Watching Porn in a relationship

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  1. B_doogie888

    B_doogie888 New Member

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    My girlfriend suggested we watch porn together, and I was totally turned off by the idea. Why would I want to watch a video with my gf of a guy with a giant penis pounding a girl? Porn is something that is part of my alone time, and I feel strange and awkward watching it with someone else. I feel like I disappointed her because I was clearly not into it and sort of shot down her idea, anyone have suggestions on how to go about comfortably watching porn with an SO if it's something she wants?
     
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    You could watch lesbian porn? Or just porn with small/average dicks in. Most guys in porn aren't really that big.
     
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    Get out of my head. :smile:
     
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    maybe it is some type of fantasy porn she wants to watch first before trying it herself with you. doesn't have to be hardcore porn. just softcore. some romantic shit.
     
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    I don't suppose I'd have anything to say on the matter other than "you lil pervert..and you know right now I suck your cock better then anyone else so...hmmm now what you got on there? Well that cock ain't nothing special. Next..." haha. I guess it would be a different matter if the porn was constant and affecting my partner's routine. Meanwhile I'd probably be out BBQ-ing or something and leave him to his porn until dinner. haha
     
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    hey, maybe it just turns her on. back when vcr's and porn was available on vhs(80's), my wife would go to the neighbor's "girls party", come home super horny. my cock would get a severe work out over the next 4 hours.
     
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    Maybe she gets turned on by watching you get turned on. ask her.
    Its called communication.
     
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    Develop a system that works for you. I felt weird about it until I decided to let her pick the porn! I have a decent collection and she picks what she likes out of it sometimes to mix it up! Knowing she likes the porn gets me hot, and then we both get all hot and bothered :)

    If the huge cocks bother you just screen those videos out of your collection
     
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