We as bisexuals are not freaks.

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Reading all of these threads I sometimes feel misjudged. We are normal people within your communities. We deserve all of the respect of any other human. We are not perverts nor are we pedifiles. Most of us keep it within consentual terms. NOBOBY will ever tell me I am a freak.
 

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Reading all of these threads I sometimes feel misjudged. We are normal people within your communities. We deserve all of the respect of any other human. We are not perverts nor are we pedifiles. Most of us keep it within consentual terms. NOBOBY will ever tell me I am a freak.
I want to be seen as a normal man and be treated as such. I can eat her or suck him. SO WHAT.
 
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My friend, I certainly don’t think bisexuals (male or female) are in any way freaks.

I’m straight, but I have had bisexual female partners in the past, and had perfectly normal, consensual and satisfying relationships with them...

Live and let live between consenting adults. As long as you’re not hurting other people deliberately, do what makes you happy :)
 
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My friend, I certainly don’t think bisexuals (male or female) are in any way freaks.

I’m straight, but I have had bisexual female partners in the past, and had perfectly normal, consensual and satisfying relationships with them...

Live and let live between consenting adults. As long as you’re not hurting other people deliberately, do what makes you happy :)
Thank you my friend.
 
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Reading all of these threads I sometimes feel misjudged. We are normal people within your communities. We deserve all of the respect of any other human. We are not perverts nor are we pedifiles. Most of us keep it within consentual terms. NOBOBY will ever tell me I am a freak.
I have yet to read an article on here about people insulting bisexual people.

Even if someone did, don't take it personally. They didn't direct it at you, and even if they did it is one person's opinion. The world is full of people with different tastes, and dislikes. No one can tell you that what you like, or who you are, is wrong.
 
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It bothers me that bisexual women are treated like some kind of collectable item, or some kind of rarity to be sought after for the sake of sexual conquest.

There's an assumption that a lot of people seem to have that being with a bisexual woman means that you'll get to have another woman in the mix sometimes. Maybe for some relationships. Assuming that it's true in all cases is fucking stupid, but amazingly some people do have that impression.

Being bisexual doesn't automatically mean that a person is non-manogomous. Just because I also find women sexually attractive doesn't mean I have to be with one from time to time in order to be sexually satisfied in my homosexual relationship.
 

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TnJ, thats a good point. Promiscuity and bisexual are definitely independent variables.

I don’t see why one should imply the other for any reason whatsoever, kinda sad that it seems to in some people’s limited minds....

Reminds me of the “Banky Edwards” quote which I’ll misappropriate to say in most cases these cock-obsessed promiscuous male-affectionate lesbians/bisexual ladies are figments of over-sexed dude’s imagination...

And being monogamous doesn’t necessarily mean somebody won’t occasionally window shop and spot someone else they find attractive - they’re in a relationship, not dead — but it does mean they are content with and make the active choice not to take it any further than that to keep that monogamous relationship alive and healthy...

But again, as long as nobody is deceiving anyone and there’s full content, there is nothing wrong with being monogamous bisexual or promiscuous heterosexual, homosexual, transsexual, asexual, whatever. I don’t think anyone should try impose their own moral code on anyone else.
 

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Reading all of these threads I sometimes feel misjudged. We are normal people within your communities. We deserve all of the respect of any other human. We are not perverts nor are we pedifiles. Most of us keep it within consentual terms. NOBOBY will ever tell me I am a freak.

While I don't know the you, I can honestly say I'd not give two shits about your sexuality. But I know that's not your norm. And I'm sorry. That you feel misjudged. Who the hell am I, or anyone else for that matter, to judge you?

There are indeed those of us who are not straight cis-males who are looked at through a different perspective by some folks. But, that's their issue; not mine. Or yours. I learned a long time ago to let that shit go. Don't care. If you ain't paying my rent, sucking my dick or otherwise important in my life--I quite simply don't give a rats ass what you think. Really don't. But I didn't get there overnight. It took time.

I know/have known a variety of folks of just about every sexual proclivity and "label" you can imagine/think of. All each of them has been to me is a person. And that person became my friend/is in my life IF that person proved to be a decent human. Is interesting and fun to be around. Don't care about their sexual identification. Do care that they are happy in their own skin.

So OP, time to get happy in your own skin. Work on limiting the time you spend focusing on these kind of negatives. Especially here. In the big scheme, LPSG ain't but a blip on the radar-screen of life.

That doesn't mean you are wrong to feel what you described in your opening post. You would be wrong though, to dwell on it a let it define you. Time to, as ElsA sings in Frozen: Let it Go. You'll feel better. I know. I've been in your shoes. Best wishes to you!
 

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quit letting others define who you are. in all honesty, who gives a fuck what others think? it's your life isn't it? learn to love yourself and have a strong, positive self-image of yourself as a bisexual person, a straight person, a gay person, or whatever you choose to be. why let others tell you what you are?

what astonishes me the most nowadays is how a random nobody on the internet types a few words about you and is able to ruin your whole day, or whole week, when you have no clue who this person is or where they came from. also, i'm shocked at how much we want to please people we don't know and craze their approval... again, from people we don't know.

it's like we all forgot to love ourselves so we want others to love us even from strangers. we're all better than this.
 

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Reading all of these threads I sometimes feel misjudged. We are normal people within your communities. We deserve all of the respect of any other human. We are not perverts nor are we pedifiles. Most of us keep it within consentual terms. NOBOBY will ever tell me I am a freak.
Which threads? Maybe it'stime to go straighten out some folk. Then again, fuck 'em.
 
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