We need to have a talk

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Jeez, Bryan... that sounds well fucking annoying. When you first posted I thought you may be talking about some kind of kinky fetishwear or something (not that that would be any of their business!) but regular Hanes undies... time to fly the nest!!!
 

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Question..Have your parents every had the "talk" with you? ....what ever that may be? My parents never sat me down to have the "talk. So, I have no clue as to what that would actually be like.
Perhaps they are ready for you to talk to them about who and what you stand for. This is a bridge where they can Cross over and join you on the other side. Don't sweat it...Although I do think what type of underwear you are wearing has nothing to do with ones sexuality. My parents bought me my first pair of Bikini Brief when I was a young teen...been hooked ever since. My father is too...That is nothing perverted there. Been with my mom while she was buying them for him on many occasions.
Just keep us informed as to what the "talk" is actually about.
If it ever takes place.
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COLJohn said:
I don't understand this underwear as a metaphor-for-sexuality concept. One more missing piece of the puzzle.:confused:

Nah. It was supposed to go over your head as it is ridiculous.

Next thing you know, someone will tell you you're gay for belonging to a message board about big cocks.

WAIT... :wink:
 

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When I was a young man my father managed to read "gay" behavior into almost everything I did, long before I was sexual in any sense. It frustrated me terribly, because I knew even then that being gay meant having sex with men, period, and that did not predict how I would throw a ball, choose clothing, select television shows or any of the other ridiculous things that were trotted out about me.

I am a lot older now, however, have a son of my own, and see things from a different angle. You see, I did turn out to be gay. (Bi, actually, but the distinction is purely academic in this case.) My father handled it badly, but I now realize that he was worried what that might mean for me and was trying in his own limited, small-town, narrow-minded way to convey to me his fears.

I'm sure not excusing him. I wish he had been able to help me through my tortured teens instead of making them worse. I wish he didn't automatically assume that being gay was a death sentence, one way or another. I wish a lot of things had come down differently about it all.

But deep down, I also know that his neuroses came from genuine love. They were filtered through a lot of weirdness, sure. If they hadn't been, perhaps he could have just said he wanted me to be happy but he hoped that I knew how to take care of myself and was careful. After almost twenty more years of not-quite-discussing it, I finally did come out to him. It took a long time, but in the end, he did essentially say exactly that.

I don't know what your parent's "talk" would consist of, but I doubt that underwear preferences are what is really on their mind. Being gay may not even be. May be that they have just come to understand, whatever set it off, that you are a sexual adult. There are inherent dangers in that which a good parent will want their child to avoid.

I can't tell you how much stupid stuff I say to my son because I can't quite find the words to say things right, but I love him nonetheless. Not for their sake, but for yours, I encourage you to give them a break.

Be firm, however, about your right to wear briefs. Boxers are for guys with small balls...
 

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How do you know what "the talk" is going to be about? It could be that they are just tired of you leaving wet clothes on the floor and feel like asking you to be more careful or leave, or to pay rent, or whatever. What gives you the idea this is going to be a sexuality issue because most people are not that sensitive to just one event like that. Maybe I missed something and you already had that talk and if that is the case, your sexuality is not thier business. Did you have the talk yet?
 

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When I was about 4 years old I wore my older sister's Strawberry Shortcake nightgown over to my friend Daniel's house to sleep over. His father asked my parents if I was gay. Kind of hilarious, kind of sad at the same time.

I also once rode around the neighborhood on my Big Wheels wearing one of my sisters' bathing suits.

of course... that was recently.
 

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NineInchCock_160IQ said:
When I was about 4 years old I wore my older sister's Strawberry Shortcake nightgown over to my friend Daniel's house to sleep over. His father asked my parents if I was gay. Kind of hilarious, kind of sad at the same time.

I also once rode around the neighborhood on my Big Wheels wearing one of my sisters' bathing suits.

of course... that was recently.
LOL.....you silly man......don't you know Big wheels are for little boys.
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Buddy, briefs are nothing for anyone to worry over, especially your parents. They may want to talk about your leaving wet laundry in the machine and what it could've smelled like if no one found it. Or, they may want to talk about your doing all of the laundry since you live at home and you may do great laundry. Who knows - don't sweat it.

Re; underwear preferences, I like briefs, boxerbriefs, boxers, and 2xist makes a great thong that thankfully has enough room in the pouch for the balls, too. I base the underwear I wear on the outerwear for the day. The happiest days are the commando days, truth be told.

Thanks for some great conversation in the posts, guys. - Ed
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Bryan_Lyte2 said:
My step father isn't one of those parents. My mom totaly understands my wanting to explore a little as long as I don't go to radical with it. I told her I was trying different underwear trying to find what feels comfortable, but I'm not about to get in it with my dad. He just dosen't get it.:cool:

Switch it all around on your Dad. Tell 'em that those underwear are all his. And maybe your Dad wants you to be gay...:wink: (Kidding!!!!)

You bought those scandalous undies. You liked them. It is your cock. You have the right to dress it up anyway you want.:smile:
 

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Bryan_Lyte2 said:
Plus because I live in So Cal housing is rediculous. It runs about half a million for a two bedroom home, and can cost upwards of 1000 a month for an apartment. The sooner I can get financialy situated the sooner I won't have to deal with this crap any longer.:cool:

It's common in areas with inflated housing prices. Some of my friends in the L.A. beach cities did the same thing. It's common in NYC as well. I blew out the door at 18 and got 2 roommates in a shitty apartment. One thing...I miss my utility bills from L.A. Mine here run almost $500 a month in the summer. Per kilowatt prices are astronomical.
 

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NineInchCock_160IQ said:
I also once rode around the neighborhood on my Big Wheels wearing one of my sisters' bathing suits.

of course... that was recently.

She must have gotten back a bikini stretched out beyond recognition.

Bryan, go ahead and have the talk -- force them into it. Your mother's comments sound very passive-aggressive and it might help to bring the conversation to some closure.