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In a bit of a dilemma, I really badly want to have an MFM threesome with my girlfriend with a guy who has a huge cock, my girlfriend is a beautiful girl who is petite and fit with big tits, we would have no problem finding a big dicked guy willing to do it. Problem is when I brought up wanting to have an MFM she completely turned it down, not sure what to do since its a huge fantasy of mine
 

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In a bit of a dilemma, I really badly want to have an MFM threesome with my girlfriend with a guy who has a huge cock, my girlfriend is a beautiful girl who is petite and fit with big tits, we would have no problem finding a big dicked guy willing to do it. Problem is when I brought up wanting to have an MFM she completely turned it down, not sure what to do since its a huge fantasy of mine
No means no
 

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In a bit of a dilemma, I really badly want to have an MFM threesome with my girlfriend with a guy who has a huge cock, my girlfriend is a beautiful girl who is petite and fit with big tits, we would have no problem finding a big dicked guy willing to do it. Problem is when I brought up wanting to have an MFM she completely turned it down, not sure what to do since its a huge fantasy of mine
Same deal, except smaller boobs.. she surprised and delighted me. We have a strong bond and I love her! She was sexier and hotter in first mfm than my fantasy ever imagined. Turns out, we were on the same page, but we talked about it for a month. It was a hot month. There is no room for not being on the same page. Disaster. My question to myself was….what if she is not into it? I thought I knew the answer, but I did not know. BUT where would that have left me if it was abruptly shot down? Do fantasies dissipate? How does that affect a long term relationship? Having to reconcile love and desire can be tedious.
 
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No means no. But, if this is important to you, talk to her about it and express your feelings and why you really want to do it. She will hear you out and decide again. If she yes, awesome, great, you get your wish. If she says no, then you respect her autonomy and that's a wrap.
 
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In a bit of a dilemma, I really badly want to have an MFM threesome with my girlfriend with a guy who has a huge cock, my girlfriend is a beautiful girl who is petite and fit with big tits, we would have no problem finding a big dicked guy willing to do it. Problem is when I brought up wanting to have an MFM she completely turned it down, not sure what to do since its a huge fantasy of mine
In a bit of a dilemma, I really badly want to have an MFM threesome with my girlfriend with a guy who has a huge cock, my girlfriend is a beautiful girl who is petite and fit with big tits, we would have no problem finding a big dicked guy willing to do it. Problem is when I brought up wanting to have an MFM she completely turned it down, not sure what to do since its a huge fantasy of mine
You’ll have to play the long game until she feels comfortable with it. Pay attention to guys she finds attractive at a bar for example. If she happens to start a conversation with one, give them a little space to flirt. Lowered inhibitions especially while you’re making her feel safe is the best way to get over the hump. It might never happen but maybe the shared fantasy could be a good start.
 
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What you can do is simple: leave it alone. At least for now. She has made her feelings clear in not wanting to have a threesome and it is her choice and what she wants or does not want, not what you want.

My wife and I were once involved in swinging which included both men (and women) having sex with her and myself with other women. Any session was talked about prior and agreed upon and if one of us didn't feel comfortable with a certain act, situation or the other being with a certain person, we respected it and didn't do it.

During that time, I've seen and heard about too many couples that tried to force the issue because only one was into the fantasy and overeager (almost always the man) and it always resulted in disaster, sometimes even dissolution of the relationship. I personally witnessed a freakout from a woman during a group session and it became very clear afterwards that her husband had pressured her to attend the event even though she was not comfortable with it.

So, the way I see it there really is no dilemma because your only choices are to either respect her feelings on the matter and drop it or push the issue and risk your relationship. Since I'm assuming you care about this woman and want to continue to be with her and maybe have the relationship grow, option one should be the only consideration.

The only other suggestion I would recommend would be if it is really something you want to experience, wait a time, maybe a few years, and float the idea again once you two have more history together under your belts. While you haven't said how long you two have been together, I can tell you my wife and I both would have turned down swinging early on in our relationship if the other had brought it up. It took almost 15 years of marriage before either one of us were comfortable considering having sex with someone else and willing to admit it was a desire and pushing the issue before that timeline would have been detrimental and we probably would be in a different place marriage-wise today.

Watch some porn together, roleplay or discuss fantasies in non-committal terms, but otherwise do not pressure her or appear overeager and make it all about you. It is her body and her choice whom she shares it with.
 

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Well despite what you have been led to believe, the gap between male and female sex drives is massive.
Generally speaking, there are almost zero activities a man would refuse that his wife wanted to do.
But that is VERY different the other way around. With few exceptions.