watching porn

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by stevo111, Jan 29, 2007.

  1. stevo111

    stevo111 New Member

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    Just a quick question. My wife tells me she hates watching porn, but when we watch it she gets real wet. Usually she takes along time to get wet. Do u think she actually likes it and is ashamed to tell me.
     
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    From my experiences on the former side of the track, I had many GFs who viewed porn as a challenge to my attraction to them sexually (all my porn was hetero until a year ago). They felt that if I was being satisfied by them that I would not need to watch any porn. The fact that I would not get rid of it bothered them trmendously. I have always been fascinated by anyone (male or female) who believes such. Porn is fantasy, 90% sex is mental. How can porn not help sex? I just don't get it.
     
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    My wife and I love watching porn together, provided I've been selective in the chosen material. Unfortunately, a lot of porn is of the "Suck that cock, bitch!!" variety, which must appeal to some guys, but I find it not only offensive, but completely non-sexual in nature. My wife an I have the same attitude regarding porn, which is to watch two amazingly good looking people fuck each other silly, while we basically do the same thing in front of the television. It doesn't turn me on to watch the "stud" of the movie treat the girl like some sort of braindead fuck machine, as this type of girl doesn't appeal to me in real life.

    As far as jealousy issues derived from porn, we have none. My wife is generally the first to say "Holy shit, look at how perfect her tits are!", whereas I'll say "Think you could fit his big cock inside you?".
     
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    Most women I know do not like porn. I have dated a few who have told me that they would be open to watching it with me...but ours sex was great without it...and I just kinda think it's weird (for me) to watch porn with a lady.

    It's a thing that I like to do solo - or with a buddy.
     
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