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Spend a long weekend in Minneapolis. Your certain to get some there. Highly recommended by Senator Craig. :eek:
 

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.... I feel like I'm totally waisting my cock. And I'm so sick of jerking off every damn night. I just give up!


You won't feel that at all if you just "broaden your horizon", or
explore new grounds...


... still don't get it? Don't restrict yourself to the opposite gender.

:tongue::smile::biggrin1::wink:
 

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Listen.
I said it once and I'll say it again.

ADVERTISE.

There is no excuse for a large man to not be able to find someone interested in him being that large penises are revered in the culture.

It may be that the women perceive that you wouldn't be a perfect sexual partner based on prejudices about your essence.
So to overcome that, flaunt.

There's a site called http://www.big-date.com/ where people like you are sought after. Plus you can frequent adult Yahoo groups on the subject or go into chats.

Look at porn sites. When there is a prominent prized feature it is always discussed in detail. A woman with giant breasts will detail her size within the name as an advertising feature. Candy Cucamongas 38JJ Breasts. A woman a sizable butt will often showcase her body measurements. Ann Hamms 34B-26-48. Amazons will detail their height. Amazon Amanda 6' 3". And since the BBW revolution is growing lately, fat girls now detail their weight along with body size. Mama Mia 375 lbs. 48K-56-88.

Guys with large penises show their length X circumference. 11 X 7. And also detail their shape by saying Mushroom head or something like that. If they have big balls they advertise a comparison like saying plum sized or tennis ball sized or handful or something.

A female squirter will detail that she squirts, her velocity of squirting and or volume, and even in some cases the distance she can squirt. A heavy male cummer will often do the same.

A lactating woman employs these methods as well and if she has distinct nipples, areolas or breasts she will detail the diameter of areola size length of nipple along with general statement on thickness, color of nipple, and size or style of breasts along with other describing features.

A woman with large feet tells her shoe size. My big size 12 feet. Sometimes wearing a toe ring to highlight the size.

A woman with a large clit tells the length of it and possibly the style and shape. A woman with large labia either inner or outer or the whole general genital area details a comparative on what her meat looks like and stretches in wingspan to come up with a measurement of span. Or details a "fat pussy" or a "meaty pussy" or says "cameltoe". Also detailing color and texture.

A muscular man details his lifting abilities from clean and jerk to deadlift and the pounds he can move.

In some cases a dwarf details his or her height by the inches and feet (or centimeters if you're metric).

A marathon sexman will detail his duration of being able to stay hard and how long he can have sex for usually in hour increments. May also use the word tantric for extra marketing pull.

This is what you have to do. It's ALL the same. Marketing. You're not advertising. You have something that is widely known that many women want whether they realize this themselves or not. Some women don't want you for that size, it may be too much for them, but many women will give you attention and more than you can handle once it's known what you have.

There is a downside to this in that you will be seen for that first most likely and run the risk of being a human sex toy for some using females but if you're not getting what you want now, then you need to advertise.

Be thankful. There are some men who can't get what they want even IF they advertise. This is what I'm trying to change now.

What I'm hearing here is akin to a rich man complaining about his money. Get out there and advertise by any means necessary.

A large penised man who can't find mates is simply not imaginative enough as far as I'm concerned. There is no excuse really.

John Lucas
 

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You've really received a lot of good advice here in this thread. 7x6's post is good if you are in a social situation (especially the part about being clean and well dressed). Maybe your lack of confidence around women is sabotaging your chances. I had confidence problems at one time and solved it by being myself and taking the attitude of "what's the worst thing that can happen?" she'll say "no thanks?" So what? That's her loss. "No" doesn't hurt and if you don't take a risk then there's no reward. Same applies to business life btw.

I also agree with the advice about changing your location (if possible). I always make lots of new friends when I have moved to a new place. I know Wisconsin and the people are very nice, but "in general" they are a pretty conservative and introspective lot. Maybe you should try a more cosmopolitan place.
 

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Geez i dont feel so bad now, im an average looker, average size dick, normal body (no definition), and not exactly a popular person with hundreds of myspace pplz but i get some from different people like weekly.

Not saying im better or anything like that at all i think its just luck, confidence ( not being cocky or talking about yourself all night, be that person that listens and is open minded etc :) )
 

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Any other guys out there that don't get laid for shit even thou they're hung? I have sex like once every 3 months if I'm lucky. I'm not ugly, I'm not fat, but women just don't want it. I don't know if it's because I live in nowhere fuckin Wisconsin, but I feel like I'm totally waisting my cock. And I'm so sick of jerking off every damn night. I just give up!
Life is unfair ! You are not gay ! women are not so keen on large cocks than gays...it is a waste for everyone !
 

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You gotta be confident. Can't be cocky, there's a difference.
I myself, am very confident and chicks really dig that.
Sometimes, it comes down to no quality person around to date, so this cowboy finds himself riding off into the sunset (yet again) by himself.
But he'd rather be by himself for the right reasons, than with someone for the wrong reasons.
 

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Here is my suggestion, get a part time job at a nice bar/restaurant. The wait staff is always a possibility and you will meet women all of the time. It will force you to work on your skills. You could even try bartending where you are in a power position and women like bartenders. Bang one of the waitresses and word will get out about your cock.


I am originally from Wisconsin, so I am not sure how small of town you are in but I know them to get quite small, except the women, they can get quite large.:redface: Good luck.
 

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Getting laid frequently (one night stands) is pretty easy. If that's what you want.

Personally I'm more interested in a stable relationship. The sex is sooooo much better. Finding someone compatible is the problem. I don't make the time to look, and that's my fault. Like everything in life, you get out what you put in. No effort=no results.

Sex once in 6 years for me. One night stand. Wasn't that good.
 

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Do you try and get out there to meet people? I know it really doesn't matter if you are hung or not if you don't have good inter-personal skills. And if you don't have good skills, the only way to improve them is to force yourself out into public places to start meeting people.

Try to think outside the box. You don't have to go to meet (meat) markets like singles bars. (these are best for one night stands, though). If you want something more substantial, give your church a try. Also, grocery stores are great for casual introductions.

Anyone else have good suggestions for our chronically carpal-tunneled friend?
Yeah, he can look for glory holes or maybe create some in certain places. There will always be people aroung to suck it.
 
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Join the club.Even us big dicked ,handsome guys don't get laid like porn stars.I think being filthy rich helps you to get laid.
 

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Personally I'm more interested in a stable relationship. The sex is sooooo much better. .

Absolutely. Promiscuous sex is so self-less and empty - if you don't value the person you're having sex with, you may as well just jerk off.
 

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Any other guys out there that don't get laid for shit even thou they're hung? I have sex like once every 3 months if I'm lucky. I'm not ugly, I'm not fat, but women just don't want it. I don't know if it's because I live in nowhere fuckin Wisconsin, but I feel like I'm totally waisting my cock. And I'm so sick of jerking off every damn night. I just give up!

I suspect you are searching for someone with qualities that you admire and might consider dateable and of long term value to you as an individual
and not just as a sex partner. I say this because my personal experiences suggest that a man can get laid almost as often as he has the capacity to perform adequately. There are resources for obtaining a sexual partner at your very fingertips. I live in the boondocks as well and getting laid at least weekly would not be a problem. That I do not is a personal choice...that the opportunity presents itself quite often is unquestionable!
Are you active in groups, including internet sites which feature hooking up? I can see no real reason for despair. If you want something badly enough, you can work toward making it happen. And hey look, quality sex every few months is not really all that bad a record! Get out there and hustle! Good luck!:smile::smile::smile:
 
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too bad that you're wasting your youth as well as your dick.
i don't know how old you're but by the time you're say 50 or more you will look back and regret that you didnt fuck enough.

my case was similar. married at 35.
from teens till marriage all i did was j/o -only a couple of times sex with prostitutes in late 20's-early 30's.
now when i look back regret that i spent all those years chasing women with rock hard erections.

good luck
 

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too bad that you're wasting your youth as well as your dick.
i don't know how old you're but by the time you're say 50 or more you will look back and regret that you didnt fuck enough.

my case was similar. married at 35.
from teens till marriage all i did was j/o -only a couple of times sex with prostitutes in late 20's-early 30's.
now when i look back regret that i spent all those years chasing women with rock hard erections.

good luck

Why would you spend years chasing women with erections?
 

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I'm in the same situation, in that last 6 years I've had sex with 2 girls, and it has sucked both times. I'm shy so I don't meet too many girls. I've pretty much given up at this point. Even with 8.5 inches girls don't seem to care, I'm not fat, I'm in fairly good shape, and I've been told I'm good looking. The fact is, 95% of girls are stupid and only like guys with money, cars (that the rest of us think are lame), or those who treat them poorly.

I guess my only advice is to punch a girl in the face.
 

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Yeah, girls will be impressed by my size, but I don't get laid that much. When it comes down to it, girls seem to care for other stuff than dick size.