A few months a go out of the blue a guy at work asked me out. He said he wanted to take me to lunch. I was surprised because I never really talked to him much beyond saying hello. I think he is about 20 yrs older than me, but a sophisticated kind of guy, well traveled, published writings etc, He took me to a nice place and we seemed to get along well. He is a married guy and I'm pretty sure he can guess I am gay. However nothing was discussed about it. I thought maybe he wanted a "boy on the side". But he never called me again and when I saw him in the hallway he gave me a short hello. This really bothered me. Did I disappoint him? Was it a gay date? Did he get scared? What do you think? Was he just playing with me? I know it's a mundane question, but I appreciate any opinions.