B_subgirrl
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I totally agree what she did was wrong however I have to say that if I found my partner had a secret account on any sexually based website I would be hurt too.
I value honesty above anything else in a relationship. I try really hard not to keep secrets and my life is a completely open book (once I get to know you). I have had partners who don't need the same level of openness and it becomes obvious that we're not suited to one another. To me, honesty is intimacy. It has much less to do with anything sexual for me and a lot to do with the lack of respect that being dishonest shows.
I totally agree with this. If a partner was on a site like LPSG and felt the need to hide it, I would be wondering what it was they were hiding.
Whilst she should never have done what she did, IMO the OP was in the wrong as much as his gf was.