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do you women like to see a man masturbate? ...to ejaculation? ...what about mutual masturbation? is that a turn on, or just a thing to do when intercourse isn't an option(for whatever reason)?
my GF seems to be fascinated by watching me jerk off, but women i've been with in the past have been repulsed. what's the deal?
 

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Some women do, some don't. Male orgasm certainly has more obvious reactions than female orgasm.
 

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I absolutley love to see guys masturbate! It lets me know how they like to be touched, stroked, what brings them to orgasm, and it's exciting as hell to watch. I think it's an incredible form of foreplay, as long as he's up for round 2 at some point.
 

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Originally posted by madame_zora@Mar 14 2005, 12:07 PM
I absolutley love to see guys masturbate! It lets me know how they like to be touched, stroked, what brings them to orgasm, and it's exciting as hell to watch. I think it's an incredible form of foreplay, as long as he's up for round 2 at some point.
[post=290818]Quoted post[/post]​

Wear what you are wearing in your avatar picture and there will be a round 2 and 3! :wub:

LapDog :p
 

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It's so HOT!

Lots to learn from watching, too, as MZ said

I really like the way his body tenses up and all those jerkin' muscles show!
 

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Adding another check mark next to Zora's name ...
... adding InsertHere to my list .... ;)

A former girlfriend loved to watch me take care of my own business. She usually ended up 'helping out' so I was more than happy to obilge her!

LapDog :p
 

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er.... uh huh, oh yeah!!

Absolutely, Insert - amazing to watch him stroke himself hard, the look on his face, the fascinating time-lapse images of his penis growing and changing angle, then of course the explosive finale - that painful look on his face, the surprised expression just as he tenses up and then shoots all that stickiness all over himself.

Um, yeah, Jane likes it...!! lol
 
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Originally posted by ToxicNarcotic18@Mar 16 2005, 03:50 PM
.....my ex gf loved to watch me jerk off. she said it was a real turn on
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Another way of putting what has basically been said above is that there is a wonderful sense of everything in a man's mind and body focusing on his cock when the point of no return arrives. Women have said the same thing about their orgasms. My wife used to love to watch how every part of me seemed to zero in on my cock when I jerked off in front of her. She knew I was doing it in response to looking at and thinking of her. I usually did it if she was ill and not up to our normal sex. For her, it was another way for me to show her she was still the most appealing and erotic woman I had ever met even when she was sneezing, sniffling, etc...
 

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Orionsword, That's beautiful. What a neat way to help your lady feel better. I wish I'd thought of it myself. My wife and I have always masturbated for each other as a change of pace in our lovemaking, so next time she's under the weather I'm going to surprise her. Thanks for a great idea!

B-man
 

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Absolutely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing better than watching a guy as his body tenses, he breathing becomes shallow (to the point he sounds like he is gasping for air) and his face and chest becoming red before the explosion.

Oh yes, I enjoy it.... Love it!
 

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Originally posted by lapdog2001@Mar 30 2005, 04:08 PM
* Making arrangements for live, in-person demonstrations for:
Madam Zora
InsertHere
GorgeousJane
LoveArias
BB
Naughty

Any other ladies care to join in? ;)


LapDog :p
[post=295221]Quoted post[/post]​

*groan* don't tempt me!
 

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Originally posted by naughty@Mar 30 2005, 09:25 AM
Yes!
Though I hate to admit it , there is a certain fascination in watching a body part that I dont possess come alive in the hands of its owner or in my own! LOL!
Naughty
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Yes, Naughty, I agree!!! My dh was a bit uncomfortable at first, even though he's got nothing to be ashamed about in the cock department. I told him how sexy it looked for him to be stroking his penis and it really WAS a turnon for me to see how he had gratified himself all those years without a woman to assist him.
The only thing strange was the way he did it -- I didn't have much experience watching guys do this, but I'm pretty sure his way was a bit "unique."
 

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Originally posted by GorgeousJane@Mar 16 2005, 03:21 PM
er.... uh huh, oh yeah!! absolutely, Insert - amazing to watch him stroke himself hard, the look on his face, the fascinating time-lapse images of his penis growing and changing angle, then of course the explosive finale - that painful look on his face, the surprised expression just as he tenses up and then shoots all that stickiness all over himself.
Um, yeah, Jane likes it...!! lol
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Exactly, Jane !! That look right before my dh comes is so exhilirating....I love when he's inside me or on top of me but when he's a few feet away and I'm lying there naked right next to him, in full view of his open body, handling that foot-long extension, it's tremendous!
 

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Question: I love this thread because it's something my dh and I just got into recently, but I am wondering about something.

My husband has a very unique (weird?) way of masterbating. I always thought that guys usually laid back, maybe propped themselves against the back of a bed (or sat in a chair) and more or less lay on their back, their penises being stroked by both hands while they glanced at some girlie magazine off to the side.

Not my husband.

When I asked him the first time, he finally consented after resisting saying that it was something he did before he met me and didn't want to have to resort to now that he had me. I told him it was a big turnon, and he agreed. So I'm lying in the bed and he comes over, totally naked with his giant penis flacid (it's almost 9" when soft) and he has an assortment of girlie pictures, cutouts, huge-breasted porno stars, etc in his hand. He lies down on the bed, props up 2 pillows, proceeds to lay on his side, spreads the pictures out down and to his right (so the pictures were kinda between me and him) and then he pulls the covers up over most of his body and proceeds to jerk off.

As soon as he started, I said "Wait, what the heck are you doing?" I didn't understand the whole laying on the side thing, and what's with the sheets, I asked him? He explained that this was how he did it all the years growing up and that's what I wanted to see. I said I could live with the laying-on-the-side method if that's what he preferred but I wanted to SEE him and his penis, not look at his upper torso from the chest up while the rest of him was below the sheet. He said he wasn't used to being uncovered in that position; when we had sex together and were uncovered that was different, because I was another woman who was his partner. Solo, he liked the covers.

Well, I got him to do it a few times without the covers but he's still using his side-method. I tried to get him to lay on his back in the bed, or prop himself up against the back of the bed with his photos/porn off to the side, but he says he can't manually excite himself in that position. Seems like he just uses the palm of his hand and not both hands to stroke. Even though he loves it when I use both of my hands to give him a hj, working one end of his cock to the other, he doesn't do that himself. He keeps one hand on his glans, uses the other to support that hand, and just moves it over his big head.

I know "to each his own" but I even told my husband that I never heard of anybody using his methods (lying on the side, under the covers, not stroking the entire shaft). He said he's done it that way since his 'teens and it's what he's used to so I won't change him but....

Anybody else think this is "unique"? I've gotten him to drop the covers (what's the point in him doing it if I can't SEE it????) but he still likes the side method. I offered to assist him personally either by holding up some of his favorite pictures or talking to him or touching him if he were to lie on his back or sit up, but he says he can't jerk off in any position but that one after all these years. He says it wouldn't be the same.

So I just watch quietly, offering encouragement, while he continues with his unique method. Any wives or gf's out there have partners who have been a little "unique" or weird in this department?
 

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I'm sure all of us guys do it differently. One suggestion to you, though... If you want to see him pleasure himself, let him do it how he does it. It might sound to him that you are being critical or judgemental about how he jerks off. It's probably embarrassing enough the first few times doing it in front of your wife, the added pressure might really affect more than just his masturbation -- it may make him question his sexual performance in general especially since he's not too experienced. Tread lightly.

Maybe after this is a comfortable routine, you could tell him it would turn you on to "direct" him in his masturbation... that might be a turn on for him, too.
 

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Mmmmmmmmmmmm. Just read this whole thread and it's got me all worked up ! Btw, the few times a girl has masturbated for me it was so exciting ! and of course I love to do it for someone, too.

;) ;) ;)