Hi all, here's another page to add to the sad chapter of my dating life haha. The lovely
@nailz convinced me to give Internet dating another crack. I decided to just download tinder again since that's easy and my brother met two of his girlfriends on there.
Anyway I started talking to this guy last night. He asked for my number after we chatted a bit. Then we were texting all day and he called me tonight. We were talking for about an hour. I hate talking about exes... but he brought his up a few times. They were together for 6 years and broke up 14 months ago Cos she cheated. One time he tells me that I say "fair enough" a lot and he'd prefer if I didn't say it because his ex used to say it a lot. Red flags went off there. I brushed it off.
Then we were talking about the last time we spoke to our exes (also not my choice of convo) and he legit went on for about 30 seconds (which felt like an eternity) about how he didn't understand why his ex cheated on him. You could tell he was mad by his voice, which was a clear indication he was still upset over it. He actually even said that he hated her. He finished his rant by saying "people tell me that I'm not over but I so am". Then I told him that I really don't think he's over it, because if he was he wouldn't have just gone on about it and how he talked really seemed like he wasn't over it. He was like "are you serious?". I said I was going to go because I felt uncomfortable talking about it. Then he kinda argued with me and ended up hanging up on me.
I ended up having no self respect and doing the weak thing and texting him apologising and tried explaining how it made me feel. I actually ended up having anxiety attack
but didn't tell him that. Then he says to me that he doesn't think I should be in a relationship and that acting like that on the phone is enough to scare any guy off and I scared him. And he doesn't want to get feelings for me only to be "fucked in the ass after". Then busts out the "good luck on tinder".
Was I really in the wrong??? Or did he just fly off the handle because he didn't like being caught out? Or a mix of both? I did tell him that I'm blunt and have a no bullshit approach to things.