Well hung family members/close friends

[deleted10500801]

My dad died a couple of years ago and I was assisting the nursing team wash his body etc... and when his junk was revealed a couple of the nurses looked stunned. I completely forgot he was hung like a porn star, definitely at least 8 inch and thick and apparently all the men on my dad's side are pretty big.

I didn't get those genes and I'm 6" and slightly thick. To be honest I'd love to have a beer can cock just for the aesthetics to show off naked. But practically after having sex with men and women and people telling me I'm the right size and they love the feeling of my cock in them, I'm happy with what I got. Also I get turned on more by small and average cocks on beefy guys, so it's a win for me. Yet I can see how being an average size like myself in a family of men who were the size of my dad would be really insecure.

 

[SurferGirlCA]

... based upon a text I read from my nephew (he's 24 now) to a girl, he supposedly has an 8" dick. Not having seen him naked and based upon his body size, I think he might.

I wouldn't assume the size he texts girls he is is the size he is.

 

[deleted10500801]

I wouldn't assume the size he texts girls he is is the size he is.

The average straight person whether male or female, is rarely a good judge of size or appearance, most haven't seen enough cocks IRL either flaccid or hard unlike queer guys, nudists, sex workers and even swingers.

I've heard straight women comment about cocks and be totally wrong with their estimate, sure enough they've only had a couple of monogamous relationships and seen the rest in porn.

 

[SurferGirlCA]

... I've heard straight women comment about cocks and be totally wrong with their estimate, sure enough they've only had a couple of monogamous relationships and seen the rest in porn.

Having guys (I'll be nice) overestimate their size to them since they were in high school could be another factor in women's inability to correctly guess size.

 

[deleted4500261]

Bingo!

 

[seattle_unicorn]

No But my dad did ask me how big it was, once. Haha. #Awkward

He was talking about how uncomfortable he was with his own size...wishing he was bigger. And then he point blank asked me how big I am. I was taken aback, but answered, downplaying my size, “around 9 inches,” He nodded, paused, and then said, “oh...well that’s not truly big. If you want to be truly huge, you would have to be over 10.” I was shocked he would say this.

In hind sight, I realize he was insecure and probably trying to passively hurt me. The funny thing is, though, I DO hope to achieve that number someday...even surpass it.

...I guess I see where I get my size insecurities from.

Woah, that is an awkward conversation. And clearly your dad has no good size reference or just doesn't understand measurements because 10" cocks may or may not actually exist and 9" is freaking enormous. I always love looking at your pics! That sucks he's so insecure. I get why guys are insecure, but I wish everyone could just be happy with themselves and happy for others. If I had a son who had a bigger cock than me, I'd be very happy for him.

 

[hugehungyogi]

Woah, that is an awkward conversation. And clearly your dad has no good size reference or just doesn't understand measurements because 10" cocks may or may not actually exist and 9" is freaking enormous. I always love looking at your pics! That sucks he's so insecure. I get why guys are insecure, but I wish everyone could just be happy with themselves and happy for others. If I had a son who had a bigger cock than me, I'd be very happy for him.

that’s a beautiful perspective, buddy. I know you’ve grown quite a bit over the years. If you did have a son, would you teach him the techniques you used to get even bigger?

 

[B_er]

that’s a beautiful perspective, buddy. I know you’ve grown quite a bit over the years. If you did have a son, would you teach him the techniques you used to get even bigger?

I wish my dad had teach me things like that. Its something i like to learn when i was younger.

 

[Gay Blatino]

I wish my dad had teach me things like that. Its something i like to learn when i was younger.

Same here. I wish I was bigger

 

[seattle_unicorn]

that’s a beautiful perspective, buddy. I know you’ve grown quite a bit over the years. If you did have a son, would you teach him the techniques you used to get even bigger?

Honestly that's such a difficult question to answer. On the one hand, I want to say yes because I'd want to teach my sons all sorts of valuable things, and I think he would most likely value having a bigger cock. However, realistically I don't know how I would bring up such a thing without potentially making him very uncomfortable. I'd probably find a way to subtly bring it up sometime, and if he wanted to learn more, he could ask me about it. I'm trying to imagine how I would reactivated if my dad had asked me if I wanted to learn more about it when I was younger, and I would've probably instantly died from awkwardness but also said yes.

 

[deleted10500801]

Having guys (I'll be nice) overestimate their size to them since they were in high school could be another factor in women's inability to correctly guess size.

Yep, that's the truth.

 

[BigBen]

2 very close friends and my grandpa.

During those years my father, both my paternal and maternal grandfathers, their brothers (my great uncles), my mothers older brother (my maternal uncle) and my fathers brothers (paternal uncles)....

In the rural/small town of the paternal side of my family, there was one much, much older guy...George....(I long ago shared a blog post about George and his wife).,,,he was an employee for physical labor moving furniture and such... of my paternal side aunt (and her husband) who owned a furniture store and a moving and storage company...he was their sole full time employee that worked/managed the storage warehouses....and during some days, when my aunt/uncle's business did not "need" him because nothing was scheduled....he also from time to time worked as a day laborer on my paternal grandfathers farm..which was located just a few miles...actually walking distance (I walked it many times), from the furniture store/moving/storage warehouses. It is another story...but his wife and he were actually "swingers" of that era...(he had a whopper "horse cock" and his wife was a nymphomaniac size queen) and they, occasionally...had sex with my paternal grandparents...my paternal grandfather had an even larger "horse cock" and apparently my maternal grandmother from time to time liked for the variety George's giant cock too. Though I did know of this and George and his wife (for the life of me I can not remember her name...just what she looked like...in time, she was eventually the first black woman I ever had sex with...

And then there was Ricky. (And there is a blog post about Ricky...one of the nicest and kindest people I have ever met in all of my life).... He was the mentally challenged young man...maybe nearly ten years or so????? older than I....I do not remember exactly how much older he was that I....(there was a rumor...never verified to my knowledge... that he was in some way related to my paternal family...as for many decades his mother...since her own youth...had had sex with my paternal grandfather, his brothers (my paternal great uncles), my fathers brothers (my paternal uncles), and at least a few times before may father went in to the military and left home (he met my mother after he was discharged from the military)...she had sex with my father. Any way....I posted on my blog about Ricky.

 

[deleted1025121]

I definitely pulled the shortest straw in the family on this one. I'm the smallest for sure from the few I've seen. But we aren't naked and might only catch a glance through a shower door or something. But I'm not sure there are true methods to really gain size. I've tried the jelqing, bathmates, etc. I think you're either hung or not. Not like I could ever grow my 6" to be 9. That would just be impossible. One usually has to have some size to stretch out to begin with. I think its all just about accepting your size. Ive made jokes about myself over the years as a defense mechanism so when one of my friends or family really does seem me..its not as bad as the micropenis that I've lead on it to be.

 

[Andypandy]

I have seen my dads dick various times he is not small and he has surely seen me in all modes of undress and jerking. One night he stayed over at my place (slept on the sofa) well next morning I come out there he is stretched out on the sofa covers kicked off with a fucking boner laying up his belly for a moment I didn't know what to do so I threw a sheet back over him and went and made coffee I think I was traumatized lol. Then we started having card night at my place (worst decision ever) well we got round to playing strip poker when he had to drop his shorts he stood up dropped them and a floppy dick about six inches or so fell out I am not having card nights any more LOL

 

[Andypandy]

I have seen my dads dick various times he is not small and he has surely seen me in all modes of undress and jerking. One night he stayed over at my place (slept on the sofa) well next morning I come out there he is stretched out on the sofa covers kicked off with a fucking boner laying up his belly for a moment I didn't know what to do so I threw a sheet back over him and went and made coffee I think I was traumatized lol. Then we started having card night at my place (worst decision ever) well we got round to playing strip poker when he had to drop his shorts he stood up dropped them and a floppy dick about six inches or so fell out I am not having card nights any more LOL

There are six of us in the card game

 

[Mount Phalic]

Heard about his own son be bigger than he must have make him feel, i don't know, emasculated.
that's why he may tried to hurt you.

That's no excuse. What a thing for him to say.

 

[EvurHard7]

There are six of us in the card game

If you let your dad keep playing, I'd happily come join.

 

[B_er]

That's no excuse. What a thing for him to say.

I agree, i dont try to give excuses, i just said what he must think when he said that.
Fathers need to suport their sons.

 

[Mount Phalic]

I agree, i dont try to give excuses, i just said what he must think when he said that.
Fathers need to suport their sons.

Yes, they need to, absolutely. By the way, you have an impressive dick, impressive as hell with a big, hot head.

 

[freeurmind7]

the biggest ive seen in my family is my dad and a cousin