Well...my gf found my profile...we broke up.

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You mean those XXX, raunchy, overtly sexual two shirtless pics you have up?! I've seen more revealing shots in summer church camp photos! (Or did you have some dick shots up that you since took down?)
If you're that open and comfortable about sex and your sexuality, I think you'd be much better off and MUCH happier in the long run with a woman who is at least somewhat on the same page as you. Having to bury and hide all that would NOT have been a healthy thing for you after a while. (Sounds like it already wasn't.)


My pics...and I guess the general attitude/subject of the forum. Like I said....she's really uptight about sexuality and anything to do with it. Whereas I'm straight as an arrow....I'm open about sex....I like to talk about it it....to just about anybody who'll listen. And as far as the pics....that was just me being vain...I guess I kinda deserve a little ridicule on that.
 

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She must be crazy to give up that big bulge of yours. I would never walk away from a guy who had that much to offer!
 

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You mean those XXX, raunchy, overtly sexual two shirtless pics you have up?! I've seen more revealing shots in summer church camp photos! (Or did you have some dick shots up that you since took down?)
If you're that open and comfortable about sex and your sexuality, I think you'd be much better off and MUCH happier in the long run with a woman who is at least somewhat on the same page as you. Having to bury and hide all that would NOT have been a healthy thing for you after a while. (Sounds like it already wasn't.)

I agree.. whats wrong with the two pics you have posted?.. they aren't even naked..

you should post more..

who needs girls.. I'd have fun with you and you can be on any websites you want.. lol..
 

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Would have thought yr still allowed a Personal life, gf only after all
perhaps a little more committal would give ownership? ( a bit more of)
I would be damn annoyed re blatant snooping tbh, would have told HER off hah
she may have done you a favour, but maybe regretting it also? 5hrs only huh
Cheers, not to worry things will improve
 

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My situation probably doesn't help, we met here, so yep, they know :smile:

Sorry to hear you had to go through that, but if she got that upset without giving you the courtesy of at least discussing it, that's pretty questionable.

They sound like a very lucky person! :wink:

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As for the OP, did she say specifically why she wanted to break up with you just because you had a profile here?

I realize most guys/girls would be like, "OMG the site has penis in the name go it's gay/wierd!"

But at the same time if they didn't insist on being so prudish, maybe you could explain to them that this site is quite a bit more than it appears to be on the surface. :smile:
 
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Stumbled.......like Germany stumbled into Poland.

It sounds like oil and water in the sexuality/intimacy/comfortably stakes, you each have your own preferences however it seems like you have to a lot more accepting and being flexible in understanding and relating than she does with you....it doesn't sound equal. Maybe its more of a lost opportunity for her than it is for you....theres been a lot of very reasonable and insightful comment already regarding this, most of which i agree with.
 

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IMO, a good relationship is built on trust. Jealousy and envy have no place in the relationship I have with my husband. Trust means we share things and we don't look for red flags or go snooping in each other's business.

To answer the OP, my husband found this site for me. He does not have an account here, nor does he ever "look over my shoulder." However, I do discuss interesting things I find here and have asked him a few times to get an account. I think "Mr. Fancy" could provide some sage advice for younger "smaller" guys. (he says he is not interested.) But he knows I enjoy the site and he is very comfortable with me playing here.

It is not important what your girl read... it IS important that she felt she had to snoop to read it... that she could not trust you.

If you can't get beyond the trust issue... I personally do not see a future with this girl..
 

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You obviously don't deserve her; you deserve someone better. She is insecure and frightened she is going to lose you. Reaffirming her day-after-day; hour-after-hour -- won't help, either.

Find somone more mature, more sexually liberated, more compassionate and loving.
 

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I have found in my line of work, that most people harbor secrets from their partners.... some lite...some very dark.... some funny...some sad....

just sayin...