Was it a good experience the first time with a hustler/escort/prostitute?

[tgirlsrgreat]

wow, step into the wayback machine mr. peabody

just graduated from college and a buddy decided it was time for a road trip down to boystown in nuevo laredo. hooked up with what i later found out was one of the more famous or infamous ladies. el tigre! after about a half hour of hard fucking she told me i should not drink so much, i would cum quicker. time is money, so i took it as a compliment and yes, completely covered!!!

oh yeah, this is modernized, but still tells the tale for the youngsters

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WV9Y0Qy0U20

 

[D_Peverell Piledriver]

Yes, a massage parlor in Bangkok, Thailand. Still remember the name "Mona Lisa" massage parlor. Started with a "soapy" massage, then body massage with her pelvic bone massaging my already hard dick. Rinsed me off, sucked my dick (but not to completion) and then went over the bed where I fucked her several times until I couldn't do it anymore. 2 hours of ecstasy. Went back several times. Would I do it again? HELL YES!

 

[hsarge]

The implicit bargain you pay for: She acts as if you are the only man in the world, and you believe she's not acting

 

[D_Sue Ellen Brastretcher]

Sure you can.

Your just used to calling it dating.

:tongue:

I have never paid for sex.

 

[petite]

Yeah I guess it's something else. I've never used one. But I'll admit, there is a certain fantasy type thing that I could see being very hot to the idea of being paid to service someone. Something about not having any of the usual play or games or emotional responsibility but at the same time being treated exactly like what you'd be doing at the time -- being used and being paid for it.

(ok kinda twisted I guess, but for some reason that idea is hot)

Now, actually having that as a job...that's just kinda scary with all the crazy people and diseases out there.

Different strokes daring :tongue:

OH and fanstasy and reality are to very different circumstances!!!!

Exactly! I've had this fantasy, too, and in mine it's also fun. Except in my fantasy, it isn't anything like what it would really be like because the guy is hot and what we do is all stuff that I would enjoy doing and I wouldn't need to pretend to enjoy it because I'm having multiple orgasms and he's pushing all the right buttons and I'm pushing all of his.

I think that the reality of prostitution is much different. I bet most customers aren't fun, like customers whose dicks smell horrible and really need a bath and you just don't want to touch because of how icky they are, men who are extremely unattractive or grotesquely fat or flabby, men who talk to you in a way that turns you off, men who are totally awkward and you just can't get into the moment with them (like you're stuck in a Christopher Guest movie), men who are scary or just pathetic or impatient or mean, and men who want you to do lots of things that you really dislike or that is just weird and doesn't work for you. I think the reality is that it wouldn't be fun at all.

 

[tomperry]

The only time I had one was in a small city in the Philippines. She was in a normal cafe and looked like a student, tight battered jeans, tank-top, no bra, no paint, lovely brown skin, big mouth, glasses. I chatted her up successfully and we were on our way to my room when I asked if she had a job. I almost fell over when she told me and she hooted with laughter that I hadn't realised. She was absolutely fabulous, did everything beautifully, just as if it was for pleasure. The price was so low I gave her double. I've never even thought about another.

 

[sendera1]

I'm not necessarily condoning using prostitutes, but I can understand the allure. There is something that is quite surprising to me from the responses here. It has to do with how men and women are wired. The women who've chimed in have never used a prostitute and they tend to find it repulsive. Sometimes guys just want a release or sex with no strings or emotions attached. You don't want to have to see the person again, you don't want to deal with the person again etc. Everyone mentions the idea of a FWB. It still takes time to get to know the person.
Here is the sad truth. Many men could see an incredibly attractive woman, not know anything about her and not even know her name and have sex with her. Most women cannot do the same. We are wired different and driven by different things.
To further prove my point here is an experiment that would probably never happen. An attractive woman is in a bar and she goes up to a single random guy and says I want to sleep with you no strings attached will you do it? I'm willing to bet you that the guy says yes. On the other hand a handsome guy in a bar goes up to a random single woman and says I want to sleep with you no strings attached will you oblige. If he doesn't get slapped then the woman will want to know a lot about him, want some conversation, possibly be wined and dined, and maybe convince him to enter a relationship with him. Most women don't just want random sex without some emotional attachment to the guy.
A guy could skip the extras and go straight to the prostitute and have sex. There is no long conversation, there is no wining and dining, there are no long countless dates where he wonders if he'll have to wait six months for sex or if the woman is even interested in him or just enjoys getting a free dinner and drinks from time to time. This guy gets straight to business and has sex.
Now that's not to say there is nothing wrong with dating, relationships and marriage. I'm just saying that if you aren't in a dating mode, maybe you work long hours, whatever the case may be, prostitutes may be the answer.

 

[B_New End]

don't think it has that much to do with the ability to get laid.
I know guys who get laid more than i do and still have visited prostitutes.
Or think about the scandals you sometimes here about sport stars who got caught.
Don't think they couldn't get laid otherwise. How common it in fact is i can not say at all.

I believe it was Clark Gable that said, "I don't pay prostitutes for sex, I pay them to leave afterward"




I have never/would never payed a prostitute, unless it was two for a threesome.

 

[D_Edwin Eatser]

It was great. I was in my mid-30s and having a rough time with my ex, so visited a whore when i was away from home on business. I was a bit nervous but she was young, lovely, sweet, kissed fantastically (kissing is very unusual for WGs) and unhurried, and basically I fucked her silly. That rather got me hooked on whores, and I experimented with girls of different races, two girls together, tall girls, tubby girls etc, but usually always teens (over 18, the legal age for prostitutes in UK) or young 20s. Eventually I got divorced, remarried and stopped using whores regularly. I probably have about one a year now, when I'm feeling an urge for young pussy.

 

[wallyj84]

I went to a prostitute this morning. I was coming back from clubbing, a true rarity for me, and all the grinding with girls in the club made me really horny, so I decided to try out one of the local "massage" parlors.

It was not that fun. I actually became so bored inside of her that I faked an orgasm to get her off of me. That's actually a very common thing for me. All the times I've gone to a prostitute, I've never cum in the presence of one. They can jerk, suck or fuck me all they want and I never cum. I honestly don't know why I keep going to them. I guess I think this time will be different and I'll be able to enjoy sex like a normal person.

 

[jdoe86]

I've frequented a few brothels in Nevada and Germany (prostitution is legal and heavily regulated mind you). Had a few girls give me "freebies" after the regular session. One girl in Nevada at the now defunct Mustang Ranch let me fuck her ass at no additional charge. Usually this is a lot more money, but I must have made a good impression and she wanted a regular customer. Another girl in Germany would give it to me for free. I'd call her if I was coming into town and she'd take the day off. We'd go to dinner then back to her place to fuck all night long. Honestly I think she wanted to be my girlfriend and maybe more. Then there was a time in New Orleans I went to a massage parlor during Mardi Gras with some friends. I was figuring I'd get a hand job for $$$, but after the wonderful body shampoo and massage, she asked if I wanted anything more. Of course my erection said I did, but I spent all of my money at the bars. She said she wasn't going to charge me. Maybe she figured once I sampled her wares, I'd give her a big tip. I showed her I didn't have any money and she told me again, no charge. She wanted me to fuck her. I fucked her from about 4:30 in the morning till the sun came up. I came twice (in a condom of course) and she must have enjoyed it since she didn't want me to stop. After I was finished I meet up with my friends and they told me they all were charged between $100 and $200 for one fuck, no blow job or any extras. Don't ask me why I get freebies, but I'm not going to complain.

 

[cute5]

...
I cannot wrap my mind around paying someone to have sex?

I can, it's the purest form of capitalism. Money paid for services rendered.

 

[D_Phil_R_Upp]

I paid for a male escort/hustler twice. I didn't set out on either occasion to do it. I guess they were both more "hustlers" b/c I did meet them on the fly.

The first was a guy who I ran into in an adult bookstore. This was maybe ten, 15 years ago. Amazingly hot - like a muscular Matt Dillon. He told me what he was doing and how much. Told him I'd think about it.

He came back to me and I said yes. He came into my booth and spent about a half hour showing me his cock and letting me worship it. He had a beautiful cock and fed me a big load. Nice experience. I talked to him afterwards...he was a DJ at a str8 club and loved being an exhibitionist. About a year later at a party, I ended up watching him fuck a girl (not a paid event).

But I also had a bad experience, with a guy who was mega-muscular and promised the sun/moon/stars but was so chemically altered (a state I try to stay away from for any partner) that I just walked away.

As a voyeur I've thought about hiring a professional escort several times. But I'm wary of that idea for several reasons - I'd want to make sure they were DDF (even if I was just watching and/or feeling). It's also illegal, so there's that. And I'd want to find a guy who was confident and was doing this as a choice. If it's a disturbing experience for them, it's not a fulfilling experience for anyone.

But I'd consider it in the right scenario - especially if it was a porn star that I'd fantasized about, or someone who was really adept at roleplay/uniforms and could satisfy a fantasy.

 

[mexdude]

Ive never payed for one, but ive seen the human side of these women, like 1 year ago, 3 girls moved in the house nxt to mine, here in mexico houses are nxt to each other, wall to wall in most cases, and in like 2 weeks i noticed that these girls where sex workers, and i did hear how the pimp beat one girl once, and how guys get too obssesed with them, and one time how one got quite freaked cause her bf ditched her (trowing stuff and yelling and crying, yea it was sad), and other crying saying that the guy only wanted her vagi, now ive noticed that they are less stressed, more stable work hours compared to the first months, i would like to try with one, but its kind of expensive to me, if i win a small lottery money i may, but only in that case

 

[wild_boy]

Was it satisfying or a dissapointment? Did it all seem mechanichal? Or did they give it all they could to be a hot very satisfying sexual experience making you want to come back for more another time? Did they give you what you wanted sexually?

How old were you the first time?

I lost my virginity to a prostitute in a car.. was 17 years old, dragged by couple of friends as birthday present.

For $15 I got 30 seconds blowjob until I was hard, about two minutes of fuck and used condom full with my non-virgin-anymore sperm, thrown outside the window.

Fun? Pleasure? It was good orgasm, big load that's for sure, but you can't really enjoy such situation.

 

[Nekoman]

One time, with a streetwalker 4am, coming out of a club in NYC, ducked into a hallway, Broadway and 96th St., a sweet bj for 10 or 15 bucks. I was real drunk and horny. Why not?

 

[D_Curley Pubes]

First time was terrible! I was about 21, in college. Incredibly sleazy motel and even sleazier girl. And that bitch stole my weed...

I've only been with one other prostitute (craigslist) and it was much better. She came to my place and was great. And one time I got a damn good blow job at a strip club. A little pricy, but she was so fine and sucked a mean dick.

 

[D_Curley Pubes]

LOL...I love it!