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I've never been very happy with my physique and always had very little body confidence. When gyms are open I work out and am not over weight but I dislike my overall shape/lack of definition/inability to achieve abs.

Over the last year in lockdown I've put on more weight than I am happy with. I know I can lose it but am lacking motivation or a real goal to achieve. I'll also turn 40 in the not too distant future and am very aware that the gradual decline of my looks will become more sudden and noticeable.

I feel like posing for a nude photo shoot would (a) give me a goal and a set date to get in shape for and (b) give me something to look back at and hopefully feel sexier and more positive about.

Has anyone modelled for a proper shoot before? Any advice on finding a good photographer that specialises in nude/erotic shoots but isn't going to take advantage?
 

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I did a shoot about 3 years ago - when I was at my fattest. It was enormously liberating. I can’t encourage you enough to find an experienced professional photographer.

Mine was an art student about an hours drive from me, and unfortunately he did want to play at the end of the session. Luckily - I had zero interest in him and nothing happened. The whole experience was completely non-sexual.

If I was going to do it again, I would research glamour photographers and ask if they did nudes for blokes. I feel if you pay, then you will probably avoid any sexual stuff.

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I did a shoot about 3 years ago - when I was at my fattest. It was enormously liberating. I can’t encourage you enough to find an experienced professional photographer.

Mine was an art student about an hours drive from me, and unfortunately he did want to play at the end of the session. Luckily - I had zero interest in him and nothing happened. The whole experience was completely non-sexual.

If I was going to do it again, I would research glamour photographers and ask if they did nudes for blokes. I feel if you pay, then you will probably avoid any sexual stuff.

Happy to yap by PM or in the chat room

Thanks, that's in keeping with what I'd expect to be honest.

I think I'd be happy to pay for a decent set of pics. My biggest concern would be that they'd be used/sold without my permission.

I'm also a bit concerned about getting hard. I'd have no issue continuing the shoot but wouldn't want to offend the photographer.
 
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I’ve done a few but then I model for classes and artists so it wasn’t a big deal. Unlike drawings, I was concerned how the photos would be use and I recommend you check closely, especially when signing a model release.

The first time was with a guy who was in a spin class with me at the gym. While chatting I mentioned I modeled and he asked if I’d want to do a sports themed photo shoot. I was a little hesitant but he gave me a link to his work and it was pretty good so I agreed. We did a runner themed shoot in different areas along trails in a park and then a number of shots of me coming out of a pond in only wet white briefs. The wet briefs were shear and I had a chubby going so we got a few erotic shots.

A couple of months later he asked if I’d want to do a nude/ erotic shoot. He wanted to gain experience doing erotic work and perhaps submit some work to a few sites. I was hesitant but he said if I did it and still felt uncomfortable after the shoot I didn’t have to sign a model release. He said the experience gained would be fine.

The wild thing was that we did the shoot at the gym we attended. He had a buddy who was one of the managers of the gym who let is in late one night after the gym closed. He also had an assistant help with the equipment so I had a little audience, which was odd at first. We basically did shots of me working out while I removed clothing until I was in tight shorts. The he had me get hard and manipulate my erection in the shorts and then we did a few shots of me nude and erect working out. We finished in the shower where I soaped up and jacked off. He wanted to get closeups of my pre-cum so I had to edge a number of times. I ended by ejaculating on the glass shower partition while he took shots from the other side.

It was all done very professionally with the photographer and crew treating it like any photo shoot. Nobody came on to me or tried anything improper although there were a few jokes during the close-up dick shots.

In the end I decided not to release the photos although I did agree to let him show them in his photo book to potential clients. Overall I found it liberating although I admit to being a bit of an exhibitionist.
 

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Sounds like a great experience. Don't think I'd ever want to cum in front of a photographer but I guess you never know what you're comfortable with until you're in that moment.

I’ve done a few but then I model for classes and artists so it wasn’t a big deal. Unlike drawings, I was concerned how the photos would be use and I recommend you check closely, especially when signing a model release.

The first time was with a guy who was in a spin class with me at the gym. While chatting I mentioned I modeled and he asked if I’d want to do a sports themed photo shoot. I was a little hesitant but he gave me a link to his work and it was pretty good so I agreed. We did a runner themed shoot in different areas along trails in a park and then a number of shots of me coming out of a pond in only wet white briefs. The wet briefs were shear and I had a chubby going so we got a few erotic shots.

A couple of months later he asked if I’d want to do a nude/ erotic shoot. He wanted to gain experience doing erotic work and perhaps submit some work to a few sites. I was hesitant but he said if I did it and still felt uncomfortable after the shoot I didn’t have to sign a model release. He said the experience gained would be fine.

The wild thing was that we did the shoot at the gym we attended. He had a buddy who was one of the managers of the gym who let is in late one night after the gym closed. He also had an assistant help with the equipment so I had a little audience, which was odd at first. We basically did shots of me working out while I removed clothing until I was in tight shorts. The he had me get hard and manipulate my erection in the shorts and then we did a few shots of me nude and erect working out. We finished in the shower where I soaped up and jacked off. He wanted to get closeups of my pre-cum so I had to edge a number of times. I ended by ejaculating on the glass shower partition while he took shots from the other side.

It was all done very professionally with the photographer and crew treating it like any photo shoot. Nobody came on to me or tried anything improper although there were a few jokes during the close-up dick shots.

In the end I decided not to release the photos although I did agree to let him show them in his photo book to potential clients. Overall I found it liberating although I admit to being a bit of an exhibitionist.
 

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That photo series sounds amazing BTW. You'll have to share them with us

I’ve done a few but then I model for classes and artists so it wasn’t a big deal. Unlike drawings, I was concerned how the photos would be use and I recommend you check closely, especially when signing a model release.

The first time was with a guy who was in a spin class with me at the gym. While chatting I mentioned I modeled and he asked if I’d want to do a sports themed photo shoot. I was a little hesitant but he gave me a link to his work and it was pretty good so I agreed. We did a runner themed shoot in different areas along trails in a park and then a number of shots of me coming out of a pond in only wet white briefs. The wet briefs were shear and I had a chubby going so we got a few erotic shots.

A couple of months later he asked if I’d want to do a nude/ erotic shoot. He wanted to gain experience doing erotic work and perhaps submit some work to a few sites. I was hesitant but he said if I did it and still felt uncomfortable after the shoot I didn’t have to sign a model release. He said the experience gained would be fine.

The wild thing was that we did the shoot at the gym we attended. He had a buddy who was one of the managers of the gym who let is in late one night after the gym closed. He also had an assistant help with the equipment so I had a little audience, which was odd at first. We basically did shots of me working out while I removed clothing until I was in tight shorts. The he had me get hard and manipulate my erection in the shorts and then we did a few shots of me nude and erect working out. We finished in the shower where I soaped up and jacked off. He wanted to get closeups of my pre-cum so I had to edge a number of times. I ended by ejaculating on the glass shower partition while he took shots from the other side.

It was all done very professionally with the photographer and crew treating it like any photo shoot. Nobody came on to me or tried anything improper although there were a few jokes during the close-up dick shots.

In the end I decided not to release the photos although I did agree to let him show them in his photo book to potential clients. Overall I found it liberating although I admit to being a bit of an exhibitionist.
 

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I've never been very happy with my physique and always had very little body confidence. When gyms are open I work out and am not over weight but I dislike my overall shape/lack of definition/inability to achieve abs.

Over the last year in lockdown I've put on more weight than I am happy with. I know I can lose it but am lacking motivation or a real goal to achieve. I'll also turn 40 in the not too distant future and am very aware that the gradual decline of my looks will become more sudden and noticeable.

I feel like posing for a nude photo shoot would (a) give me a goal and a set date to get in shape for and (b) give me something to look back at and hopefully feel sexier and more positive about.

Has anyone modelled for a proper shoot before? Any advice on finding a good photographer that specialises in nude/erotic shoots but isn't going to take advantage?

are you on skype?
 

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I've never been very happy with my physique and always had very little body confidence. When gyms are open I work out and am not over weight but I dislike my overall shape/lack of definition/inability to achieve abs.

Over the last year in lockdown I've put on more weight than I am happy with. I know I can lose it but am lacking motivation or a real goal to achieve. I'll also turn 40 in the not too distant future and am very aware that the gradual decline of my looks will become more sudden and noticeable.

I feel like posing for a nude photo shoot would (a) give me a goal and a set date to get in shape for and (b) give me something to look back at and hopefully feel sexier and more positive about.

Has anyone modelled for a proper shoot before? Any advice on finding a good photographer that specialises in nude/erotic shoots but isn't going to take advantage?


I have it was fun at the time. I can relate to the gaining weight. I'm on my third week back in the gym. I'm sore, tired and losing so far about two lbs a week. I still have difficult mornings getting up and getting in the gym. Some mornings if I'm really sore and tired I'll skip that day. I try to listen to my body.
 
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Another option, if you are concerned about the photographer making unacceptable use of your photos, is to make a deal where you supply the camera disk, the photographer makes the photos, and you receive the disk when the shoot is done. You maintain custody of the images, but you must pay extra to compensate the photographer for his/her time, after all, normally the photographer makes a profit by selling the images to you.
 

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Thanks, that's in keeping with what I'd expect to be honest.

I think I'd be happy to pay for a decent set of pics. My biggest concern would be that they'd be used/sold without my permission.

I'm also a bit concerned about getting hard. I'd have no issue continuing the shoot but wouldn't want to offend the photographer.

Unless you sign a model release form - I don’t think the pics are of any commercial value. Also, I wouldn’t worry about the boner. If it was me, I’d talk (not email) to the photographer before the shoot and explain that you might get aroused. If there is any drop in professionalism, then move on and find someone else. IMHO when you’re nude in front of a camera at your expense - you are in control of what happens. The snapper is just doing a job. Have fun! :)
 
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I've never been very happy with my physique and always had very little body confidence. When gyms are open I work out and am not over weight but I dislike my overall shape/lack of definition/inability to achieve abs.

Over the last year in lockdown I've put on more weight than I am happy with. I know I can lose it but am lacking motivation or a real goal to achieve. I'll also turn 40 in the not too distant future and am very aware that the gradual decline of my looks will become more sudden and noticeable.

I feel like posing for a nude photo shoot would (a) give me a goal and a set date to get in shape for and (b) give me something to look back at and hopefully feel sexier and more positive about.

Has anyone modelled for a proper shoot before? Any advice on finding a good photographer that specialises in nude/erotic shoots but isn't going to take advantage?
I used to be a model and i can say that you should try it.And i totally agree with all the above.
 

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I've never been very happy with my physique and always had very little body confidence. When gyms are open I work out and am not over weight but I dislike my overall shape/lack of definition/inability to achieve abs.

Over the last year in lockdown I've put on more weight than I am happy with. I know I can lose it but am lacking motivation or a real goal to achieve. I'll also turn 40 in the not too distant future and am very aware that the gradual decline of my looks will become more sudden and noticeable.

I feel like posing for a nude photo shoot would (a) give me a goal and a set date to get in shape for and (b) give me something to look back at and hopefully feel sexier and more positive about.

Has anyone modelled for a proper shoot before? Any advice on finding a good photographer that specialises in nude/erotic shoots but isn't going to take advantage?
Dad bods are beautiful!!! It is in no way a “decline of your looks”.
 
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I’ve done a few but then I model for classes and artists so it wasn’t a big deal. Unlike drawings, I was concerned how the photos would be use and I recommend you check closely, especially when signing a model release.

The first time was with a guy who was in a spin class with me at the gym. While chatting I mentioned I modeled and he asked if I’d want to do a sports themed photo shoot. I was a little hesitant but he gave me a link to his work and it was pretty good so I agreed. We did a runner themed shoot in different areas along trails in a park and then a number of shots of me coming out of a pond in only wet white briefs. The wet briefs were shear and I had a chubby going so we got a few erotic shots.

A couple of months later he asked if I’d want to do a nude/ erotic shoot. He wanted to gain experience doing erotic work and perhaps submit some work to a few sites. I was hesitant but he said if I did it and still felt uncomfortable after the shoot I didn’t have to sign a model release. He said the experience gained would be fine.

The wild thing was that we did the shoot at the gym we attended. He had a buddy who was one of the managers of the gym who let is in late one night after the gym closed. He also had an assistant help with the equipment so I had a little audience, which was odd at first. We basically did shots of me working out while I removed clothing until I was in tight shorts. The he had me get hard and manipulate my erection in the shorts and then we did a few shots of me nude and erect working out. We finished in the shower where I soaped up and jacked off. He wanted to get closeups of my pre-cum so I had to edge a number of times. I ended by ejaculating on the glass shower partition while he took shots from the other side.

It was all done very professionally with the photographer and crew treating it like any photo shoot. Nobody came on to me or tried anything improper although there were a few jokes during the close-up dick shots.

In the end I decided not to release the photos although I did agree to let him show them in his photo book to potential clients. Overall I found it liberating although I admit to being a bit of an exhibitionist.
did u plan on jacking off and cumming in the beginning ? this is hot and fun . very good experience for all that night and nothing to feel ashamed of
 

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Great pics. Would love to do a photo session like this.
Thanks so much. It was so liberating and I will do again now that I'm better in charge of my body! Go for it matey!
 
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