Watching Porn Together

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  1. Escalating

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    Has anyone ever watched porn with their significant other? I know the obvious answer is yes but is it arousing? I was thinking of watching one with my boyfriend and doing what they actors were doing :) Just as something fun to try!
     
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    Yes i have and the effects vary from copying what the actors do through to just having a laff by grading everything from size to how much does her high pitched voice irritate you lol. If you're both comfortable then it should be no trouble or problems, like most things it could cause friction or bring you both closer together.

    My current gf sometimes ask to watch one together, we do find it arousing especially if we find something different & arousing.
     
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    We have porn Monday, in our house. My wife and have watch porn together, for the past 25 years. We have watched it all and there is nothing better then watching it, and feeling it at the sametime. So go for it.
     
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    yeah I sometimes watch porn with my partner - we dont take it too seriously!
     
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    I used to watch porn with my past SOs. My ex husband and I once tried the reverse cowgirl position as a result. That is one painful position,

    While I watch porn from time to time and my current guy has told me that he watches, I don't think I want to watch it together. These days the porn is way too much for me. The backdoor open orifice in some of them is just gross looking.

    I'm not fundamentally against porn -- if it keeps you home and alone, that's faithful enough for me. But it's just getting too explicit for me.
     
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    My wife and I have watched porn together. It is usually more amusing than anything. Not something that we are in the habit of doing.
     
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    When I was with my ex, there were a couple times we watched porn together. We got pretty turned on by it and it was fun sex after. I think if it's overdone it wouldn't be so fun. Just has to happen when it does...
     
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    My husband and I watch it together, we both enjoy it. But neither one of us are a fan of the "spitting" trend in porn.
     
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    Watching porn with a partner is SO hot, I love it. I watch it alone also, but there is something so erotic and sensual about watching it with someone. It makes me feel so much more uninhibited, I am turned on completely in a matter of minutes, and it is just totally sexy.
     
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    It can be fun...depends on the video and depends on your partner. I've had some very arousing times with a partner & the odd porn movie. Not something I'd want to do everyday, but once in awhile... it can be really hot.

    And sometimes, sending each other links to some interesting porn vids leads to some very interesting evenings.
     
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    Yes, go for it. I recommend Pirates as well as Pirates II. I also liked Savannah Loves Sex. Great movies to watch together.
     
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    Pirates was GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have you seen the Twilight series videos?
     
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    It can be really fun as long as you don't overdo it. The first few times I watched porn with girlfriends it was awesome. So exciting and taboo; like really tame group sex.

    I had one long distance relationship with a girl who was into porn and we spent so much time sending links back and forth, chatting, and masturbating. I learned EVERYTHING about her sexually by doing that: what she liked, what she fantasized about, everything she'd done before we met. It was pretty amazing to become so sexually open with someone that way and I really credit porn for doing it.

    I watch porn with my wife every so often. Like most things, it loses its luster after it becomes routine. But if you can turn porn into a tool for further sexual exploration with your partner ("Does that turn you on? Would you like to try that? Do you think she/he is attractive?", etc.) it can be awesome.
     
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    OMG. Thank you for saying that. I cannot stand the whole "spitting" thing either. It grosses me out and just ruins a scene for me. :frown2:
     
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    My wife gets into porn moods once in a while and we've watched some of the "this ain't" spoofs.

    I'll third the Pirates vote. We've never watched the Twilight ones, were they any good?
     
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