Well...my gf found my profile...we broke up.

[BBBunny]

i just noticed your post count. new bug!

Squishy, squishy!

 

[ThePipe]

Your profile shows no naked pictures. You say yove behaved yourself....what exactly was her issue? I really don't get it. Did she read something she didn't like?

 

[D_Judith K Rantz]

Well, apparently while snooping through my phone while I slept my gf stumbled upon my profile. She was hysterical about it....and subsequently broke up with me. Can't say I'm surprised though. I like this site though. Even though I don't cam or anything I just like reading the threads and putting in my two cent. Are any of you "attached"...and if so does your significant other know about your profile here?

Sounds like it was her loss...and that she quite possibly has some issues to work out. It's just a profile on a forum...

I wouldn't care less if my boyfriend had a profile on here and/or showed his nice dick off...but that's just me. :wink: I would have no right to do such a thing and invade his privacy, anyway.

In my opinion, someone who
1) is so sneaky gets so hysterical over something so petty
2) is so insecure, untrusting and sneaky
is better off not having the great opportunity to be with you. You'll find someone better for you, don't worry.

 

[travis1985]

she sounds like a loony.
snooping through your phone?
should've been you dumping her!

Second this. Snooping? Not communicating when something bothers her? Not giving the courtesy of hearing you out? I think you dodged a bullet.

 

[rbkwp]

Can we have an update please OP
- is she still around
- has she written you off completely
- have you written her off completely
- is there a likeliehood it will be resumed etc etc..

How many days now?
they call it closure'

 

[Drifterwood]

You got any pics of her lady bits?

 

[hungteen19921992]

The only way I could understand her decision is if you don't have a large penis.

Since you don't have any pictures of your johnson, you might have an average/small penis. I would understand her confusion if you are on here and are not well endowed yourself - she would probably think you liked looking at large penises.

 

[Unnamed]

You got any pics of her lady bits?

aka "tits or gtfo"

 

[INDFEM]

Even I am afraid of the same.....But, I am more than sure that finding one of the guys I know from India on this Forum is IMPOSSIBLE !!

 

[B_Demonofthemist]

All my women never touch my computer or electronics.. password that shit. Also I use multiple browers... googel chrome is for this site. I also use it for reading anmie or manga, which is my hidden secret. My ex never new I read the manga every week and watched the anime. lol All about knowing how to hide your shit.

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

my girlfriend told me that my penis is for her eyes only which is just as well because i dont want a bunch of gays looking at my junk

 

[deleted564802]

I do consider any form of secret intimacy, and that includes cybersex and camming, to be cheating, and I have no desire to do any of those things. So long as I'm just doing pointlessly detailed statistical analyses and posting the odd goofy dick pick, I have a clear conscience.

Exactly my thoughts!

 

[tbrguy]

I don't wish to sound cold and unsympathetic.

But, how strong could your relationship have been if the events as you describe them resulted in the outcome as stated?

Surely neither one of you could have known the other as well as you thought?

And neither one of you showed the other the respect and courtesy each deserved.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

I'm very open about my membership here. Every boyfriend of mine (since joining the site) knows that I'm here and some have also created accounts. None of them are active any longer, I don't think this place was really for them. They were all comfortable with it. I was also respectful of them and wouldn't cam, ogle pictures, etcetera.

 

[NoH8]

reasons to stay single: i couldn't bear living with the thought police. unless someone is cheating or doing something that impacts on the relationship then they have the right to privacy. especially since they're only dating.


do we confess every book we read? come clean over every checkout guy/girl we flirted with at the store? confess every time a conversation with our friends has a sexual content? keep a porn & masturbation diary for the other half to check up on?

where do we draw the line?
mental.

I'm so with you Dolfette! Privacy does not automatically imply dishonesty.

I totally love sharing stories about flirting and I do tell all about what kind of porn I've been watching with details about how I've been masturbating.

Like I said, people desire different amounts of communication.

The point is that this is voluntary sharing in your case. Both partners agree on the boundaries. Unless I have voluntarily shared with you my bank account, the contents of my wallet or computer or phone then you have no right to go into it. That is not intimacy, that is abuse. I don't know the entitlements that the status of Girfriend deserves, but if I had a Boyfriend that did this I'd throw him out in a heartbeat.

there's a difference between sharing a story you think he might enjoy and feeling obligated to disclose every incident.

Absolutely. She was playing a power game with the OP, who sounds, (admittedly only from his side) like a sweet guy.

I'm sorry that he never got the chance to offer to show her a new wider world on the internet, like a kind of tour guide, just like he did with other things in their relationship.

Had she just ASKED our free thinking, exhibitionistic friend, he would have been only too glad to share this special part of his personality and physical attractiveness. It's regrettable that she never gave herself the chance to grow and mature alongside her man. Rather she chose to hurt, shame and abuse him. Most importantly, he should not shoulder guilt about this and hopefully he'll learn to choose friends who are more respectful and trusting in the future.

 

[bighogg]

Dont have that problem guess i'm lucky> My girlfriend has her own page here (Bigboobblonde) and we go on together guess even though I going through a rough patch im good on that aspect of life.