As a male I am glad when someone calls me on my language in the area of sex and suggests a better way of putting something. I am aware that some of our language is not very respectful of women and a good deal of our language puts sex in a bad light. I am offended when any man refers to his wife or girlfriend as " a steady piece of ass." I invite you to suggest a better way of suggesting that the lady in question is important to you. We say of partners, male and female, that they are hot. What words might communicate better? What are your pet peeves in sexual language? And, your suggestions for a better way of saying it. I like words. I think instead of saying about a woman that "I fucked the shit out of her" I would prefer to speak my thanks to her by referring to the "sweet communion" we had enjoyed. How can we do better in talking about sex? of ass."