Was I Wrong About Condom Size All The Time?

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I was hooking up with this guy the other day and when I wanted to get inside him he asked me to use a condom. Condoms were never my favorite because I always get soft when putting them on. The condom doesn't stretch enough and this whole thing feels a bit tight on my cock.
So this guy tell me "you need to get bigger condom" and I was kinda shocked because throughout all these years I never thought about using torjan like condoms so I can stay hard and feel comfortable fucking with it on.
So is it really big guy's problem?? And is it so easy to solve by simply getting bigger condoms?
 

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Yes, it really is a big guy's problem. Even if I was super horned-up, I used to go soft by the time I could get a standard condom on. When you're above-average girth, it's painfully obvious that condoms don't stretch much. A properly large condom can change everything! Here's a copy of a post I made a few days ago on another thread here:
For many years, American condom makers seemed to pretend that differences in cock size didn't exist! it was next to impossible to find anything but a "standard" size, which means about 55 mm wide when flattened. Since circumference is twice this number, 110 mm equals (dividing by 25.4 mm/inch) 4.33 inch girth - about average. Much too small for someone well above average, like me. The first I found were made in Germany, sold under the name "My Size" and could be had in widths up to 69 mm (equals 5.43 inch girth). More recently, they seem to have dropped the largest size, but list 64 mm. I got mine from britishcondoms.com. But, for guys in the US, I found a great source at myonecondoms.com - give them your measurements and they'll send you a couple of free samples. Rather than the standard mm sizes, they use a code like the "Z22" on the sample they sent me, along with "another size you may prefer".

I used to hate condoms (and sometimes just refuse sex if my partner insisted) because they were just too damned tight ... but these bigger sizes are actually pretty good. Of course, my ultimate top choice is the female condom. It goes inside your partner (male or female), stays in place, and allows your cock to slide, with all that nice friction feel of "bareback." And the plastic they're made from is washable and compatible with non-water-based lubes (like my favorite Albolene) - so they can be washed and re-used. Amazon has them, see https://www.amazon.com/FC-Female-Condom-Quantity-Pack/dp/B001GKK4EA.

Hope this helps - Bill in Ventura, CA - engineer_bill@verizon.net
 

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I'm just barely above average and tried a standard condom once at a Later Videoteca in the theater. Had gotten it from the guy at the counter. HE said that I take a Trojan, but I insisted on standard-issue. When I tried to put that thing ON, it gave new meaning to CHOKE THE CHICKEN! I went back out & got what I needed. LoLz...the 1 time I was glad to hear somebody say, "SEE... I told you so!"
 

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Uh, it's called anal sex. Lube up two or three of your fingers, put them inside the female condom, and insert it into your partner's ass hole - using minimal, if any, lube on the outside of it to help it stay in. Then during penetration, your well lubed cock will do the slipping and sliding inside the condom - which feels very natural.
 

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I can only reiterate what’s been said, it’s definitely a big dick problem. I can’t do regular sized condoms either, I’ve had them split on me before or I’ve had to wrestle to get them on so much that I lose my wood by the end.
 

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Uh, it's called anal sex. Lube up two or three of your fingers, put them inside the female condom, and insert it into your partner's ass hole - using minimal, if any, lube on the outside of it to help it stay in. Then during penetration, your well lubed cock will do the slipping and sliding inside the condom - which feels very natural.

Not into anal, so never really gave it a thought. Ya learn somethin new EVERY day.
:rolleyes:
 

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I've used a few bigger condoms and it's actually really comfortable when you get one that fits your girth. Lots of men just don't fit girth wise in regular condoms. I get really uncomfortable in regular stuff, my ex had Trojan Enz and I just couldn't stand em I had a red ring from them at my base.
I'm 5.6 at the base and that is just a bit big for regular condoms
 
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They should teach that at school! Years of struggle and I never thought that was a deal breaker for me. I always thought that condom simply suck lol