Well....i just got fucked! and need help fucking him...

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i am fine with them trying to help me, what i am NOT fine with is them calling me a liar and saying i am 15
Sorry but you totally are acting it, by not buying protection and lube cause your scared your neighbor is going to tell someone
but...they also said it was "people like me" who spread STDs....i also know for a fact, that he has NO diseases....
That is what most people think... Oh I trust him, he surely can't have anything he is a virgin. Maybe he was an intravenous drug user before you knew him... or he was raped, or goodness knows what... until you get a test done you have no clue what he may have.
 

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i still say you guys are overreacting about this....why not just answer the question i asked and quit telling me how to live my life?
 

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like i said, it was a preference....i dont like condoms...but if we were to get condoms....i might go get some....but ask her not to tell...if she does, i will tell her about her son's "experiences..." lol...im not that mean

Uhhhh, Her Son's Experiences ????? Oh Boy !

Anyway.......I'll spare you the lectures.....

If you are not gonna use Condoms.........Heck....Just use Baby Oil, Olive Oil, Vasiline, What's the problem here ????:rolleyes:
 

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thank you for actually answering the question Bolt Upright...you are one of the few on here with the decency to not tell people what they should be doing...and i thank you for that
 

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i am 20 years old....why do u insist i am younger than i say i am?
i do know that it is irresponsible...but if i fuck 1 person bareback...and only that 1 person...what does it hurt? we aren't spreading it if we stay monogamous....but anyways, its what I like...if you have a big problem with it, i think YOU guys need to grow up and accept other people's preferences...if everyone was as critical of you guys, gay bashings would be the norm, and there are more pressing matters for you guys to yell about....like scat....that is disgusting in my opinion...spreads E. Coli which is GUARANTEED to be there...STDs are not GOING to be there....there is a CHANCE! so if you want to yell about stuff that is not ur business, yell about the people who do stuff that is DEADLY and GUARANTEED to exist....

I think you'll find that the very people that are being critical about your irresponsible decisions with sexual protection are the VERY SAME PEOPLE that rally for gay rights here at LPSG. Your comments are inaccurate and insulting, to say the least.

I could care less that you "didn't ask for our opinions" regarding condoms. Once you post, the thread takes a life of its own as others add their flavor to it. I guess with your 17 posts to date you feel you have the right to dictate how people use LPSG.
 

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If they ask why your getting it tell them you like to put lube on the floor and pretend your ice skating.:tongue:
 

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You wanna fuck with out lube..........finger him....Eat his ass.....
but I think you are wrong...to try breaking someone in without lube....
do you want to hurt him....??? You can cause lots of little tears inside the rectum
 

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thank you for actually answering the question Bolt Upright...you are one of the few on here with the decency to not tell people what they should be doing...and i thank you for that

I will ask again. What's wrong with going to the store by yourself to get the lube?
 

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we did use spit and some vaseline, but the vaseline is oily and got everywhere....i was talking true lube like astroglide...
 

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i am fine with them trying to help me, what i am NOT fine with is them calling me a liar and saying i am 15...they also said it was "people like me" who spread STDs....i also know for a fact, that he has NO diseases....
I'm 56 years old. I understand how you feel. I understand how trusting you are.

You asked for help. I wish I could tell you there is a way for you to fuck your friend without lube. The suggestions about using the finger in a circular motion will help. Also don't push it. By that I mean once you hit the spot where he feels pain, just wait a while until the muscles relax and then continue.

But the deal is some people HAVE TO USE LUBE, Some don't. You can get lube without getting caught. Suggestions were made. You may not know this, but a hospital or a medical clinic can't reveal what you get. The privacy act is supposed to prevent that. An employee revealing that kind of information and get caught will be fired.

About condoms. Please don't take the suggestions too harshly. They are really trying to help you. Maybe their choice of words wasn't the best for you to hear. But many of this guys have lost a friend because of unprotected sex. Consider it a well intentioned suggestion. Be thankful that even though you didn't ask for it, people were trying to look out for you. If you were about to walk across the road and a semi truck was about to hit you, you would be glad someone yanked you out of harm's way.

Here is the deal. I don't doubt that your friend is a virgin. I don't doubt that in this particular case you are safe. But consider this, patterns are set and are hard to change. Sooner or later, if you keep having bareback sex, some one who you trust will swear they are clean and you will contract something you don't want.

There was a case several years ago where a girl contracted aids. She deliberately seduced as many guys as she could trying to pass the disease on to as many as she could because she was angry. She was arrested for attempting murder as I recall for trying to give a terminal illness to someone. It was a big media event. Don't know how it turned out.

I don't like using condoms either. But I would never have sex with anyone without using one. At my age, anyone I might have sex with would have been around the block a time or two.

There have been wives who have contracted a dissease from the husband that they trusted with their lives. And sometimes it destroyed the marriage and wreaked havoc on everyone's lives.

I do understand how much you trust your friend and how much he trusts you. But since you have had sex with more than one person, there is no way to prove you haven't contracted somethinig without a medical test.

You have to act on faith in your situation. I just can't leave myself open to a possible disease. I don't have that kind of faith in people.

Do you know how many people have said after contracting something that they just trusting the other partner so much between sobs as they received their medical verdict.

I tell my teen boys in church, "If you are going to ride a motor cycle, wear your helmet. You never know when or where you might have an accident"

This anology tells it all. You can't know in advance which partner either lied or really didn't know that had "this disease."

Good luck to you.
 

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Look Koty, you're getting defensive now, so no matter what anybody says to the contrary, you're not going to listen to it. I'm giving you this info now because I don't want you to give your partner anal fissures due to lack of information.

If you are barebacking and don't have lube handy, find some pure olive oil or vegetable oil and use that. Make sure you or your partner don't have food allergies (such as peanuts or peanut oil). Crisco shortening works too but could get messy. Petrolatum Jelly is second best, but remember it's a by product from processing crude oil... try to stick with plant based products. Don't use hand lotion because it's formulated to be absorbed by your skin, not stay slick. Try to use new containers of the stuff so it's reasonably sterile going up his ass; and it's gross if your mom starts cooking with your leftover sex lube. Besides, using butter might contain bread crumbs stuck to it... uh, yeah. Any type of soap is a bad idea, it's slippery at first but then becomes sticky from the residue, ouch! Hair conditioner has alcohol and other stuff that will start to burn the anus.

If you use any oil based product make sure it's pure and doesn't contain anything else; the anal walls WILL absorb those extraneous impurities and could make him sick. ANYTHING OIL BASED WILL DESTROY LATEX CONDOMS!

Most importantly, foreplay is important. After loosening him up with your fingers, work in a circular motion working up to three or four fingers, slowly start penetration. Only fuck with the head of your dick at first... only one or two inches in and out. Don't force the whole head in if he can't take it, take time and it'll work. Eventually he'll be able to take your whole cock inch by inch.
 

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thank you for actually answering the question Bolt Upright...you are one of the few on here with the decency to not tell people what they should be doing...and i thank you for that


Well, you may want to read my posts on this thread, as I actually took the time to come up with helpful solutions.
 

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Well, you may want to read my posts on this thread, as I actually took the time to come up with helpful solutions.

this is true, but then u said i must be 15, and i too offense to that because, in my opinion, you called me a liar...

im just being a little sensitive maybe, but i believe the only person to make those kind of decisions is myself...i thank you for trying to get me to use condoms, but there are soem problems with them and me....i am thick and they break a lot for me...it soemtimes hurts...

i also dont use condoms after one broke as i was cumming into my girlfriend...luckily she did not get pregnant, but i will NEVER let that happen again...my pharmacy doesn't carry thick condoms, so i have to get them online...as i have no credit card (i am NOT going to mess up my credit...) and i dont have a debit card, i have no way to get them....i do not feel comfortable going into a "sex store" so i cant get them there....THAT is why i dotn use condoms in a nutshell....


FYI, i have had only 1 condom NOT break on me....and i have used like 4 boxes already....think about that
 

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What else are you using with the condoms. I think you should do what some of the others have said and get someone else to go get some condoms for you.
 

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What else are you using with the condoms. I think you should do what some of the others have said and get someone else to go get some condoms for you.
 

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this is true, but then u said i must be 15, and i too offense to that because, in my opinion, you called me a liar...
Actually, it was Kink who called you a 15 year old. I asked how old you are.

im just being a little sensitive maybe, but i believe the only person to make those kind of decisions is myself...i thank you for trying to get me to use condoms, but there are soem problems with them and me....i am thick and they break a lot for me...it soemtimes hurts...
I saw your pictures and I understand your dilema. To be honest, you aren't huge in regards to your girth but you are above average. I'm a guy with a thick penis as well. There are condoms out there dude. You honestly just have to look. They may cost a bit more, but they are worth it, IN MY OPINION.


i also dont use condoms after one broke as i was cumming into my girlfriend...luckily she did not get pregnant, but i will NEVER let that happen again...my pharmacy doesn't carry thick condoms, so i have to get them online...as i have no credit card (i am NOT going to mess up my credit...) and i dont have a debit card, i have no way to get them....i do not feel comfortable going into a "sex store" so i cant get them there....THAT is why i dotn use condoms in a nutshell....

I'm going to give you a warning here. Listen to my words as they will save you a lot of grief.

The reason a few people may be concerned about your age is your above comments. In this day and age, it is INCREDIBLY rare to not have a credit card OR a debit card. I mean, no matter how small your town is....it's rare. People will question this.

Second, the question of maturity is an issue here. People always say, "if you aren't willing to be safe, why are you havin sex?" I think recent revelations from nakedwally has kind of shaken us all. I mean, he's only 25/26 and he is HIV positive due to barebacking. It shows that people aren't exactly invincible. Regardless of your opinion about the guy, the fact is... yes, they can be a virgin but not everyone in your life will be a virgin. There's a risk. Be aware.

FYI, i have had only 1 condom NOT break on me....and i have used like 4 boxes already....think about that

Think about this, there are MANY people here who are bigger than you in the cock department. Check some of the threads about condoms. You would be surprised that guys with 9 inch dicks can fit into condoms.... They are out there and not too hard to find. There is a difference between being unable to find condoms, and not looking.
 

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im just being a little sensitive maybe, but i believe the only person to make those kind of decisions is myself...
True enough, but if you're as inexperienced as you say, don't you think that people who have been there, done that are worth paying a little attention to?

i thank you for trying to get me to use condoms, but there are soem problems with them and me....i am thick and they break a lot for me...it soemtimes hurts...
Well, to be blunt, you're gonna have to get used to it. As someone suggested, take a trip out of town one day. The big superstores will have what you need. Female contraceptives work for the pregnancy issue, but there are so many other issues - condoms really are required. You just have to work at finding the right ones.

This was never supposed to be "beat up on koty" day. Honestly, we're not trying to be mean - at least not most of us. But it's important to get into good habits as early as possible. Since the current US government's policy towards sex education is basically to stick their fingers in their ears and hum really loud, we have to do what we can to teach the next generation the lessons we learned the hard way.