Well-endowed long term married guys and cheating?

[trulybig]

I had in mind asking this of guys married to a woman like myself, but maybe it could be the same for a gay man. When I first was married my wife enjoyed that I had a large penis even on occasion had a nick-name for it like "King Snake" or others where she had some focus about it. It was ego boosting and fun to hear that or things like I was way larger than anyone she had been with or other comments aimed about my superior cock. But, over the years besides sex becoming infrequent and mundane, she now could care less about my size or penis size in general. That has led me to cheating with meeting others because as I saw a comment from someone else one time, "I have a big cock and want to use it!" I know the moral thing is to feel guilty. But, I don't as I enjoy the reactions and comments I get from women or couples experiencing a large penis (especially with those who hadn't before).

I am interested if other married well-endowed men have similar reactions where this feature we are blessed to have is not satisfied because a long term partner is use to it or no longer appreciative about it? Thoughts?

 

[deleted21850121]

I can’t speak for my boyfriend but I’ve told him before that I want other people to get to experience his cock because of how big he is. At least suck him. I take care of him frequently but I love that he has a big dick and want others, who may never get to be with a big one in their life, have the chance with his cock. This might be controversial, but if he cheated on me, I wouldn’t even be upset. Instead it would fucking turn me on!

And on a side note, you have a fucking huge dick, man!

 

[MTWTFSS]

I had in mind asking this of guys married to a woman like myself, but maybe it could be the same for a gay man. When I first was married my wife enjoyed that I had a large penis even on occasion had a nick-name for it like "King Snake" or others where she had some focus about it. It was ego boosting and fun to hear that or things like I was way larger than anyone she had been with or other comments aimed about my superior cock. But, over the years besides sex becoming infrequent and mundane, she now could care less about my size or penis size in general. That has led me to cheating with meeting others because as I saw a comment from someone else one time, "I have a big cock and want to use it!" I know the moral thing is to feel guilty. But, I don't as I enjoy the reactions and comments I get from women or couples experiencing a large penis (especially with those who hadn't

In a similar boat. It’s fun seeing peoples’ eyes light up.

 

[TryHarrd]

Married long term and str8. Firstly, as you are a long term user I'm surprised you have prodded this hornet's nest I've only been on the site 2 months and seen the responses to cheating - and don't disagree completely with them.

However, my wife has said this to me, my wife, that she can't believe men put up with sexless marriages.

 

[trulybig]

I never said "Sexless" I said infrequent, mundane, and because of a long term marriage no excitement about my size. Plus, your wife may not be considering that if you have been married a long time there likely are financial, familiarity, caring, companionship, family, and other aspects that are part of the relationship.

 

[WadWorshipper]

Well, I AM in a sexless marriage, and she no longer even mentions my cock. So yah, I get off on new playmates' eyes going wide, and being anxious to play with it at length.

 

[deleted21850121]

Well, I AM in a sexless marriage, and she no longer even mentions my cock. So yah, I get off on new playmates' eyes going wide, and being anxious to play with it at length.

I’d like to be one of those playmates. ️

 

[MTWTFSS]

I'm on vacation solo for two days.... I've been on Grindr, checking out the scene..While at dinner (again, solo at bar) I start chatting w/ a guy on Grindr and we trade pics. He's a smooth bottom, younger than me (by 18 yrs)... sends me his location.

Here's why I like fucking other men over chasing women for some ass... I found a cool bottom tonight. Gay guys, from my little-but-growing-experience love to fuck way more than women... and like to talk about.

I got there to his place, we immediately got naked and I hit my pen (cannabis) and he has poppers. He was smooth and soft... tonight was the first time I ate ass. I eat ass like I eat pussy- a champ.

This sweet little fella was flopping like a fish, then I fucked him. Shot my load deep in him and he came. We went round 2, but I couldn't nut again.

But here's what's cool- afterwards we laid there and talked about fucking. He told me about his past experiences... then we start watching videos of him getting fucked. I loved it. I know it's taboo, but I love hearing how many guys have been up in him before me.

I kinda went too far by suggesting he bring a friend over. IDK, but for some reason I really want group play.

But yeah I'm married, but there's zero sex at home. But that's fine with me... as long as I can have some ass on the side.

 

[EC1A]

I had in mind asking this of guys married to a woman like myself, but maybe it could be the same for a gay man. When I first was married my wife enjoyed that I had a large penis even on occasion had a nick-name for it like "King Snake" or others where she had some focus about it. It was ego boosting and fun to hear that or things like I was way larger than anyone she had been with or other comments aimed about my superior cock. But, over the years besides sex becoming infrequent and mundane, she now could care less about my size or penis size in general. That has led me to cheating with meeting others because as I saw a comment from someone else one time, "I have a big cock and want to use it!" I know the moral thing is to feel guilty. But, I don't as I enjoy the reactions and comments I get from women or couples experiencing a large penis (especially with those who hadn't before).

I am interested if other married well-endowed men have similar reactions where this feature we are blessed to have is not satisfied because a long term partner is use to it or no longer appreciative about it? Thoughts?

Your cock must get some serious reactions! Look at the size of it. Mouthwatering.

 

[deleted21850121]

Your cock must get some serious reactions! Look at the size of it. Mouthwatering.

Dude’s a big fucker!

 

[deleted21850121]

I'm on vacation solo for two days.... I've been on Grindr, checking out the scene..While at dinner (again, solo at bar) I start chatting w/ a guy on Grindr and we trade pics. He's a smooth bottom, younger than me (by 18 yrs)... sends me his location.

Here's why I like fucking other men over chasing women for some ass... I found a cool bottom tonight. Gay guys, from my little-but-growing-experience love to fuck way more than women... and like to talk about.

I got there to his place, we immediately got naked and I hit my pen (cannabis) and he has poppers. He was smooth and soft... tonight was the first time I ate ass. I eat ass like I eat pussy- a champ.

This sweet little fella was flopping like a fish, then I fucked him. Shot my load deep in him and he came. We went round 2, but I couldn't nut again.

But here's what's cool- afterwards we laid there and talked about fucking. He told me about his past experiences... then we start watching videos of him getting fucked. I loved it. I know it's taboo, but I love hearing how many guys have been up in him before me.

I kinda went too far by suggesting he bring a friend over. IDK, but for some reason I really want group play.

But yeah I'm married, but there's zero sex at home. But that's fine with me... as long as I can have some ass on the side.

I fucking love this! That’s one of the reasons why married dudes love us gay guys.

 

[Evenflow618]

Yes happens in many relationships. They stop caring about the size. The ladies start to watch porn and care less about sex more focused on their toys and other men.

 

[marriedasian]

If anything, perhaps your situation will shed some light on the fact that having a big dick really doesn't make or break a relationship. It's a perk and not a necessity.

My wife, to this day, has not shown any slow-down towards my penis yet. I will also add that it has probably more to do with me as a person and how I continue to keep our relationship interesting and fun. She's never "bored" is what I'm trying to say. Anyone can and will get bored of a big dick eventually if your big dick is just "big" and nothing else.

As for cheating, I don't condone it and I also understand. It's your life and you do what you want as when the consequences show up, it's you that have to suffer them, not any of us strangers on the internet.

I've never cheated on my wife since we have always had an open relationship. I still get the "big dick reactions" however it's not as big a deal anymore as it was when I was younger. Just like your wife got bored of your big dick, I think I've become bored of the reactions because it's always the same so now I'm indifferent.

If it works for you, roll with it.

 

[masonjames]

I had in mind asking this of guys married to a woman like myself, but maybe it could be the same for a gay man. When I first was married my wife enjoyed that I had a large penis even on occasion had a nick-name for it like "King Snake" or others where she had some focus about it. It was ego boosting and fun to hear that or things like I was way larger than anyone she had been with or other comments aimed about my superior cock. But, over the years besides sex becoming infrequent and mundane, she now could care less about my size or penis size in general. That has led me to cheating with meeting others because as I saw a comment from someone else one time, "I have a big cock and want to use it!" I know the moral thing is to feel guilty. But, I don't as I enjoy the reactions and comments I get from women or couples experiencing a large penis (especially with those who hadn't before).

I am interested if other married well-endowed men have similar reactions where this feature we are blessed to have is not satisfied because a long term partner is use to it or no longer appreciative about it? Thoughts?

I to have been married for many years and over the years the compliment get few and far between. While I don't have your length I do have extreme girth. It's the only one she's ever had so she doesn't appreciate my size.
Sex has gotten so It's only every now and then. I know exactly what you mean

 

[Sagittarius84]

If anything, perhaps your situation will shed some light on the fact that having a big dick really doesn't make or break a relationship. It's a perk and not a necessity.

My wife, to this day, has not shown any slow-down towards my penis yet. I will also add that it has probably more to do with me as a person and how I continue to keep our relationship interesting and fun. She's never "bored" is what I'm trying to say. Anyone can and will get bored of a big dick eventually if your big dick is just "big" and nothing else.

As for cheating, I don't condone it and I also understand. It's your life and you do what you want as when the consequences show up, it's you that have to suffer them, not any of us strangers on the internet.

I've never cheated on my wife since we have always had an open relationship. I still get the "big dick reactions" however it's not as big a deal anymore as it was when I was younger. Just like your wife got bored of your big dick, I think I've become bored of the reactions because it's always the same so now I'm indifferent.

If it works for you, roll with it.

I like this response and can relate towards several points within it, save for the open relationship.
Sex can become....infrequent at times, definitely more so on her part than mine, but boredom with my dick size has never been an issue;I'd even venture that my other efforts in maintaining both myself and the relationship have made my dick a bit of a source of competitive anxiety that pushes her to keep me from possibly straying and gifting another lucky lady or two. It's not just my dick, it's the fact that it's attached to a guy that works harder than she does, puts equivalent if not greater effort into household responsibilities and child rearing, and has a generally unbothered and positive attitude despite her known behavioral quirks. She got damn near a porn star that dailies as a responsible husband/father sleeper build, and her friends, family, Co workers, and acquaintances have never let her forget that the entirety of our relationship.

 

[coolestguy]

There are more than sex to keep a relationship going as time goes by. Looks like big dick isn't one of them.

 

[SamMann75]

I know 4 guys, all over 8 inches who not only fuck other women, their wives know and said they expected as much with their cocks being so big

 

[Almost40]

I have copied MTWTFSS.

His statement prettily much describes the way guys think. "guys, from my little-but-growing-experience love to fuck way more than women... and like to talk about." Correct and accurate to the point.

Just let me add my experience, from a different point of view. I am single and intend to stay so. For the last 8 months or so, I m seeing this married guy who has a daughter. He is trying to get his wife pregnant again. However, he confessed that sex between the two of them is not that Interesting....
But when we are together, he is so relaxed and loves to worship my cock. After we fuck, he likes to text me a ton of messages and says how great i was and how much he likes being with me etc
And to be honest it is quite rewarding and gives me a confidence boost
However besides sex, i really enjoy his company and his sense of humor and we make each other laugh etc etc...

He doesn't act this way with his wife, he told me so.

To me it is absolutely normal for a man to seek what his marriage cannot provide....

I don't interfere with his marriage Can u imagine I don't even have his phone number.
I can't cause any problem to his marriage, I don't intend to.

But I do encourage him to spend time with me, whenever he can and certainly only if it doesn't cause any harm to his marriage.

 

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[LilJock]

You don't need a big cock to enjoy cheating. I cheated on my first wife all the time -- and she did on me -- and I'm hung like a chipmunk.* I enjoyed seeing a good-looking chick fall for my looks and body. For the most part, they could give a fuck about the size of my dick. I think a lot of women are that way; they gush over a big dick because they know it boosts the guy's ego, but frankly they could care less. They've probably cut back on the sex because it's probably become pretty boring. Too many men think all they have to do is bring a big cock to bed and that'll do the trick; most women want a lot more than just a big dick -- maybe some affection and attention to them and their needs.


* We got married way too young. I was a high school football player, she was a cheerleader; she got pregnant, we got married; I went off to play football in college; she played the field closer to home. My second wife is my best friend and the girl of my dreams. I've never cheated on her. First, because I'm madly in love with her and never felt the need (we make love all the time); and, second, I'd rather remain a baritone, thank you, not a soprano.