for your loss

Your wife quite clearly was a very special woman

BTW - our first date, in 1972, was on a school trip to London, England !!!! Probably as close to Liverpool as I will ever get - lol
 
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I find certain men far more visually attractive than most women but as Luvcutdick says, I'm more drawn to women emotionally.

My physical sexuality began when I was 14 and I was experiencing mix-gendered group sex a couple of years later. I'd never really considered the whole straight/gay/bisexual labels at all. It's become the norm for me to enjoy whoever I'm with.

Obviously men and women offer me different things a physical level and I don't see any reason to limit myself.

I dated a girl for 10 years basically because we were sexually compatible and open-minded when as it relates to sex and genders. That ended because we didn't mesh well in other areas and I just couldn't see myself settling down at that point. I don't think I loved her but I did care about her.

I met my wife 20 years ago and fell in love with her instantly. It took her a while to totally open up sexually because of miscommunication and assumptions on her part. She's much younger than I am so it took her time to find herself and figure out what she wanted. I totally supported her and never pushed her into anything. We're so perfect for each other it's hard to believe somehow.

She and I feel the same way; you fall for the person and not the gender. A nice cock or pair of tits on a shit person means nothing. Those less than ideal secondary sexual characteristics on a amazing human being is superior in every way. She also tells me often that men offer me what she can't and women offer her things I can't. It's purely physical for her with women.

Now, had those two been men would I have felt the same way? I do believe without a doubt that I would have but it just hasn't happened. I am 100% open to the idea.

Maybe I took the easier path in life being in long-term relationships. It's a difficult and challenging life having a male partner no matter where you are but in most parts of Texas, it's tough. Subconsciously I think that played a bigger role in my choices in life.

I've been extremely promiscuous for 35 years and I would have expected some emotional relationship with a man to happen by now but it it has not. I don't think about it much but I am very aware why I feel the way I do at this point in life.
 

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I find certain men far more visually attractive than most women but as Luvcutdick says, I'm more drawn to women emotionally.

My physical sexuality began when I was 14 and I was experiencing mix-gendered group sex a couple of years later. I'd never really considered the whole straight/gay/bisexual labels at all. It's become the norm for me to enjoy whoever I'm with.

Obviously men and women offer me different things a physical level and I don't see any reason to limit myself.

I dated a girl for 10 years basically because we were sexually compatible and open-minded when as it relates to sex and genders. That ended because we didn't mesh well in other areas and I just couldn't see myself settling down at that point. I don't think I loved her but I did care about her.

I met my wife 20 years ago and fell in love with her instantly. It took her a while to totally open up sexually because of miscommunication and assumptions on her part. She's much younger than I am so it took her time to find herself and figure out what she wanted. I totally supported her and never pushed her into anything. We're so perfect for each other it's hard to believe somehow.

She and I feel the same way; you fall for the person and not the gender. A nice cock or pair of tits on a shit person means nothing. Those less than ideal secondary sexual characteristics on a amazing human being is superior in every way. She also tells me often that men offer me what she can't and women offer her things I can't. It's purely physical for her with women.

Now, had those two been men would I have felt the same way? I do believe without a doubt that I would have but it just hasn't happened. I am 100% open to the idea.

Maybe I took the easier path in life being in long-term relationships. It's a difficult and challenging life having a male partner no matter where you are but in most parts of Texas, it's tough. Subconsciously I think that played a bigger role in my choices in life.

I've been extremely promiscuous for 35 years and I would have expected some emotional relationship with a man to happen by now but it it has not. I don't think about it much but I am very aware why I feel the way I do at this point in life.


You are very well spoken. Your writing style shows that you are articulate as well. Most people write rambling paragraphs, however you have chosen to layout points in manageable parts.

I am very impressed with your story, especially that "you fall for the person, and not the gender". That is absolutely true. Homophobics don't get that.

My buddy chose to marry a very physically attractive women; wrong move. They only lasted a few years.

My wife was an "ugly duckling" who, as she aged, became more and more beautiful. Before she fell ill, many people have said "stunning". I went for compatibility, not looks. In the end I won. Plus she knew of my bi side. We were compatible on just about every level.

I would say that you and I were both "lucky in love" having found compatible partners.

For guys, it is about sex. I enjoy a male physique and all that it has to offer. However, as I said before, my emotional connection is to women.

Thanks for sharing ..................

BTW - nice cut dick; right sized. I am not into huge dicks. My first male partner was hung like a horse. It was hard to suck him and anal wasn't successful.
 
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You are very well spoken. Your writing style shows that you are articulate as well. Most people write rambling paragraphs, however you have chosen to layout points in manageable parts.

I am very impressed with your story, especially that "you fall for the person, and not the gender". That is absolutely true. Homophobics don't get that.

My buddy chose to marry a very physically attractive women; wrong move. They only lasted a few years.

My wife was an "ugly duckling" who, as she aged, became more and more beautiful. Before she fell ill, many people have said "stunning". I went for compatibility, not looks. In the end I won. Plus she knew of my bi side. We were compatible on just about every level.

I would say that you and I were both "lucky in love" having found compatible partners.

For guys, it is about sex. I enjoy a male physique and all that it has to offer. However, as I said before, my emotional connection is to women.

Thanks for sharing ..................

BTW - nice cut dick; right sized. I am not into huge dicks. My first male partner was hung like a horse. It was hard to suck him and anal wasn't successful.

I appreciate the kind words. I can be wordy and probably verbose but I write pretty much how I speak. I'm glad that you enjoyed it.

I have been very attracted to a few men based off their personality and quiet confidence. It made them sexy without taking into consideration the facade. What's the saying? Beauty fades but dumb is forever?

I told my wife about my bisexuality very soon after meeting her and it didn't phase her because she too is bisexual. It's so nice to be able to browse porn with her or to send her a link to something I find exciting. I don't have to hide anything.

Homophobics don't get being happy with yourself because they're not happy people.

I've never kissed a man or even gotten to fully explore my tactile nature with a man. No cuddling or intimate body contact. Do I long for it? On some level I think so but I do wish to experience a male lover. I've fucked plenty of men on the primal level and it's very enjoyable but it's akin to empty calories. Foreplay is the best part.

Over the years I've learned the way to a successful relationship is to know its limitations and your expectations. If I could find a male fuck buddy that suits me and my life and know that we're both getting what we need and want then I would be interested. I'm very happy with my wife and all she adds to my life so it's not a pressing need.

Men tend to spend a fortune and many days, weeks, or even months just to sleep with someone. They even get married and the sex is bad and they're tied to that person forever even if it's in a small way. Hire an escort for whatever the price is and go about your business once you've gotten what you pair for. Spending a grand on dinners, movies, and gifts ends up costing you more than hired pussy. Same thing when you think about it.

Thank you again for the kind words. I'm very happy with my anatomy. I enjoy looking at large cocks but I'm absolutely unphased by such things. I don't put any more stock in big than I do average or small. A Stratavarious is just an expensive fiddle at the end of the day and isn't even worth the wood if you can't play it.
 

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IMO... You are a mostly heterosexual guy who got tempted into gay sex as a first experience... and now associate gay sex with sexual satisfaction.

Therefore, you will always be turned on by gay sex... even if you are not romantically attracted to men when it comes to true relationships.

Good luck in sorting it all out.
 
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I appreciate the kind words. I can be wordy and probably verbose but I write pretty much how I speak. I'm glad that you enjoyed it.

I have been very attracted to a few men based off their personality and quiet confidence. It made them sexy without taking into consideration the facade. What's the saying? Beauty fades but dumb is forever?

I told my wife about my bisexuality very soon after meeting her and it didn't phase her because she too is bisexual. It's so nice to be able to browse porn with her or to send her a link to something I find exciting. I don't have to hide anything.

Homophobics don't get being happy with yourself because they're not happy people.

I've never kissed a man or even gotten to fully explore my tactile nature with a man. No cuddling or intimate body contact. Do I long for it? On some level I think so but I do wish to experience a male lover. I've fucked plenty of men on the primal level and it's very enjoyable but it's akin to empty calories. Foreplay is the best part.

Over the years I've learned the way to a successful relationship is to know its limitations and your expectations. If I could find a male fuck buddy that suits me and my life and know that we're both getting what we need and want then I would be interested. I'm very happy with my wife and all she adds to my life so it's not a pressing need.

Men tend to spend a fortune and many days, weeks, or even months just to sleep with someone. They even get married and the sex is bad and they're tied to that person forever even if it's in a small way. Hire an escort for whatever the price is and go about your business once you've gotten what you pair for. Spending a grand on dinners, movies, and gifts ends up costing you more than hired pussy. Same thing when you think about it.

Thank you again for the kind words. I'm very happy with my anatomy. I enjoy looking at large cocks but I'm absolutely unphased by such things. I don't put any more stock in big than I do average or small. A Stratavarious is just an expensive fiddle at the end of the day and isn't even worth the wood if you can't play it.


I love reading your responses ............ so articulately written !!!
 
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