Want wife to join LPSG

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_juygf0514, Mar 17, 2011.

  1. D_juygf0514

    D_juygf0514 Account Disabled

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    I have been a long time lurker and would like to get some feedback on a fantasy that i have with my wife. I have a strong desire to have her come on lpsg and look at the pics or cam with a guy that is a lot better hung then me. She is conservative and has only been with one other guy and has never seen a big cock. About a year ago I had the size discussion with her and told that i wanted her to look at a bigger guy in front of me. She said she only wanted at look at me and thought that it might be bad for our relationship.

    The turn on for me is knowing she hasn’t seen a big one and wanting to see how shocked she would be at some of the sizes on here. I will admit being humiliated and placed in a submissive position through this is a turn on but I am more into watching her admire a big dick.

    I would like to know if anyone has done anything like this with a significant other? How did it go? how did it come up?

    Does anyone have any suggestions on how to help my wife open up and talk about size? I have thought of just using dirty talk to start and working up from there. Any feedback would be great thanks
     
  2. alex_for_all

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    Man, you've got a woman who only wants to look at you and you want to fuck with that because... well, why?
     
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    Your wife said she wasn't interested. Why are you still persisting?
     
  4. The Dragon

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    He's into SPH. :rolleyes:
     
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    That doesn't give him an excuse to dismiss his wife's opinion (or to use her as an excuse for fulfilling his fantasies).
     
  6. The Dragon

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    You know they are an odd and self little fetish.
    But yes you are right.
    He's being an ass.
     
  7. AlteredEgo

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    She's not into it. Get porn.
     
  8. Cockojohn

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    Be clad you have a woman that only have eyes for you.
     
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    She has never even seen a large cock? Do you mean in real life up close or just in general? No internet, magazines or anything? That's a little hard to believe but hey, I don't know her or you so I suppose it is possible. I wouldn't do something like that if I were in your shoes but, I'm not so live your life my friend.
     
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    Quit telling your wife what to feel. If you like feeling inferior to others, do it privately and accept her love as she gives it.

    Turn things around. What if-- you had a wife who constantly told you to look around at other women and said, do you wish I looked like that? or like that? Oh, I will never be as attractive as the women on the Big Bosoms Support Group. You need to join there and I want to see your face as you look at those women. I enjoy feeling ugly, as if you might leave me for a prettier woman...

    Can you understand why you might want to refuse?
     
  11. yoursgetsmine

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    I've been in a lot of these situations and in my case it was my fantasy and my turn-on....however some girls will really get in to it and do it for them and not for you.....and others will fall for another guy thinking that you don't care, and still another will fall for a guy's line of "gee, he must not really love you if he lets you see other guys" and then she goes for him believing he really wants her and only her, and when you break up and she goes with him, she'll find out that was just his line to get into her pants and really doesn't want her either.

    I've done it a lot of ways....including "just looking at other guys big dicks (my thing is big black dicks with her white ass), and a lot will be scared off ruining potential relationships, some won't believe you really care if you insist they experience another man's cock and cum, still others will get addicted to it and go way beyond your fantasy or desires which could destroy your ego and your marriage, OR she'll really get into BIG cocks and kiss your nappy ass goodby.........always looking for a new, bigger cock along the way.

    Are you really ready for this? I know how much it turns be on to eat a girl's pussy right after she''s dripping with other men's cum (had one married gal who had been with only three guys, (married them) all and had a child with each..and then I cum along, get her to have an affair with me while she was married to number three, and fuck other guys up to and including gang bangs by up to 7 guys at a time..and she quickly surpassed 30 lovers....and when I was thinking I finally found the girl of my dreams...she fell in love with one of them and married his ass). I personally like them to tell me how much better or bigger another guy was, and man, it really turns me on...., but I've never been able to keep that girl around....because 1. While I cheat on everyone I've been with, I remain faithful IF they fuck around on me (with or without my approval) and they actually view it as me cheating if they get strange dick and 2. They find someone else with all the insistence and freedom on my part that they partake of another man's cock.

    A lot to consider, but beware...the more you discuss with her and prod her, the more she'll believe that you don't really love or want her anymore, or she'll think you're already fucking around and feel guilty....OR she really has been fucking around on you all this time and you're a cuckold....which in my case would be a real turn-on and I'd really like to happen.
     
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    Why are you married to a man?
     
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    Don't look around. Be blessed that she only wants you. Get your shit together and pay more attention too her.
     
  14. Shawnc23

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    I honestly don't see anything wrong with it. There's nothing wrong with trying to get your wife to open up to other sexual experiences.

    Is the guys just supposed to be bored the rest of his life?
     
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    He never should have married a woman if he absolutely had to have this, without finding out if she would be okay with it. He's not meant to be bored, he's meant to find their common ground. This is not common ground. This is not something she wants; she already told him so. What if she wanted him to suck turds? If she asks once or twice, and he says no, is it okay for her to try to get her husband to open up to new sexual experiences? He already tried to get her open to it, she resisted, if he has a micro morsel of respect for her as a human, and not just a cunt for cock, he will let this drop, and get himself some porn.
     
  16. Kotchanski

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    AE said basically everything there is to say on the matter...

    There is only so much one can reasonably expect from another person, and while she may well open up about other sexual things, she's made it clear this isn't going to be one of them.
     
  17. MickeyLee

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    dude, porn and your left hand, get to know'em well.
    if you keeping harping ya lady on ya SPH fantasy that's all ya gonna have left... get it? left..hahahah i am so funny.

    other than that. totally what Ms. AE said.
     
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