Watching Porn with other Guys, inherently gay?

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  1. joonoo

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    I wonder what it must mean when another guy wants to watch porn with me, I was recently at WORK when my supervisor started to look at porn on his laptop (it was just myself and him upstairs), I was pretty shocked, first of all we were at *work* and second he's my supervisor.. kind of awkward.

    I played along like I was actually interested in watching porn but after awhile I told him I had to get back to work and went downstairs.. the rest of the night he kept messaging me on my phone or calling me upstairs for some stupid reason or another.. pretty much just to talk, even though near the end of the shift I made it pretty clear he was starting to annoy me he still wanted me to come up and have a smoke with him! even though I don't smoke. .

    What do you guys think? When a guy suggests watching porn with you, or does, don't you think thats a pretty strong statement ?

    It seems to me that it would only indicate the other guys desire to get you sexually aroused, and what would be the point of that other than to hope for some kind of sexual encounter, right ?

    I'd really like to know some other guys opinions on this, I was talking to my uncle recently about how I had porn on my laptop but I wasn't about to watch it with him, and he's like "Of course not, I'm not gay!" , and I thought to myself "EXACTLY", I can't think of any other legitimate reason to watch porn with another guy . .
     
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    I wouldn't say watching porn with another guy is inherently gay, but its something i wouldn't do.

    As for your situation, your boss was just being inappropriate. If that situation were a girl and guy it'd be just as bad. And yes, in your particular situation it DEFINATELY sounds like your supervisor was trying to get you into some type of sexual situation.
     
  3. D_Landrocke DeLonguepiece III

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    First of all, a supervisor watching porn at work is a no-no. And watching it with another employee is a huge no-no. Talk about opening yourself up for sexual harassment!!
     
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    With a stranger, maybe. With a friend, maybe not.

    XTube Videos
     
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    whatshisface is right. Your boss was being inappropriate.

    Guys watching porn together is not inherently gay; it depends on what you're doing while you watch it. Obviously. After all, behind the scenes it's mostly straight men making porn and they're not spontaneously errupting into circle-jerks. But yeah, your boss was being bizarro. Time to set some boundaries.
     
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    Did he actually say come and watch some porn with me or are you assuming thats what he was mesging you for. He maybe just wanted to chat and shit.

    Dunno pal ....

     
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    I know this is off topic, but great pics :p
     
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    it is fine as long as no one starts jerking it.
     
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    if they do i yell "you're a gay" at them and point
     
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    Ya thats what i think.
     
  11. joonoo

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    Either way, I was totally weirded out and didn't care to chit chat, and there really wasn't much to talk about, I assumed he just wanted me around, which made me think he was thinking of sexual shit.

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    Maybe not inherently gay, but you have to think about that situation, when you're alone and you watch porn, you jack off.... so what's the underlying reason another dude would want to watch porn with you in the first place?

    I've watched porn with other guys before, sure.. and it didn't turn into some huge gay orgy, but at the same time I could only think at the time of how awkward it is, and WHY would someone want to watch porn with me unless they were really hoping for something to happen, it just doesn't make any sense.

    That doesn't mean that anything ever does happen, but it seems like the goal is to get something to happen and claim you're still straight afterwards cause after all you were watching porn.. how could you help it, that chick was fuckin hawt yo!
     
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    He maybe just feels comfortable around you enough to watch it. My mate is str8 and id watch pron with him and would'nt erxpect anything to happen. I think it depends on the person/situation/time.

    You will know better than anyone as you were there.

     
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    All you have to do is say 'no' to sexual advances. Otherwise, just relax, your mates are probably not 'interested'.
     
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    I guess most of us have watched porn with other guys at sometime, but as has been mentioned, it's usually in a group, and its all part of growing up, This one on one situation I would have to say sounds not only out of order but well and truly suspect, especially as you had expressed your lack of interest at the beginning, I guess this guy needs putting straight. Youre at work for exactly that reason, not to get horny with a fellow work mate, especially one of which you have no attraction to.
     
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    Watching porn as a social activity is totally lost on me, but maybe that's what makes me so gay.
     
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    At work watching porn and mutual masturbation is a good way to lose your job at the very least. It's illegal.

    With friends it's not necessarily a gay activity. People do things just because they feel good sometimes. But then if you think it's gay then it's gay for you.
     
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    Every guy is different..some would say watching porn together is a major NO NO while for others, it's just like watching any ole movie.

    There's a guy in my dorm from eastern Europe and he likes watching porn and doesn't care who or how many people are in the room when he feels in the mood. There was even one day when he wanted to show me a particular scene. I said no despite him being a gorgeous kid because porn watching with others just isn't something I personally do in most situations.

    Watching it at work with a supervisor shouldn't be done, but sometimes, circumstances permit. My parents own a construction business and I know the guys can get friendly and rowdy with each other to the point where sex may or may not be brought up. They may watch porn together at night in the motel but I'm sure it's an extremely rare instance.

    Nonetheless, I know my dad would never do that with anyone. He was raised to work and to be a boss, not to be friendly with employees and watch movies or porn with them. Therefore, your supervisor should be careful of what he does less he lose his job.
     
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    I've watched it with a couple of my friends before, none of us are gay.
     
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    A lot of my straight friends (knowing that I've got a lot of vids and DVDs)that have no idea that I'm bi- have watched Rocco, P. North and other straight porn with me. Unlike watching gay and bi-porn with some of my fuck buddies nothing ever happened aside from laughning and joking about certain things in the vids. They'd probably really be surprised if they knew how large my Raging Stallion collection was.
     
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    Maybe I'm old fashioned. To be gay, it minimally takes having sex (or wanting to have sex) with a person of the same sex.

    I can't tell you how many times I've watched porn with other str8 guys. It's not a big deal.

    Now, the work thing.... That's not OK.
     
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