Watching girl on girl vids

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  1. jake09

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    Is my gf who says she isnt bi, fibbing when she only watches girl on girl lesbian vids? Ladies is she really bi?
     
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    it could go either way, but i dont really care for guy gurl porn cause the guys are never really that hot, at least with gurl gurl porn you know theres a much better chance your not gonna wanna gag halfway through
     
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    Tons of people watch things in porn they don't actually want to do in real life.
    For instance I like to watch DP porn. Doesn't mean I want to be with two men in reality though.
     
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    exactly. it's all about the fantasy.
     
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    yes but as a former and possibly again future swinger, she has had her pussy eaten many times by a women, yet claims shes not bi.....Looks like it, sounds like it...etc. Plus she knows that her man is bisexual, so why doesnt she admit it, and turn her man on even more?
     
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    maybe she doesn't identify herself as bisexual. maybe she identifies as straight, but likes the idea of swinging. :shrug: there's a big difference.
     
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    Why not actually ask her about it?
     
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    We have, not sure she knows, but says she can relate to how it feels seeing 2 ladies together
     
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    i wouldn't really put too much stress on it then, if you've already brought it up.
     
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    dont stress about it too much, you'll make yourself crazy
     
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    Most porn makes me gag. However, I can relate more to the girl stuff.

    I probably will never have sex with another woman. But it's about the only porn that I can "feel." (And I barely ever watch porn.)
     
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    perhaps what she is saying is that she is not a bi...a biphiliac (if i have that right) but instead just enjoys engaging in sexual acts with women (she does not fall in love with them, though). there can be a difference.

    Homophile - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    basically, homophilia is an alternative term to homosexuality that emphasizes love over sex. perhaps what it is is that your gf does not love women, she cannot or would not have a relationship with one...however she can engage in sexual activities with them. that's fine, some people are like that. different strokes for different folks. we don't have to get so hung up on labels.
     
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    I ws in this dilemma for a while, i find its interesting to see naked women but for a while i didnt wanna admit it myself. But now i realize im actually bi, its natural you've got to really look at your self and judge, like me im sure she just dont think bout it that way.
     
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