Reading all of these threads I sometimes feel misjudged. We are normal people within your communities. We deserve all of the respect of any other human. We are not perverts nor are we pedifiles. Most of us keep it within consentual terms. NOBOBY will ever tell me I am a freak.
While I don't know the you, I can honestly say I'd not give two shits about your sexuality. But I know that's not your norm. And I'm sorry. That you feel misjudged. Who the hell am I, or anyone else for that matter, to judge you?
There are indeed those of us who are not straight cis-males who are looked at through a different perspective by some folks. But, that's their issue; not mine. Or yours. I learned a long time ago to let that shit go. Don't care. If you ain't paying my rent, sucking my dick or otherwise important in my life--I quite simply don't give a rats ass what you think. Really don't. But I didn't get there overnight. It took time.
I know/have known a variety of folks of just about every sexual proclivity and "label" you can imagine/think of. All each of them has been to me is a person. And that person became my friend/is in my life IF that person proved to be a decent human. Is interesting and fun to be around. Don't care about their sexual identification. Do care that they are happy in their own skin.
So OP, time to get happy in your own skin. Work on limiting the time you spend focusing on these kind of negatives. Especially here. In the big scheme, LPSG ain't but a blip on the radar-screen of life.
That doesn't mean you are wrong to feel what you described in your opening post. You would be wrong though, to dwell on it a let it define you. Time to, as ElsA sings in Frozen: Let it Go. You'll feel better. I know. I've been in your shoes. Best wishes to you!