Week erections.

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  1. hemiman

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    First of all i want to say hi to everyone on here as this is my first post. My problem started few months ago while trying to do it in a sauna. That was the first time i was with a girl and didn't get erect. Now since then i have week erections. My penis doesn't get ramdom erections only on some mornings. I have been with a girl and my errection was gone after 10 minutes of making out. Anyone got any good advice on what can i do? THX
     
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    DONT THINk ABOUT YOUR ERECTION just think about the hot girl your about to fuck. try and relax, if you are still having trouble find a dirty image that makes you hard and think about that when you are having problems. tell your girl you want to watch a porno with her, find out what she likes, watch it with her and when you get hard, start fucking.

    hope this helps and let us know what happens
     
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    Have the same problem when Im about to put a rubber on I lose my hardon. Fine when I'm getting sucked etc, any advice?
     
  4. carter2006

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    I wouldn't recommend sex in a sauna either. The heat of a sauna should raise your body heat considerably and thus raise your pulse rate. Saunas are not the place for physical activity, you're exposing yourself to health risks which just aren't worth the hassle...
     
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    Ask your partner to put it on for you, incorporating the act of putting it on into your sex. Get him (or her) to try different ways of putting condoms on you. The act can be incorporated into a hand job or, with practice, a blow job :tongue:
     
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    I've never tried to keep my cock hard for a week so I wouldn't know.
     
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    Six and a half days is the best I've been able to manage, and I don't know if I can fo it anymore.
     
  8. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    I thought after three days you had to go to the hospital and have a hole drilled, otherwise it gets gangrene and falls off.
     
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    Only problems to get hard with a girl? It's psychological. Relax just as horrible told you.

    Always problems to get hard? Visit a doc maybe
     
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    you have to go to the hospital for an erection lasting longer then 3 hours. dont you see all the ads on tv
     
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    I had this same problem having sex with a girl.

    Turned out there was a simple solution.

    I was gay!
     
  12. Pappy

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    First off, welcome to our corner of the web.

    Now to your problem. You didn't say how old you are so.... If you are younger (<40) then it could be performance anxiety, but you say your erections at other times are weak too. That would indicate other underlying issues that should be addressed by a doctor. I'd see one as soon as possible. There are a million and one things that could cause your problem and you would be best served by seeing a good doctor and find out if it's physical or mental.
     
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    Erections are so damn unpredictable like the weather! Sometimes you get a good one, sometimes you don't... just work with what you got... your partner should be understanding enough to now judge you by it
     
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    If you're losing your erection when putting on a condom the problem might be that the condom is too small/tight. Donning a sheath shouldn't take much effort and very few seconds and it should be comfortable.

    If you find yourself fighting the condom when trying to roll it on, either you're rolling it on backwards or you're just too damned big for it.
     
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    When you are in the process of placing condoms on, you may have to eroticize the process in your own way. Start associating sexy or sexual feelings, in some fashion, wearing condoms. Maybe even start jerking off wearing condoms. My personal favorite condom and lube of choice are TROJAN Ribbed condoms and WET Platinum Lube. Even though some condoms I wear are tight, I find the tightness of them adds to the pleasurability of sex.

    Sometimes, we also have to reprogram our thinking about wearing condoms and the association of losing one's hard-on with wearing condoms and having maintaining erections. Go by the health department and get the freebie condoms to practice masturbating in. Sometimes, they have some crazy kinds. Even biggie-sized ones like the Magnums, Maxx, and Maxx Plus.
     
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    I don't watch TV much.
     
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    LOL!!
     
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    Don't know why, but I am so agree with you.....:confused:
     
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    It could be a host of things contributing to your problem. I'd guess right off the bat, but not confirm that maybe you have a blood flow problem that inhibits your erection. Either that or a lack of effective stimuli. I'd seriously not concentrate on your dick and more the girl you're about to fuck. Hell, maybe you can coax her into showing something, or have her rub your crotch. That keeps me going forever.
     
  20. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    Priceless! How didn't I see this?
     
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